Is it possible to love a little bit less, to be able to love a little longer

Deshaun 2022-04-22 07:01:54

X, I recommend you a movie - "Introduction to Architecture" Han Jiaren, played by my goddess. The first time I met her was in "New Member", I thought she looked very much like you, and I fell in love with her ever since.

The male protagonist, Seungmin, always encounters the female protagonist Seo Yeon on the bus, so he doesn't dare to strike up a conversation, and secretly looks at Seo Yeon's delicate face reflected on the glass window. Even if you get off at the same stop, even if you are on the same road home, you can only follow far behind.
When we were in the same class, every day after school, I would deliberately linger for a while, and then go to the 529 bus stop. There is a junction in front of the 529 station, which is the 521 station. You always stand quietly waiting for the bus. A position in the crowd. At that time, I would slow down, pass behind you, and look at your long ponytail and white neck. Sometimes, you will turn your head to look at the passing vehicles. I wish you could accidentally see me when you turn your head, but I am afraid that you will actually see me. How many times have I impulsively wanted to pass in front of you, and then "suddenly" see you and say hello; how many times I have persuaded myself against my will, many people are waiting for the car, what are you doing? Finally walk away from behind you.

Seo Yeon was very happy to meet Seungmin after more than ten years, "It's been a long time, the address on the classmate's record is really hard to find." Rui Yan didn't recognize her; she was embarrassed, "But... who are you?" Rui Yan, who had already sat down, stood up in a panic and explained incoherently. However, when Seo Yeon later revealed her intentions: to rebuild a house for her father and herself, and to speak for herself, Seungmin betrayed him by looking at Seo Yeon.
How can you forget.
He could deceive Seo Yeon, he could deceive the audience, but he could not deceive himself.
When I see you seven years later, it will be the class reunion. When I walked into the restaurant that day, I happened to receive an inconsequential call. You stood in the hallway in a pale green dress, smiling as I approached. At that time, the time I saw you was only 0.01 seconds, but it was enough to make my heart beat fast. After 0.01 seconds, I can make two choices: put down the phone, stand still, stare, smile, "long time no see"; Wu's phone call, and then turned around, "I'm sorry, hello so-and-so, hello so-and-so, and hello X" in exchange for your sentence, "You're so busy"

The story of Seungmin and Seoyeon is very simple. Every day, they explore the corners of Seoul by car, play thug games, and talk about their families. Every time he came back from a "date", Shengmin would excitedly share it with his good buddies, attracting a burst of contempt.
I remember it was a little bit. After school at noon, in the small hall outside the school gate, you and I usually call Z, and the three of us get together to eat a small stove. If it was just the two of us, I think we would not be used to it at that time. There is also the composition writing assigned by the Chinese teacher every week. After each delivery, when you borrow mine to look at it, I will grab yours; "Oh my god, the teacher also commented that you have Jia Pingwa's style, tsk tsk. ”, “Uh… I can make up 800 words when I go to the park on Sunday. I really admire you.” Reading your words is like spending the most exciting spring outing with you last week, or that quiet afternoon. Your comfortable nap, or your sudden melancholy on that rainy weekend.
In order to give you an article that is not perfunctory every week, I worked hard to find all the beauty in life in those days, and I worked hard to record all my emotions. Just like Seungmin, when he and Seo Yeon completed the extracurricular homework of Introduction to Architecture, they discovered the forgotten scenery in the city. Thank you for always reading my composition, making that ordinary day extraordinary.

The so-called senior brother of fire prevention, anti-theft and defense, the tall, rich and handsome brother Jae-wook appeared at the right time, launched a seemingly gentle offensive against Seo-yeon, and even invited Seo-yeon in front of Seung-min who was pretending to be sleeping, perhaps because Seung-min's feelings for Seo-yeon were too subtle , Jae-wook doesn't care about Seungmin at all.
Once, Y said to me on the way from school, "X is in front, are you chasing?" "...I'm not chasing", "Then I'm chasing" and what I did was to pace slowly and watch Y run to By your side, side by side, you are getting farther and farther. Just like Seungmin, he chose to get out of the car to escape; he chose not to knock on the door in the end, but left the elaborate model outside Seoyeon's door.

An exquisite small building was finally completed, Seo Yeon's wish was fulfilled, and Seungmin's original promise was fulfilled. After all the dust settled, Seungmin finally admitted his feelings for Seo Yeon, and accidentally discovered the model Seo Yeon had always kept, which he had discarded at the beginning, and also discovered that Seo Yeon has never forgotten that year. time.
That year, I went to study abroad and left your city; on a very ordinary day, I said to S, "I miss her", "Just make a phone call if you want", the first call I made with courage, After careful testing, you definitely told me "it was possible in the past, but now it's impossible for us."
Before and after that moment, I have never seen myself shed so many tears.
In a movie, the camera can zoom in on the model, stop for a few seconds, and tell the audience what the model means. Life is not a movie, and I don't know if this statement of yours has the same meaning as that treasured model, and can prove anything. After all, this sentence is the end of those times.

At the end of the film, Shengmin is still on a flight to the United States with his new wife. Seo Yeon finally moved into the house that Seungmin repaired for her. She received the last package that Seungmin sent. Inside was the CD that had been passed around several times. The film ended in the song "Study of Memory".
Before going abroad, you said that you would practice it for me, and we finally, for the first and last time, "date" alone. In McDonald's, when you eat, I look silly, smile silly, and talk silly. Men's IQ drops to zero in this situation, do you know what it means? After the meal, you said that you would give me a stone from the Stone Book. You said that each stone in the Stone Book was unique... It was a small black stone in the shape of a cross, hung by a thread, and it was used as a necklace. I grinned and begged you to help me fasten it, but you grinned and refused. In the end, I put it on myself, touched it again, and looked at you silly and cheerful.
That stone necklace, I have been wearing it since I went abroad, until I fell in love with S, I still wear it. Not long after we fell in love, S went back to China for a vacation, and a few friends and I went to the beach to play. It was a cloudy afternoon, playing and playing, and when I touched it, the necklace fell into the sea. I don’t know how long I searched, but I didn’t find it in the end. I stood in the waist-deep sea water, watching the dense clouds spread their teeth and claws across the sky, and listened to the sound of waves crashing towards them.
Standing alone for a long time.

After I got home, I called you for the last time:
"X, I lost the necklace you gave me"
"If I lose it, I lose it. I'll give you another when you come back."

At that time, you were already Y girlfriend
At that time, I was already S's boyfriend

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Seungmin . You in life were luckier than Seo Yeon. You are married and have a home for both of you

because I will recommend you to watch a plot like this movie. I have doubted myself more than once. There is no R-rated content in your story at all. I haven't even said those three words before. Why should I remember those things for so long? . This movie taught me that I can recall what I want to recall.
Because of the ending of this movie, I dare to recommend you to watch it, now you have your life, I have my life, we live in our own lives, you have a past CD in my life , it just stays in that corner quietly, it won't affect anyone, anything, it's fine.

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