The earth is long, the sky is long, and people are easy to disperse

Kimberly 2022-04-23 07:05:17

A while ago, I heard from my mother that Wang Jingchun and Yong Mei had won awards at the Berlin Film Festival. At that time, I didn't know that I would resolutely choose to go to the cinema to challenge the three-hour film length.

It paints a life I'm all too familiar with. When watching the movie, I always think of Jia Xingjia's speech, "In the Northeast, there are too many lost and desperate people"

The family is in the northeast, the only child, and both parents were employees of state-owned enterprises, and they were laid off in the 1990s. My mother said that there was another child behind me. When I had an abortion, the doctor said it might be a son, but because I was afraid of losing my job, I had to do it. As a result, after two months, the unit began not to work. Occasionally, my mother would say that I couldn’t support it when I was born, but I also regret that I am so lonely.

So, I can empathize too much with the story that happened in the film. The parents in the family home are short-lived, pure and strong but vulnerable friendships and colleagues.

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I was in tears when I first remembered it in the film, the singing replaced the silent crying, and I knew too much what death was all about.

What impressed me the most was that Meiyu asked Haohao's father why he didn't contact him, and whether Yaojun was still complaining about them. He just replied: "I don't complain anymore, it's just that the two of them have nothing to say." Yes, the friendship started when they were educated youths, after they each had a family and children, became the friendship of the two families, but the stars' friendship Death is an inescapable fact, I'm afraid that if the two of them say anything more, they will cry, so why say more?

Family planning has made sex and childbirth a shameful person. After Liyun became pregnant, Haiyan's first reaction was to complain about Yaojun.

Some film critics say that this film depicts the tenacity of Chinese-style little people. I think it is still very accurate. After being crushed by the giant wheel of the times, we still have to find a way to survive.

Adopting "stars" is the hope they give to themselves. Zhou Yongfu was restless because of his vague identity. He didn't understand the meaning of home until he left for a few years. Some people think that the return of the stars is too much, but I love this warmth. Who doesn't want a home that can shelter from the wind and rain and harvest love?

Occasionally, we think that we have seen all the joys and disasters in life, but in fact we are still afraid of death. One of the most impressive shots is the fear of the old couple on the plane when faced with turbulent air flow.

While watching the movie, I cried several times, all of which were at the moment of parting. Yaojun was calm and helpless when he left Yunnan. When Jasmine said goodbye to Yaojun, Yaojun said goodbye to the bloodline that he might grow up, and Jasmine said goodbye to his bloodline. her past! I want to say that Jasmine is really brave and decisive.

Well, that's it!

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