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As a Cancer with AB blood, before watching "Later Us", I thought that this beautiful, pure, flawed and youthful love film would stab my little heart, making me cry bitterly and fall into a deep depression. In narcissistic beautiful sadness.
I even got a big pack of Nipi tissues ready.
It backfired. After watching the film, I almost cried out for Fang Xiaoxiao's good fortune - fortunately we broke up, otherwise this smart and smart woman would either become a divorced young woman, or become a tired of fighting mistresses, catching rape, suspicious and suspicious. , The original match of neuroticism.
Where is the lightness and loneliness now?
Jian Qing's restlessness was beginning to show.
When living in the pigeon coop, the neighbor sister came to Jianqing's house with wet hair and a nightdress after taking a shower, and took out a can of beer from the refrigerator as if no one else was there. Leaning against the door frame, four or two snow-white tremblings were about to come out of his chest. She shook the beer lazily: "college student, take you a can of beer!"
After Fang Xiaoxiao made it clear that he was a real girlfriend, "Four Liangs" smiled contemptuously: "Then I'll come back later"
The other person's response is a mirror that reflects everything about us.
From the familiarity of "four liang", it is not difficult to speculate: this is definitely not the first time that she has come to see Qing's house to get beer, and Jian Qing's provocation, provocation, and sexual innuendo to her did not resist, acquiesce, or even coquettishly. So she repeated the old trick again and again.
If Fang Xiaoxiao was not there at the time, would it have become a fragrant story of a plump sister and a young virgin?
After confirming the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend, Jianqing chatted with a female netizen named "Night Elf" on the Internet.
Xiaoxiao confronted him, and he replied in a panic: "She is in real estate. I think that if we buy a house, it can be cheaper, buy a bigger one, and then my dad will also live here." Xiaoxiao immediately broke: " I'm a house seller and you don't ask me, but ask a man who can't hit the eight poles, what do you mean?"
See clear speechless.
I have seen a big data: a man who is loyal before marriage has a 25% chance of cheating after marriage; and a man who is unfaithful before marriage has a 50% chance of cheating after marriage.
Love is the time when two people have the highest emotional concentration. At this time, men all run to flirt. After marriage, the relationship tends to be flat, and the consequences are unimaginable. This is what people often say: once infidelity, a hundred times not.
When Jian Qing is in love, he is not a loyal boyfriend.
The same is true after marriage.
The son and his video, as soon as they came up, asked to "look to the left", "look to the right", "look up", "look at the toilet"...
From the son's familiar tone and quick direction switching, it can be seen that this is by no means the first time he has asked his father to do this. It must have been done N times before.
Children cannot understand the complexity of the adult world, the only possibility is to be instructed by their mothers.
Ordinary men, especially successful men with decent income, are unreasonably suspicious of their wives, and their first reaction should be anger—you don’t trust me, why do you doubt me!
If he is innocent, facing the child's immature demands, he can coax a few words, or ask to talk to his wife directly.
And he was surprisingly peaceful, obediently circling the room with his phone. The biggest possibility of this is that he cheated on him, and was confirmed by his wife.
In other words, his credit system in the marriage was bankrupt, which is why it was so tame .
Seeing this scene, Xiao Xiao, who had entered the society alone before the age of 20, naturally knew it well, so there was a dialogue in the snow.
- "What if we fell in love back then?"
- "We will still be separated"
- "And what if we get married?"
- "Then we will divorce"
- "What if I was rich then?"
- "Then you have already found ten mistresses"
Xiaoxiao sees Jianqing very clearly: he has never been a loyal man.
And her ideal of love is complete love and warmth, which this philandering man cannot give at all. So she chose to leave.
That would also explain what happened in the car.
- Xiaoxiao said: "I MISS YOU"
- Jian Qing replied: "I miss you too"
- Xiaoxiao smiled sadly: "Jianqing, so many years have passed. You are still so naive, you haven't grown up at all, and you haven't impressed me at all"
Yes!
More than ten years later, the ex-boyfriend still failed to become a real man, a man responsible for his relationship, marriage, wife and son, and family.
He still steals food when he is on a business trip, rekindles his old love when he meets his ex-girlfriend, lives alone in the same room, and confides affectionate thoughts on his ex-girlfriend.
Xiaoxiao's smile is a sad one:
- How could I find such a man?
- Where has the most basic loyalty in marriage gone?
- Where is the sense of responsibility and self-discipline of being a husband and a father?
This man not only ruined his own image, ruined his wife and marriage, but also tarnished the most beautiful love and memories between two people.
What Xiaoxiao experienced at that time was a kind of heartbreak, helplessness, and deep sadness and despair - this man was so unbearable.
After marriage, Jian Qing was not a good husband at all, and was extremely perfunctory towards his wife.
When taking his wife back to his hometown, his father mistook her for Xiaoxiao, took her hand, and murmured, "Xiaoxiao, let's go home"
The wife was dumbfounded, and the scene was extremely embarrassing.
A normal man, even if he has the most basic respect for his partner, should call his father and explain it in advance, right?
See clearly doing this to illustrate two points:
1 The feelings of the wife are irrelevant;
2 The feelings of the father are irrelevant (the classmates who said that they are afraid of the sadness of the father, pay attention, the father only has a broken eye, but his ears are still good)
It is not difficult to imagine that after marriage, he must be a husband who treats his wife roughly and ignores her emotional appeal.
Some people will say that Jianqing doesn't love his wife, that's why he treats her like this; and he loves Xiaoxiao, so they must be very happy after marriage.
Yes, many girls who don't care about things will think this way, they will think that they are special cases, and even give birth to a sense of superiority and uniqueness for no reason. In fact, this is just a manifestation of a man being selfish, immature, irresponsible and unaware.
There is a saying that says:
When going on a blind date, you should pay attention to how the blind date man treats the waiter. This is his attitude towards you after marriage.
A person's thinking habits and behavior habits are continuous and consistent.
You can't expect a man who is cruel to the world to treat you alone;
You can't expect a man who is not responsible to the people around you to be responsible for you alone.
This is not reasonable.
Of course, you can also give an example of a criminal who murdered and set fire, was extremely vicious, but loved his girlfriend very much. But this probability is too low, and this kind of person has extremely serious psychological problems.
Therefore, this meeting completely stifled the beauty and innocence in Xiaoxiao's mind, and also allowed Xiaoxiao to recognize this man again, and she was fortunate that she did not marry him.
As a result, the regrets about the past have been completely put down, and since then, I can feel relieved, light and clear, and my heart is clear.
This is also at the end of the film, Xiaoxiao can say very refreshingly: "Every time we parted in a hurry before, this time let's say goodbye"
"Goodbye, see you!"
And all Xiaoxiao's psychological changes, Jianqing didn't notice at all, so he held the steering wheel and burst into tears after delivering Xiaoxiao.
Yiren has already seen through and liberated, but Huaxinren is still obsessed with self-sadness. Let me in front of the TV suddenly have the pleasure of "this guy is self-inflicted and narcissistic".
All in all, stripping away the high-value, beautiful tones, literary texture, and sad songs of the male and female protagonists, "Later Us" is essentially a story of a man who takes care of himself as CEO, marries Bai Fumei, and lives a bloody and vulgar marriage of reconnaissance and anti-reconnaissance. .
What about your ex-girlfriend?
Hey, it's just the only beautiful past before his true nature was revealed!
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