After that, everyone is actually living their own life.

Angie 2022-04-21 09:03:44

In "Later Us", many people say that they sell feelings, but they will find many talented actresses and women who are able to lead. The first film is willing to try the so-called "selling feelings" film. Probably because the logic line of this kind of film is the easiest to arrange, the narrative is relatively simple, and stories about youth, struggle, and first love are always sung for a long time. After all, young people are young, but youth is always young.

What about selling feelings? Not more or less touched yet, I'm talking about those who can be touched.

Just like "You at the Same Table", although there are bugs, sometimes when you think about the fate between people, it really is a bug-like existence. A few days ago, I just listened to a colleague tell a story about his friend. The two have been together for many years. They have been divided and closed in the middle, and they have insisted on it until they got married. In the end, they broke up. Because after the breakup, both parties got married quickly, and then became farther and farther apart. In the past, two people who had a fate could always be in the same city when they overcame difficulties, but it was really hard to see each other again when they lost their fate.

However, "returning to the hometown" seems to always exist as an excuse that is not too deliberate.

Two people who have loved, believe me, always want to meet. As the male protagonist said, I always want to know if you are doing well. If it is bad, it will be sad; if it is good, it will be sad.

Humans are so strange, and their psychology is so complicated that it cannot be restrained by reason. Later, the two people who returned to their hometown still met. Now everyone has their own families and children. In the words of a colleague: they can only sit and say nothing, because they are too familiar with each other. But he became a familiar stranger again.

Seeing Xiaoxiao and Jianqing sitting in the hotel later, that's probably the same feeling.

Although such an arrangement is too deliberate, if people want to do something, they will always find an excuse. It's just that bystanders look at it deliberately.

It reminds me of many days floating in Beijing.

I've also encountered him being chased away by the landlord; I've lost my keys and wandered the city for one night. Sometimes I feel that such a big city can't hold my grief. In the movie, it is said that it takes five years to take root, but in the end it only lasted for four years. After a few years, if you want to ask me, do you regret it? I think there is, but time always goes on, and momentary feelings are not final. In fact, people will not regret anything. In the end, you will find that it is like fate. You may love a city very much. Here, you found yourself and learned to love others and love yourself, but from now on, this will become a This instinct follows you, and you may not need to stay with it for a long time. So I've loved it, see you again, and never see each other again. It's actually quite good. Most of the stories that follow a dog's tail are doomed to unfinished business early in the morning.

So, in the end, probably no one will regret it. In life, Jianqing and Xiaoxiao often have each other. This is a very ordinary life picture, nothing special.

Many years ago, Jian Qing drove a rented car and spent all his year-end bonuses just to gain face in his hometown. Many people don't think it's worth it, but as long as they have drifted, they will understand that feeling too well. On the other hand, those in their hometown are also jealous of their courage and persistence in fighting outside. It is precisely because they do not have it that they always want to use embarrassing ways to humiliate their classmates in big cities to prove themselves. Values ​​and worldview are correct. Perhaps, you will never be able to refute them. Because on the day when you are really strong, you don't have to use souvenirs and treats to prove yourself. At that time, you will no longer have intersections. However, in this primitive accumulation process, those humiliation and helplessness are inevitable.

Going home for the New Year is a mixed blessing.

Then, one day, you went from crowding the bus and crowding the train to taking the plane. The city you moved out of became the city you returned to, and then you became a stranger.

Then, no then.

Think of the words Mingyu said in "The Mist": We are just living our own lives.

After the movie is over, everyone is still living their own lives. What happened in the past is no longer important. Later, it is no longer important to have any regrets. There are always regrets in life. Your regrets are related to me? Don't be stupid, regrets are all your own, everyone has their own regrets, in fact, it has nothing to do with you, don't think about making up for it. Fireworks in the world, cherish the people in front of you, take good children, make good money, and live a good life with the person who walked with you later. Later, everyone is living their own life.

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