Author: Innocent
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1
Once, I thought I was a very humorous person, like making girls happy, telling jokes like this.
An ant went out to forage for the first time, and suddenly it started to rain. It didn't know how to get back to the ant nest. At this time, it met another ant and asked, "How do you get back to the ant nest?"
The other ant replied: "With...with a smile or very silent?"
Later, I really listened to "Later" many times, but I didn't know what the song was about at first, but when I listened to it again, it was the person in the song. Rene Liu sang lightly, but with deep affection.
After losing some of the good things in the past and going through a few emotional twists and turns, I realized that life is really a soap opera, and the episodes of dog blood are staged by your side at any time, but they are not happy endings.
Years ago, I thought the most poignant lyrics of "Later" were "How do you remember me, with a smile or in silence", but now, I am more concerned about "Is there anyone who can make you not lonely all these years?" one sentence.
Perhaps going through such a process is the only way to truly let go. At most, I just want to know if you are doing well, but stop imagining whether there are other possibilities between us. Even if the person you see when you wake up is no longer me, I will be happy because you can have happiness.
"Later, I finally realized in tears that once some people miss it, they won't anymore."
2
After 17 years, Rene Liu made "Later" into "Later Us".
On the first day of its release, I went to the cinema to watch it. Although it was not as amazing as I expected, the storyline is complete, the acting screen is online, and there are touching parts, which are already worth the ticket price. Especially the last letter written by Father Lin made me burst into tears.
Jian Qing and Xiaoxiao, two young people from Beidri, came together because of adversity and fell in love with each other. But they are all vulgar people with flaws, immature characters, reckless treatment of feelings, and even lack of material, which make them stumble in their feelings.
For them, breaking up is doomed from the beginning. If there is no pain of losing their loved one, they will not see their success in the future.
If it were the previous me, I would definitely feel that Jian Qing did nothing wrong, and Xiao Xiao was doing the whole process. I have been trying my best to give you the sofa, big house, and Beijing hukou you want, but it just takes a little time. Why did you leave me in a fit of anger?
There are also many people in life who see clearly like that. When they are unhappy, they use cold violence to force the girl to leave. They even say blankly, "I've given you everything you want? Why are you still not satisfied?"
However, men and women think differently. You think what she wants is those things, but what she really wants is the feeling of being identified by you . She wants a local house, she wants to really settle down without being chased away by a phone call from the landlord, she wants to have her own sofa, and she wants to be able to jump around unscrupulously when she is with you. What she wants is that the happy times can last forever, not your decadence and cold violence.
The touching part of the movie is the beauty of love and the decision to leave, which are all too real. Some people didn't get together in the end, not because they didn't love each other anymore, but because they got to know each other and tortured each other. Finally, one of them couldn't stand it anymore, and they had enough disappointment.
In front of love, good times are like a flashing star in the night sky, polishing you and me, but they are fleeting. The memories you recall are nothing but the coldness behind the brilliance, the strength behind the sadness, and the treasure behind the resentment.
3
When I was in high school, I had two ferromagnetic brothers, one of them was Zuo Yi, who chose literature as a subject in arts and sciences, and ate the forbidden fruit with his girlfriend, Lin Nan, in the second year of high school.
In comparison, I was not yet enlightened at that time. Even though there was a girl in the liberal arts class, I just admired her frown and smile, and the fluttering of her skirt. As long as I can spend a few minutes with her alone, I can feel happy in my heart. blossomed.
I remember one time when I went to get a key, it was already set. When I saw her coming, I pretended that I had just arrived, and immediately asked the master to get another one.
And Zuo Yi's love is entangled with lust. Although he has always been aloof, he will also talk about his bedtime skills when he is lying on the lawn with us and chatting with us, becoming an enlightener of our iron triangle in these unpopular knowledge.
After entering the third year of high school, he and Lin Nan were living together on weekends. Lin Nan was the top ten in the county's liberal arts, and only managed to get two books in the end. At that time, there was a rumor that she was pregnant because of the college entrance examination. .
Only I knew that it wasn't a rumor. She almost didn't wake up when she came out of that small dark room like a workshop.
It is even more regrettable that Zuo Yi and Lin Nan were not admitted to the same university. He spent most of his weekends and holidays on the train. Whenever he was free, he would go to see Lin Nan. Rolling sheets are less.
The abortion matter made Lin Nan's parents feel ashamed, so they got angry and sent her to Zuo Yi's house and ignored it. Zuo Yi's parents agreed to let her finish university, but firmly opposed her being with Zuo Yi.
They disliked Lin Nan for being too thin and difficult to raise, with a crying face, Zuo Yi and his family had a lot of trouble, and even quarreled to the point of cutting off ties with his parents.
Zuo Yi's attitude has always been very firm - I will only marry a girl named Lin Nan in my life.
4
The relationship eased up a bit when Zuo Yi's father had a heart transplant in his senior year, and Lin Nan, like a daughter-in-law, took care of him for more than three months.
The left father's replaced heart seemed to have a new temperature, and finally accepted Lin Nan.
After graduation, Zuo Yi was admitted to a bank job, and Lin Nan became a rural special post teacher. It's just that Zuo Yi is too busy to visit Lin Nan, who is in a different place. His father's illness requires long-term use of expensive drugs. He must earn a lot of money to keep his father alive.
After another two years, Zuo Yi married his son, the bride was a colleague, and his father-in-law could help Zuo Yi go straight forward in his career.
On the eve of the wedding, Zuo Yi invited us to have a drink in the Iron Triangle. He said, "When my father was healthy, I was not afraid of the sky and the earth. I thought that love was the greatest. Now my sky is falling, and I just want to make more money and live with someone. There is no difference."
Another brother asked, "What is Lin Nan?"
Zuo Yi said with red eyes: "If she is blind, she will be disrespectful to others."
I also initiated a drunken madness and said: "Everything is an excuse, everything is an excuse. I feel that we are all scumbags. When we love someone, she is God, a faith, and a treasure in the palm of your hand. It's unparalleled beauty. I don't love her anymore, she's just a pile of dust, glass scum all over the floor, garbage no one wants, and I don't hesitate to take a second look. "
When I said this, I could still hear Zuo Yi resolutely saying, I will only marry a girl named Lin Nan in my life.
5
In the process of watching "Later Us", what I feel most distressed is actually seeing Qing's wife, not only her husband has been unable to let go of her ex, but her father-in-law is still holding her hand at the station, but calling out another girl's name.
And Jianqing is actually a scumbag. He used cold violence against Xiaoxiao many times. Xiaoxiao proposed to break up and went to the subway. He chased him out but did not have the courage to go with her. Because Xiaoxiao said that if he catches up, he will be with him forever.
And he's also a habitual offender. When he was with Xiaoxiao, he was down and out and still flirting with girls online; after he got married, he couldn't go back for the New Year, and his wife didn't worry about him, so he asked his son to check the post through video; Xiao pushed down; he asked, what if we were still together? Xiao Xiao said, then you have already found no less than ten mistresses.
In this way, the most hurt in love is actually girls. Seeing Qing marrying a wife and having children, a stove by the stove, and a wealth and status, only Xiao Xiao is still wandering alone, and has yet to meet a reliable person who is worthy of entrustment for life.
Many of the stories written by others have a happy ending, but what happened to us has changed beyond recognition.
In other people's stories, in the end, there will be a superhero who will end everything and save the world, but in our world, only you can save yourself.
6
Bi Xinye's micro-movie "Goodbye Jinhua Station" has such a line: One day, you think of a person for no reason, who once made you full of expectations for tomorrow, but did not appear in your tomorrow at all.
Our life is an art full of regrets. The person who once wanted to go to the moon for you for nine days may have fallen asleep with someone else. The person who once wanted to catch turtles for you may be being raped by others. in bed.
Just like the lines of a movie, later we have everything, but not us. It's good to live up to the fate of the other party. It's really difficult to live up to this life.
It is also like the emotion of the audience, everyone will gradually understand that being unable to be with the person you like is actually the normal state of life.
In the world of life, it is like a traveler. Love has always been the most beautiful thing in this world. Only when you experience all kinds of feelings that you cannot love can you love everything in the world with a crazy heart.
You also have to believe that there will be someone who will give you longer happiness in the years to come, even though he has never been to your youth.
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