When the male protagonist can finally afford a house after many years and can give the female protagonist a home, the female protagonist says that she is not what she used to be. On the night when the plane was delayed, the two hugged and cried again. She said that he didn't impress her at all, he was still the same him.
It's like having survived the pain of being in a different place for many years, but after finally living together, you find that two people are not suitable to be too close. Maybe the hero and heroine in the film are just like the lines, and they are destined not to be together. There is no if in life, but more practically speaking, maybe it's just that two people are not suitable for being together. The female lead will leave the male lead, as she said, not because he had no house or money at that time, I think it might not even be because he was too decadent.
Maybe it really just doesn't fit together.
Many times, objective suffering can mask many problems in the relationship between two people. Whenever I feel a problem and feel that I can't go on, it is easy to use objective problems as a shield to divert anxiety. Perhaps blaming everything on the force majeure of life can make each other feel better.
In the face of objective hardships such as youth poverty and different places, the roles of the two are more like teammates, helping each other through the difficulties. After the game is won, if you want to continue to the next round, you need to weigh each other's weight in your heart.
Bad love is like teaming up to kill monsters, and the game ends without any debt to each other. And a good love is like a partnership to open a company. While maximizing each other's interests, they plan a future with each other's presence.
Back to this movie for a few more digressions. When the ending song played, I imagined a picture in my mind. If it was a middle-aged couple watching the movie together, there would be tears in each other's eyes when the lights came on. Maybe they are not the ones who accompany each other through the most difficult time in their lives, and what is even more amazing is that they may have their own he or she in their hearts. But at that moment, they saw a similar experience in the tears in each other's eyes and smiled knowingly, then clasped each other's hands. Perhaps the best love is not going to the end together, but being able to accept each other's past and empathize with it.
Back to the classic ending again, hooray for understanding!
Another piece of nonsense written in a mess and without logic that no one will read. :)
Oh, by the way, let me add that Zhou Dongyu and Jing Boran played really well, and I am very happy to see their progress.
May 3rd, 2018
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