"If I was brave at the time, would the ending be different; if you insisted, would the memory be unusual?" This sentence is probably mentioned in every youth novel, film and television work about missing, and those who love , it became an unforgettable memory. In recent years, there have been many movies about youth, from To Youth to You at the same table, from the rush to us, each of them is about the love of young people, about each other that has been missed, and it has aroused the resonance of many people. . But can you do whatever you want in the name of love? (Not all of these videos have problems, they are just examples of movies about youth) It is never wrong to love someone, and it is human nature to be obsessed with your ex after breaking up. It is also common to have a cinnabar mole in your heart and the white moonlight in front of the window. But all of this should be based on the fact that you are single and the other party is single. If both parties are single, you will never forget each other and rekindle a good story, and you will reap the blessings of everyone; if both parties are single, you will be brooding about the past, and you will not regret waiting for each other; and if the other party already has someone to accompany you for a lifetime, Then no matter how deeply you love the other party, you must hide these thoughts. If you can't hide it, stay away from his life and let each other forget each other in the arena. No matter what excuse is not a reason to destroy other people's feelings, Xiao wants to have a married man. It is sinful; and if both parties are already accompanied, then they will be happy and forget each other in the rivers and lakes, or if they meet each other with a smile, the past will be like the wind; if two people are already married, you will marry me, and you will have to remember each other when we meet again after many years. The affection of the past, say I love you, say we missed it, I have never lost my love to you for so many years, then, where do you put your present? ? ? ? I don't understand the logic in the film, can two people reunite after many years to be alone in a hotel for some reason? If in order to show the gentleman's demeanor, shouldn't the heroine go to the hotel and wait in line? If you want to show a friendly relationship, you can also wait in line together. Lonely men and widows are alone in a hotel in the middle of the night. They used to be boyfriend and girlfriend friends. Don’t you know how to avoid it? ? If they have a clear conscience and don't know that their behavior is inappropriate, why does the female lead know to avoid it when the male lead and daughter are in the video? If two people are single, then your love is understandable, but if one of them is married, shouldn't he be responsible for the marriage, be loyal to his wife, and keep a distance from his ex? Some people intercede to the depths and it is difficult to restrain themselves, and nothing happened in the same room. So I want to ask, since it has been recognized that love is too deep to be restrained, who can guarantee that something will happen in the same room? Since the heart cannot be controlled by oneself, shouldn't it use external factors to limit one's behavior to remain faithful to the marriage? or i just want to ask In a word, who of you can put up with your significant other and your ex in a hotel room for a night out? When my daughter called, she really felt like she was catching a rape. And when the two were together, the heroine moved directly to the man's house. I don't know if there is a difference between men and women? The key is a house! ! Two rooms are fine. Then there is noise next door, and the female host pretends to be in bed and asks the male lead to cooperate, isn't it embarrassing? ? I'm going to be embarrassed anyway. Then after the one-night stand, the hostess ran away! After running away, I said to the male protagonist, "Can we still be friends again?" Me? ? ? Anyway, I've never met a person who had a one-night stand with a friend. If we talk about the advantages, what I said about the perception of the Beipiao family is quite good. If you have never seen the prosperity of the floating world, how can you feel at ease in a corner? After experiencing the prosperity of a big city, you will have a broader vision and more choices to choose the life you want. This is probably the mentality of every person who works hard in a first-tier city. In the end, many good things are lost because they are missed, and they are more precious because they are lost or not obtained, and those gained are diluted by the passage of time and become sparse and ordinary. Sometimes what we miss is not the love at that time, but the self sacrificed at that time, the good time at that time. Eileen Chang's remarks about red roses and white roses are absolutely right, "Perhaps every man has had two such women, at least two. Marrying a red rose, over time, the red one turned into a smear of mosquito blood on the wall. , the white one is still "the bright moonlight in front of the bed"; if you marry a white rose, the white one is a stick of rice on your clothes, and the red one is a cinnabar mole on your heart." Instead of thinking about the past, it is better to look to the future . Marry a white rose, the white one is a grain of rice stick on the clothes, but the red one is a cinnabar mole on the heart. "And instead of nostalgic about the past, look to the future. Marry a white rose, the white one is a grain of rice stick on the clothes, but the red one is a cinnabar mole on the heart. "And instead of nostalgic about the past, look to the future.
[To clarify one point here, there is no physical infidelity or other behavior between the two in the film, but there are problems with some small points. Some people commented that Xiaoxiao didn't know that Jianqing was married, but didn't Jianqing know that she should avoid suspicion when she got married? Some people say that even if you know what to do, you can't control your emotions, but I think morality should override all emotions. The so-called true love is not an excuse for cheating or a mistress (emphasis added, it does not mean that the characters in the film cheated, the film Chinese people do not.) People are human because they have reason and a sense of moral control. I can understand that a man can't control his own heart, but if he can't control his own behavior, then what is the difference between a man and a beast. 】
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