When you uncover the dusty first love, you find that love is no longer a matter of two people

Darron 2022-04-21 09:03:39

In fact, all kinds of small freshness, we have seen a lot, experienced a lot, all kinds of self-esteem, all kinds of cowardice, all kinds of misunderstandings, intertwined in the rainy season flowers, and then burn the surging fire in the blood, accompanied by invincible youth without whitewashing The smile of hers has made her the beauty and uniqueness of her first love, the lingering she once possessed and recalled for a long time.
First love is destined to be too idealistic. If you fall in love, the other party is the whole world, constantly nibbling away aggression and expanding; It was all because we were under an invisible roof. At that time, Huafa had not yet climbed up to his parents' temples, and their hunched bodies shielded us from the wind and rain, resisted the frost and snow, and fell into pure clarity. The children in love are completely unaware of the efforts and struggles of their parents, their strength and compromise, and their love is so selfless and ecstatic. This is the privilege of first love, the privilege of those years.
This film is called "Introduction to Architecture", which seems a bit strange at first glance, and it is difficult to fit the theme of a romantic film, but after watching the movie, close the laptop, the warmth in the Introduction to Architecture class and the completion of the "literary" homework The process of the film is interspersed between this scene, fresh and tight, and coupled with the background of the director's engineering male, the title of the film is not difficult to understand.
It may be because I have reached this age, but when I watched it for the second time, it was a heavier feeling in my heart. Shengmin's mother's hardships and hardships, warm rambles, she sold the store to support her child's dream, but did not expect a little return from her son. She has been cooking the taste of her hometown for her child for decades, and she still guards the old house and that place. It records the sad and happy old house where single mothers raise their children. Of course, the classic tears must be mentioned. It is the old T-shirt with "GEUSS" printed on it, which reminds me of my dad wearing my high school sports when he got up early to exercise. Pants, my mother transformed the blue and white sweater I was wearing as a baby into a winter dress for my 17-year-old cat, and tears welled up in my eyes. Then there is Ruiying's father. Although he is still seriously ill, he enjoys sitting in front of the renovated old house, looking at the small footprints in the pool, looking at the brick wall that measures the height of his little daughter, and the corners of his mouth float. A faint smile reminded me of my grandfather after a stroke. He had a naming aphasia. He couldn't understand many everyday things. It sounded like nonsense. It's hard work, but it's so clear, that heavy concern is the luggage that I can't lose no matter where I go.
Therefore, when the passion fades, the tentacles of the years climb up on the face, and the pace of the parents staggers more and more, the two people who are still in love join hands to unseal the first love, only to find that love is no longer a matter of two people.
Some people said angrily that Shengmin was an unfilial son who had to go to the United States regardless of his mother's life and death. What I want to say is that he understands his mother’s expectations and cares. Moreover, he will cut his heart like a sharp knife after leaving his homeland. What can heal the wounds of a wandering child is his mother’s unchanging deep affection. I believe he will soon be I will come back, and I will be by my mother's side, and I will not leave. And Ruiying, choosing to accompany her father in her homeland, is also deeply attached to her family. Maybe in this world, only you understand my joy. And love, the more it gets to this time, the more heavy it is, and the less it is a matter of two people.
Maybe she will say that the person who is most like Dad Otter is my lover; maybe he will say, I don't want anyone who doesn't love or honor my mother, no matter how excited I am, and no matter how beautiful I am!
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