It is no exaggeration to say that I cried for three hours~
In the torrent of the times, is every grain of sand stuck somewhere, or is it flowed into the sea? In fact, why is it important, but in this trend, what traces can be left even if the ups and downs are up and down?
I once knew a sister. Her only son died of a brain tumor after studying in the United States. Since then, her calendar has stayed on that day. Every day after that is the accumulation of that day. Seeing that heartbreak! It's really like what the movie says: time seems to have stopped, and the rest is just getting old. The movie puts the pain of losing a child and family planning together, far more than the arithmetic superposition of 1+1.
The absence of that unplanned child, a neglected catalyst that seemed to be the source after the loss of the only child? But losing a child is losing a child. Is it because there are too many children that there will be no pain? Is the family planning staff a heinous crime? Don't parents who are afraid of losing their jobs also make this choice? There is always a voice in the movie "It's not your fault, you just work". But no one said "it's not your fault, you just don't lose your job". Because everyone thinks that they are the grain of sand entrained in the torrent, whether to stay or be washed into the sea is really not a grain of sand that can choose.
Is there really no choice?
Seeing that everyone chose to follow the trend like that and lost the ability to plan ahead, bear a heavy burden and lost the ability to choose happiness, should you choose to forget or punish, should you choose forgiveness or resentment, and should you choose to bear the burden? Or let go?
Although children should not be regarded as the rope to maintain the family, the broken rope turns into a sharp sword that pierces both sides. Every day they meet, they pierce each other's skin a little... Yaojun and Lihua are tied in pain. Together, the two people only lived for each other during the time they stopped. The derailment that might change the status quo, the unplanned child who might change the status quo, also came to an abrupt end. In the car, Yaojun cried bitterly after knowing that he was no longer related to happiness.
Lihua committed suicide by taking poison, she wanted to end the pain. However, after being rescued, he was only slowly growing old in the time he stopped.
Forbearance, what is it for? punish yourself? Say goodbye to happiness? No one was meant to be so miserable, but they chose to lock themselves up and hide in a hard shell of misery. They once also wanted to continue to be happy. They left their hometown and hid in a village by the Minjiang River and adopted a child from an orphanage. However, they still named Liu Xing. They were reluctant to be the only two of them to be happy. Be happy with them.
Of course, everyone needs to live for themselves, and only for themselves.
The rebellious, the thief, who was originally Zhou Yongfu's child, seems to have taken away Yaojun and Lihua's last sustenance, but no one should live for the sustenance of others. That boy who looks like a gangster, only But I just want to find myself, he is not Liu Xing, but who is Zhou Yongfu? Liu Xing, who finally came back, is a Chinese-style happy ending. But this kind of reunion is a decision after a choice, a choice after finding oneself.
As for Haiyan, as for Haohao... Should they put it down or let the big tree take root in the bottom of my heart and continue to take root and sprout... Actually, I am not satisfied with the dialogue in the movie. When Haohao chose to speak out after the death of his mother, he said that this incident had tormented our family for a long time, so he wanted to speak out. So the purpose of what he said was to stop torturing himself? However, in my understanding, the choice is to make the other party stop torturing me, because the fault is not in the other party, but in myself, and I say it for the sake of repentance, to ask for the forgiveness of the other party, but not to stop torturing myself. .
Meiyu and Xinjian are brave, so they are happy even if they have suffered great setbacks. Xinjian in prison said that he would accept the government's reforms well, but this sentence made me appear in a play and participate in a black light dance, but was convicted of "gathering a crowd and promiscuous" and went to prison. How will he be reformed?
Jasmine, it should be regarded as half a new human being! Because she even wanted to give birth to a child for Yaojun. I don't know if she wanted to make a happy ending for her palpitations when she was young, or if she really wanted to pay a debt for her brother and sister-in-law~ To be honest, the excuse for this debt is actually far-fetched. It's not up to her! However, even if it is the heartbeat of young people, there is no such thing as "life is innocent". The choice after weighing the pros and cons is actually different from Yaojun's second child's choice?
Let it go, come out and be happy~ That's why she thinks she should be happy!
As for Yaojun and Lihua, they were unwilling to let go and could not come out. In their hearts, I was always unworthy of happiness. So, this kind of pain is accompanied by a lifetime, forever and ever! Even if the family has become almost unknown, but the pain has not diminished in the slightest, it is because I do not deserve happiness!
So should you choose happiness?
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