Foot binding is a painful motherly love - bad story, good subject matter.

Sedrick 2022-04-19 09:03:03

A review and introduction to the book "Snowflake and the Secret Fan" was published on Reader. Chinese women's foot-binding customs, marriage culture, and Nvshu Laotong, these seemingly mysterious elements were written into the book by a foreigner with one-eighth Chinese blood. What's even more strange is that this kind of behavior, which is cast aside as "mutilation of women" by the Chinese, is a kind of painful love from Kwong Lisa's view.

Chinese women have their feet bound, and Chinese mothers have to bind their daughters' feet, just like the inner line in the movie: "Beauty can be found in pain... Although binding your feet makes you suffer a little, it's you who really benefits." It is a kind of love that is embodied by inheriting pain. Under the social environment and customs at that time, a woman bound her feet to show her social status and role - she is fragile and can't open the door. Foot binding is a must to reflect a woman's femininity.
In the era of advocating the three-inch golden lotus, Chinese men are undoubtedly foot fetish. They are playing with their women's feet (it is estimated that they must wear socks, showing their true colors is absolutely no fun) like a stunner in the world, full of joy. That's why, from generation to generation, mothers have to bind their daughters' feet, which is a kind of meticulous technical work, and it is also like a ritual that cannot be desecrated. In order for them to find the best husband's family and the man who loves them most, the mother must let her daughter experience the same pain as when she was young. A woman wants to marry the right man. With a husband who is wealthy and powerful, a woman's life can be at ease.
Foot binding requires very careful care, otherwise the broken bones and the unventilated skin will be prone to inflammation and infection. It is said that improper care after foot binding will kill people.
The long-term care process is another manifestation of the mother's love in Kwong Lisa's eyes. Mothers use the greatest patience and the most selfless experience to complete the process of their daughter's degeneration. Perhaps it is possible to find peace in suffering. It is in this suffering that Chinese women slowly accept such cultural inheritance and regulations. On the day of having children in the future, they will also bind their daughter's feet and watch her twist her body and marry into another family, with joy and sorrow in their hearts.

After learning that this book was going to be made into a movie, I was so excited for a long time. I didn't know how amazing the result of such a strong lineup would be. I can probably imagine that this kind of thing may not be able to convey anything to you through a story at all after the label of "gay" was used in the early publicity. As for Jackman's participation, I don't know if it is a subtle hint that everyone in this film really has a tendency to have homosexuality.
The whole movie feels like fragments, fragments and fragments. Although you walk in three time and space, you don't feel too fragmented. Trivial stories have always been nothing more than what I want to tell you - good sisters for a lifetime. Among the many sisters' affectionate recitations, this is undoubtedly a bad story relying on a strong and mysterious cultural background. And it's been a good subject from start to finish. Chinese women have been burdened with deep and forbearing love since ancient times, but these are heavy weights that no story can bear.

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  • Morris 2022-03-19 09:01:10

    Putting aside all the logical errors and the loopholes in the movie (is it still so demanding to watch a movie now ╮(╯▽╰)╭) at least two things can be concluded: any emotion, no matter what kind, puts too much responsibility It's true that the pressure of the oath is always unhappy; the friendship will also expand after a long time, and this is true

  • Hester 2022-03-17 09:01:09

    Bingbing, don't be stupid, Quan Zhixian must not be too distracted, you see she is fat.

Snow Flower and the Secret Fan quotes

  • [first lines]

    Bank CEO: People say I'm sending Sebastian and Nina to New york so neither will take my job. Hey, perhaps that's partly true. You know, like these butterflies that surround us this evening, it's a time of transformation, new beginnings.

  • Lily's Mother: Only through pain will you find peace. I wrap, I bind. But you will have the reward.