Maybe it's because the love between men and women has been overdone, or maybe there is too much tacky in the real relationship between men and women. To shoot pure love seems to have to start with the same sex. It's really a hundred years of cultivation to sleep together, and a thousand years of cultivation to become homosexual.
This film tells the stories of two "old friends", the ancient snowflakes and lilies, and the modern Nina and Sophia. They love each other, but they have to be separated in various ways. They rely on each other and have to hide their needs. The beginning of the story is a bit watery, it belongs to popcorn time, but since the war and Joseph appeared, I have shifted my focus forward, to feel their feelings, to try to get rid of their psychology.
It was not until Xuehua was unwilling to run away with Lily that I leaned back on the back of the chair. I thought that pure love was finally defeated. Xuehua still got more from her husband. I gloated and sighed hypocritically.
However, when she was seriously ill and Lily came to see her, I saw in Jiang Wu's eyes the ultimate helplessness and sadness of a butcher, which can only be seen in the eyes of the animals buried in his hands. I was knocked out in an instant.
The story should be considered a big reunion. I didn't fully understand Li Bingbing's last words. It probably means that love is not called wholeheartedly, but I don't understand what love is. However, what I have come to understand is that feelings are not judged by whether they are together, how many years they have not seen each other, how they have hurt each other, or whether the other party has changed. If it is there, it will always be there.
I have to admit, emotionally, I'm a pessimist. I believe that a person will only get worse and worse in a relationship. I believe that everything has a deadline. I believe that what you can't bear now will only become more intolerable in the future. I believe that only loss can make people grow. , I believe in the conservation of happiness, I believe in tit for tat. I even have the evil suspicion that Jiang Binliu and Yun Zhifan are really together, maybe they will develop into Lao Tao and Chunhua.
So, I am a person who gives up easily. No matter what or when, the first thing that comes to my mind is to give up, and then to measure the price of giving up, because I keep my beliefs, so giving up means another kind of gain, which makes me feel at ease, even reluctant to give up And apprehensive. I will make up a bunch of reasons to deduce the final conclusion; I will persuade others to give up, and tell her that the world will be brighter after giving up; if others persuade me not to give up, I will tell her that I am in darkness now; I think I can’t bear it If anything, anyone would jump right off the bat, and I thought those decisions were thoughtful enough, and I thought I understood all of them.
However, I suddenly discovered today that persistence is harder, more precious and greater than giving up. At least, the movie can be made a little longer, at least, you know where your heart is.
Thanks for this dull, "forbearing" movie, it makes the mountain of pure love less rugged, it makes giving and waiting so natural, it makes me and other laity dwarfs, it makes... how to say... ...
This movie made me like Li Bingbing, although her chin correction was indeed a bit of a failure, but after Yun Shui Yao, she did get enlightened.
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