Looking at the Internet, everyone is one-sided scolding Xiaosan and scolding the three views for being wrong. I do not think so.
Putting aside the actors and other technical aspects, let's just talk about the soul of the movie.
Regarding the past, who has no ex.
But when it comes to the past, do you only have your ex in your mind?
Could it be that when you talk about your ex, you only think of the gentle or scumbag person?
Don't you have the self at that time and the youth that can't be replicated?
Therefore, many people desperately scolded the film for the wrong motives. All kinds of derailed victims or imaginary victims who seemed to experience it themselves spat out scolding, scolding the mistress, and scolding the ex who might have become the main palace. Did you only see the pain of being cheated on in this movie? In fact, who wouldn't be cheated on? Is it only pitiful to sell after being cheated on? Woman, wake up. Maybe he hurt your self-esteem, but you should let go of the hurt and move on. What's the use of being a grumpy woman? If love has passed away, you and he who have a marriage certificate are actually already exes. Ok, I'm off topic. return.
From my point of view, women are loyal to love, while most men do not understand love. He thinks he loves you and he will give you material; he wants you and he will give you material; he despises you and he will give you material. Most of them don't understand what a woman needs. And what happened to the first love. Did a third party appear? Even if that person does not appear, the former love is already half-dead, because the woman once believed in "he loves me" is no longer so certain, maybe he still needs her in his world, but he is no longer nervous about her, his His eyes became dim, he became numb, he was captured by the mediocre quagmire of reality, he was content with the status quo, he forgot that the woman around him fell in love with him because of the light in his eyes when he looked at her.
In this film, the story of youth is told through the predecessor, the "me" that was once and the "me" who grew up. If she is a junior, does she really want to enter his life? Even if she dresses up slightly, the tangle in her heart is not whether to love him, but whether to relive her long-lost youth. He said so many "ifs", and each "if" was denied by her. She never regretted leaving in her heart. He was the ex, he was the youth she once loved deeply, that's all. When a woman finds out that a man does not understand her heart, she will never miss her. Only a man would regret "not sleeping with her". There is no intention to slander men here. After all, many times men really only think with their lower body. When the lower body was tired, I began to pretend to think lonely. Of course, there are also high-ranking men, after all, they are a minority.
Why is she always single, is she unable to meet the right person? Yes. Where can you find a man who can truly understand a woman's heart? Idealists, lovers of cleanliness, can only be single. It is better to live alone in a dream country than to live in a hopeless and hopeless life. Hemingway said, "But Paris was a very old city and we were young and nothing was simple there, not even poverty, nor the sudden money, nor the moonlight, nor right and wrong nor the breathing of someone who lay beside you in the moonlight. "Whose youth is not a flowing feast, everything is so warm and extraordinary, and we will eventually grow up, youth will eventually end, and there is no turning back.
Many people grow up, they really grow up, they are overwhelmed by reality, they only care about eating enough, and forget their dreams. And what is the dream, is it a big city hukou to buy a house and a car? Even if I once said that, but I am full, I have a house, a car, and a household registration, the box of my dream is still half-empty, and I can't say what is missing, but occasionally I am inexplicably disappointed when I return to my dream at midnight.
What is lost is the long-lost youth: the time when someone was there for company and warmed by sincerity.
Later, why did we win over wandering but lost to loneliness?
Why do we still feel alone in the crowd?
Because, when we grow up, there is no "we". Anyone can only move forward alone, in the precarious weather, and live strong.
You who are crying or scolding, please stay strong and live alone.
I dedicate this document to those of us who have a similar past.
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