I have a lot of ideas after reading this, but it's a bit late now. I didn't want to write, but I feel that my ideas may disappear tomorrow, or I don't want to write anymore, and I don't want to leave any regrets, so I still think of what to write. Write a little.
I think it's a tragedy from beginning to end. From the beginning, when I saw Qing's father making sticky bean buns and left him a cage, he felt that his father must be lonely. Later, when I saw that Qing didn't like sticky bean buns, he asked his father to move When he went to the new house he bought, he also said that his father opened a dilapidated restaurant, which made it even more sad. Also, when Jianqing and Xiaoxiao had no money at the beginning, Jianqing would sometimes lose his temper and beat people and throw things, and when he scolded all kinds of swear words loudly, he felt that he must be very uncomfortable, and it made Xiaoxiao very uncomfortable. . And Xiaoxiao made a lot of boyfriends at the beginning, just wanted to make himself not poor, it should make Jianqing very uncomfortable, and the boyfriends Xiaoxiao made did not bring happiness to Xiaoxiao, Jianqing may be even more difficult It was uncomfortable, so I tried desperately to make money when I saw Qing, but it backfired... There are also some details. Jian Qing's father took the hand of Jian Qing's later wife and said, it's Xiao Xiao, and Xiao Xiao met with tears. Ching's father said that we were doing well, and pretended to be very happy. I didn't cry until the end, unexpectedly, I thought I wouldn't cry. When seeing Qing's father sending things to Xiaoxiao and reading the letter he wrote to Xiaoxiao, he said, in fact, as a parent, if your child has money or not, it doesn't matter who you are with, the important thing is that you can Live the life you want. What is more impressive is that whether you are still together or not, we are a family. There is also the classic saying, it is difficult to live up to this life, it is enough to live up to the other party.
What particularly moved me in this movie was not the reunion between them, but the letter written by Jian Qing's father. Live the life you want. Sometimes I wonder what I want in life for myself. Do you have a lot of money, can you spend it at will, do you have a lot of face in front of others, are you very successful, have you reached a level that others can't reach, or do you do what my parents and relatives defined me to do, do not do it What should not be done, meet their expectations, let them worry, and can praise me in front of friends, and then my life is spent in their expectations, does it meet their requirements? I don't think any of these are. Recently I found that I was defined by many people, including my relatives, other elders. I think I'm a very obedient, well-behaved, good-natured, quiet girl who doesn't make trouble. But that's just my personal feeling, the impression they have on me. I especially hate being labelled by others, and I find that I sometimes label myself a lot. Sometimes if you feel that you shouldn't do something, you really don't do it. Of course, it's not all. There are still some criteria for judgment. Also hate putting labels on other people. Everyone has different ideas, maybe they don't agree, but they must be respected. The standard of wrong and right is always in one's own heart, so follow my heart.
If Jianqing and Xiaoxiao had a bad life before, if it was because they had no money, then how could they explain that they were rich but they were no longer together? I don't think it's because of the money. Later, when Jianqing asked Dad and Xiaoxiao to live in his big house, I felt that there was no light in his eyes, but some money and an empty house. When Jianqing said to Xiaoxiao that this is what you want, Xiaoxiao, I really don't understand you. At this time, I felt that what Xiao Xiao wanted was never money and a house, but a home, a place to carry love. Jian Qing has always understood that with money and a house, he can create a home and create happiness, but at this time he no longer likes his father's sticky bean bag, and no longer treats Xiao Xiao tenderly. Maybe he misunderstood what Xiaoxiao wanted from the beginning. I don’t want to be sad for the world when I work in the future, it’s not fair enough, it’s not fair enough, I don’t want to hate those rich and showy people, but they often talk about them to others, and there are some faint envy of their wealth while complaining. Flatter them against their will. I don't want to be very concerned about other people saying something bad about me, and I don't want to keep my mouth shut in the future is money.
I guess the life I want is to have some general ideas, although there are no very clear definitions. I want to have a tenable job, I can support myself without my parents, and I have to pay the down payment if I buy a house by myself. Be able to manage your own life well, and be able to do what you like, have direction, and work hard. They will also cheer and scream for the things they like, and be surprised to buy or see the things they want. There are gaps in life, but you can also think about some things and imagine the future. Maybe I'm not rich, but I hope I still have light.
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