How smart can people resist the destruction of their original family

Kieran 2022-10-28 01:08:08

What are the conditions for Liz to be able to study and go to Harvard? One is that she is smart and eager to learn, which is almost innate. Best friend Chris can't do it. The second is that her mother died, and the original family must be completely destroyed before she can move on. When the mother is alive, the child will always imagine that the family can be reunited, and the mother can become a real mother. She must have me like Reinhardt. There is no consciousness that can be lost anymore, so you can move on.
Maybe you have to say, but her sister, father, and grandfather are still there. That's wrong. Don't ignore the role of mother as a link to a family. Even if the mother is addicted to alcohol and drugs, she is still is the bond of the family. Countless families have lost their fathers and are still united by their mothers, but motherless families generally fall apart.
Why doesn't she hate her mother? Even if she only left her with a beautiful memory, even if she betrayed her countless times and looked ugly in front of her, even if she finally realized that she is my baby, I took care of her. Because she is smart, she is smart because she can The prerequisite for going to Harvard is also the reason why she doesn't have much hatred for her family of origin in her heart. Even if her mother is the one who is taken care of by her, her intelligence enables her to bear these things without consuming too much hatred.
How many fathers can say I screw it up, but you can do it like her father did. He said you don't love me, it's a waste of energy. But for someone like Liz, love comes naturally.
Sometimes, as long as the parents say a word, and they don't even need to do anything else, these endless tortures eventually turn into I love you, and I can't help but love you.

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  • Liz Murray: I'm smart. I know I can succeed. I just need a chance. A chance to climb out of this place I've born in. Everyone I know are angry and tired. They're trying to survive. But I know that there is a world out there that is better, that's better developed. And I want to live in it.

  • Liz Murray: I love you, dad.

    Peter: That's a waste of energy.