Fortunately, there is no later us, otherwise we will miss our life

Blake 2022-11-12 15:55:10

Everything now is the best arrangement of God.

After watching "Later Us", I kept thinking in my heart: Fortunately, they didn't get together in the end (please forgive my gloom), otherwise Milk Tea would not have sung "Later" into a classic, and it would not have been born at all. This "Later Us".

In this vicissitudes of life full of disappointments, regrets and failures, unsatisfactory things happen nine times out of ten. Frustration is normal, and misses are the norm, whether it’s relationships, careers, or dreams. But time has passed, and everyone is constantly blaming themselves, saying what happened in the first place, and what will happen in the future, as if they missed something big and beautiful, and then immersed in their own little world, they can't extricate themselves. His face was full of sympathy and sighs from the audience, like a modern version of Mrs. Xianglin.

In fact, even if there was a if at the beginning, it will not be so in the future. If you did not miss the original he (she), you will not be born as a better you now.

Life will go forward as usual, the sun will rise as usual, all you think of missing out are wishful thinking, and everything is now the best arrangement of God.

The biggest tragedy in the world is not that who misses who, but that you have never been in love and you are still a drifter in the north, living in a partitioned room for decades and eating instant noodles every day and still can’t afford to buy a house. love? Hehe, it's already a luxury, please.

Back then, if Xiaoxiao hadn't missed seeing Qing, she wouldn't have said goodbye to her naivety, become mature, independent and full of femininity, and then met a more suitable Mr.Right for her. If Jianqing hadn't missed Xiaoxiao, then he wouldn't have bought a big house in Beijing so quickly, and then started a family, got married and had children to end his life in Beidrift.

I think, if there is no love, and it is just about the hard days of two northern drifters, then this movie should be good, but the main creator may think that the taste is not strong enough, but he wants to add feelings, first love, etc., it is like a pot The northeast big chaos stew is also added with instant noodles. Isn't it popular to love indiscriminately these days, don't people like consumption sentiment? Well then, I'll give you what you want, and I'll take care of you.

In "Later Us", Jian Qing, played by Jing Boran, spit out a golden sentence, "Happiness is not a story, but misfortune is."

This is the wise saying, it's really hard to imagine that the hero and heroine didn't miss each other. If Jian Qing and Xiaoxiao came to the end without any twists and turns, the two of them clinched their fingers and listened to the wedding music and entered the marriage, then gave birth to a child, changed diapers, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, occasionally found a mistress to make trouble for divorce, and waited for the child. When I grow up, the other party is old, and the relationship is broken and reluctant to leave...

And if these are written as novels and made into movies, will people still watch them? Will the audience still cry in the movie theater and then throw the silver in the air? Of course not.

Such an ending is realistic but not heartwarming, true but not literary. Because it's not a movie, nor is it art, it's at best a family tree. No tears, no orgasms, no regrets.

But reality is reality after all, life is always life, they are bloody, naked and shameless.

Is our life going to say to you that "later I finally understood in tears" "later we all cried" such hypocritical words? Oh, of course not. Life will mercilessly destroy and shred your wishful dreams, and then spit on it and step on it a few times and swear a few dirty words. So you, in the midst of the ruins, the ninja got up from the huge pain and humiliation, and shouted a bloody resurrection: "Fuck your mother's love! Fuck your grandmother's feelings! I want to become the undefeated East, Dugu seeking defeat and an avenger. alliance!"

From then on, with that indestructible and powerful heart, you traveled south and north and wandered the world, standing on the sidelines with cold eyes, the world is vast, and you sneered at those little lovers who were you and me, naive.

Therefore, reality and dreams, life and movies, you and us, these boundaries are very clear and must be clearly distinguished. Don't think that feelings need to be consumed, so you buy it for others recklessly, and don't think that just because of a few provocative lines Life is as simple as a blank sheet of paper, and you don't have to think about which innocent drama protagonist you are and then fall into it without hesitation.

Who you are, who you have loved, who you have hated, where is your home, what road you have traveled, where you are going... Only you know, no one can define for you and help you choose. Otherwise, you will miss more, far more than a lovelorn, that is your precious life.

In other words, although I have heard a lot of truths, why can't I live a good life?

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