In his 30s, he has a successful career. He is the director of a good advertising company. He manages dozens of people. Under my persuasion, Boss is also considering whether to go for an IPO. However, none of this matters. , What's more, I have a woman who supports and loves each other with me all the way from college. Our daughter's nickname was picked up early in college.
In 2008, we met on Renren.com. I was an intern in a bank. When I was working in the lobby, I always looked forward to going to the counter for a while because I could sneakily use the Nokia mobile phone that can only access QQ and send messages. Send a message, check the message board of Renren.com to see if there is any message from her.
Then, we were together, I was riding a bicycle, she was in the back seat, we walked through the streets and alleys of the city, watching the sunrise and sunset; we listened to the music that we couldn't bear to delete on the phone together; because of poverty, we could only Let’s go to eat a bowl of pan noodles at the school’s back door together; the occasional luxury is to eat western food for 30 yuan per capita; we can only afford the clothes in the plaid house of the fifth and sixth tier brands; we go to the hotel and buy a string of fifty cents downstairs The barbecue, two people eat 20 yuan skewers, then go to bed together and get up together; go with friends to eat a leopard that is free for three people who travel together; 10 yuan for a pair of rings are regarded as treasures by us .
We shared with our friends in an old building. In winter, the heating was not so effective. We wore quilts to keep warm. Bought together as neighbors, usually visit each other, want children together, and watch each other's children grow up.
We were very poor, so poor that we could only afford a concert ticket of Wang Leehom 280, so poor that I finally got depression because of lack of money and the pressure of my family, but fortunately, she was able to accompany me all the way.
After graduating, she accompanied me to Canada for further study. We walked on the roads of Ontario, we went to see waterfalls, watched scenes in Farewell Vancouver TV series, and even wanted to stay in a country with such pleasant air.
Because of our family, we went to Beijing after graduation and rented a house of more than 70 square meters in the East Fourth Ring Road. She liked the large balcony in the house. In the morning, she took me to work and bought it at the pancake stand at the Sihui subway entrance. A set of pancakes or filled pancakes for breakfast; she manages the housework, and every day she cleans the house spotlessly and waits for me to come home. There are all kinds of succulents planted on the windowsill. Although it is rented, it has the warmth of a lot of home; We often order stir-fried dishes from the restaurant downstairs, and the chef of that restaurant always remembers her taste.
Our life has improved very well, we no longer have to look at the change in our wallets to live; we can afford the self-service of Beijing Liang, and go to the western restaurant of Guomao 79; we no longer have to ride a bicycle, we are in Beihai We watched the sunset in Beijing together in the park, ate supper at the Japanese saury in Beiluoguxiang, walked all the way from Beixinqiao to Sanlitun, and then walked back to Guomao along Gongti North Road; we went to a friend’s house in Tiantongyuan, and my buddies were always there for us. Reserve a guest bedroom as a room.
She likes to be with my friends, we will meet at Helens in Shaoyaoju, New Year's Eve at Helens on the Jin River in Tianjin; we travel together, we go to Yalong Bay to see If You Are the One, go to Shangri-La to Lijiang together , on the horseback of Lashihai, we held hands and walked all the way. We spent the Spring Festival in Hokkaido and Valentine's Day in Hong Kong. As long as we liked, we can finally buy two air tickets to Shanghai to eat authentic bald butter. meal.
We got married, and the wedding was grand. It was an auditorium we planned early and carefully arranged the scene together; we chose the furniture at home and watched the meticulous work of the decoration team; the wedding ring was a custom-made carat loose diamond, and the ring was set on the ring. engraved our names; and then we have the crystallization of love...
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I thought I could tell a lot of our stories,
But "happiness is not a story, misfortune is." Our story ended as early as when I cut off my living expenses because of my family's objection, and ended up being so poor that I had to eat Malatang with her.
A few years later, she told me that what she hated was not my poverty, nor my family's opposition, but my non-persistence back then.
After breaking up, I did suffer from depression, but no one came out with me; two years later, I went to Beijing and worked hard in Beijing without her. After eating matcha from hundreds of stores in Beijing, I went to various attractions in Beijing, went to Yunnan, Hainan, Shanghai, Hong Kong, Hokkaido, went to Wang Leehom's concert, rented a big house, pretended not to be myself A person.
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What I listen to the most is not Rene Liu's "Later", but Dai Penny's "How"
If only I could have worked hard to find a better job that could support our daily living expenses
If I could have stepped on the bus where she left, I could have told her that we must go on strong
If I could have refused to let my family arrange for me to go to Canada at that time, I would have chosen to work hard with her.
If at that time, after breaking up, I could meet and pass the moment of tears, I turned around and hugged her. I only later knew that she was in tears.
If only I could have resolutely tried to save her when I knew she was dating
If only I could have robbed her on the day of her wedding instead of getting drunk alone at home.
If there is no if, then there will be no later, later we have everything, but we are no longer.
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Later, we each got married, and each had his own lover and his own daughter. The life is very plain, without the expectations for the future of the future when we were in love together, the plain buying a house, the plain life, without a trace of turbulence.
When "Later Us" was released, there was a post on the Internet. It was the chat record when you and her met and when they broke up. I found the message board from everyone when we met, but the text message about the breakup has long been deleted. I sent it to her and I said I would love to see this movie. She said that she really should find a time to go and see it on her own.
I broke my promise, but in the end I didn't have myself. Instead, I accompanied my wife to watch "The Next Us". During the film, she cried a lot. I pretended to be calm, but my heart was actually turbulent. My wife asked me why we didn't Such love.
I said, maybe our life is too dull, we have never slept in a 77 yuan express hotel, never waited for a bus, never had a sofa in the house, never grabbed a computer together, never Curling up watching Japanese dramas, we haven't even lived the days when two people only eat one bowl of noodles. Our travel destinations are only big cities and those foreign places, and we haven't even lived the hard life of walking together for a day.
When the movie ended, it happened to be the end of the Mayday concert. I said, we don't seem to have listened to music with a pair of headphones.
I thought the scene where I burst into tears did not appear in the end, but the scene outside the movie still made my eyes wet.
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Movie plot 1 point, actor 1 point, Zhang Zixian 1 point.
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