When I was in high school and I was in junior high school, I felt that people’s herd mentality is very strong. A person always wants to get closer to the group, so what people in the group do, they will do what they do spontaneously. Together, they will exclude a person even though that person has nothing. Do, when he asks you to do something, in order to integrate, you will agree to do it even if you don't know the meaning or even don't want to.
Everyone I know since college is a different individual, and everyone has their own shining points. There is no need to ask most people to like you, and don’t want to integrate into the collective because you are afraid of loneliness. Who you are can naturally be. Find your own collective, even if you don't, you're the most unique version of yourself.
Children's concepts are incomplete and there is no bottom line to understand. Adults of middle social status who have established a world outlook, a life outlook and a correct moral inclination, think more, and even do things that go against their own concepts.
Finally, I want to say that when you realize that this is a tricky thing, especially when you need to continue and take part of the responsibility for it, please stop in time and say no, in reality, many things may really be impossible to stop once they start .
"push, whatever it takes"
"no way"
"we can push it back"
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