At first, I came with the expectation of the twin heroines and women from the perspective. Looking at it, I felt like I was going to take the path of common suspense + warmth and redemption. After reading it, I suddenly felt completely different. It was a drama that was seriously underestimated and brought me an overwhelming surprise.
I always think that the most superb way of telling stories is that everyone sees different things in this story, and you think it seems to say nothing, and it seems to tell everything. This may be the best way to interpret life and life.
That car accident was the beginning of the story, and it was the opportunity for Jen and Judy to meet; but after I watched the show, I suddenly felt that this car accident was just the last straw that killed the camel. This is not the beginning of everything, this is just the shattering of the fig leaf.
Jen and Ted’s marriage has long been problematic and unsustainable. In Ted’s eyes, the wife who had breasts removed to avoid cancer has died in his heart. He does not want to touch such a wife again. He has had an affair with the restaurant waiter for more than a year. .
Jen’s emotions are uncontrollable. It’s not that she suffers from the cold reception in her marriage before her husband’s death. She remade artificial breasts for her husband, but it does not help their marriage: she ignores the growth of her two children, The family’s affairs were left to her husband; her work partners became increasingly unbearable for her unreasonable outbursts and gaffes on various occasions; the strong mother-in-law, who was also in the real estate industry, was like a fish in the water. The mother-in-law's men are looking to make a living.
Judy is a kind-hearted, maternally pleasing personality. She is used to praising each other's hairstyle and dress when she meets people. She doesn't care about her but is just afraid of being hated. She desperately desires to be a mother, desperately wants to have her own family. She knows that Steve is not a good match but always succumbs to the sweet memories of the past. She is nostalgic and soft-hearted.
Why didn't Judy surrender and fled the scene of the car accident? Because Steve was using her child and herself to persuade her, because she wanted to be a mother, and she wanted to have a child between her and Steve. When she finally thought she was pregnant and went to Steve, she realized that Steve didn’t care at all and she didn’t care about them. The child, and soon the doctor pointed out that she would be difficult to bear for life, and since then completely gave up.
Steve, a self-centered performance personality, he habitually scolds and criticizes Judy, but quickly says sorry without any intentions; he has been in love with Judy for many years, but there is no trace of Judy in the villa, because he has a strong sense of decoration Personal opinion? No, it’s just that he never cared about Judy’s opinion and considered Judy’s ideas;
Steve doesn't care whether they have children or not. He must use Judy's multiple miscarriages as a tool to combat Judy, and use this as a reason to refuse to marry her, in order to combat Judy's self-esteem and try to control her. He is quite confident in his own charm, he likes the feeling of fascinating others, this kind of good feeling is an important part of his life. In fact, Steve has a very low sense of morality. The first reaction to a car accident is to quickly escape the scene. Judy has a miscarriage and he has never been with him. The money and income are all laundered by the backdoor company.
Ted's car accident was the last straw in Judy and Jen's devastated lives, making everything press the accelerator key.
Jen can finally realize the end of the marriage and give up loving the person who no longer loves her. She can finally live in this world as herself, as the mother of two children, rather than as a "breastless woman".
Judy can finally force herself to face up to her own life for Jen and the dead Ted, follow her own values and sense of justice to report Steve who profited through money laundering. She no longer protects herself and herself with the hope of giving birth to a child and building a family with Steve. Steve, she told the truth, she did what she had always been supposed to do, leave people who weren't worth it, and be who she is.
Jen and Judy are not redeeming each other. Their friendship is not cherished and precious. They are just two women who have encountered each other in the world. If they are more and less each other, they will not affect themselves. The truth about life.
Of course, perhaps their encounter is the presentation of the truth of life, because the gift of life will come to you wearing the most vicious mask. She is the wife of her murderer and the source of her guilt. She is her The murderer of her husband’s enmity was a person who deceived her for a long time. They met with such a cruel identity and reason, only to find that each other has become the best gift for both sides' lives in the future.
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