We only live this life!

Chaya 2022-12-21 00:41:01

I watched it again, not only did I not like it, but I hated it even more.

I have never known what is so good about this film. There are so many loopholes in the plot,
or I personally don’t know enough about the modern civilization of Thailand. Maybe this film is in Thailand. Speaking for the interests of a group has great social benefits
. In my opinion, it is obvious that the film's attitude towards this marginalized group is very ambiguous. I don't know if it really speaks to homosexuals without making a compromise
, but this ambiguous attitude is suspected of misleading the social group consciousness.
Let's deduce Tong's logic: I am gay, but I want to For the interests of my parents and their old ideas, should I give up my personal feelings and put on a mask and pretend to be a normal person for a lifetime? !

Is this the humanity that this so-called warm and humanistic film is trying to preach to us?
I really don't understand why those people who are so moved by this are so moved.
To be honest, I also want to cry after watching this film. If tong and mew are separated, it represents his choice between the marginal and the mainstream lifestyle. , then I'm crying for tong's hellish life in the future and the painful life it may bring to his future "lp"...
and tong's ex-gf in the film has already shown this clue - no matter how much he cares about this People, it seems that he doesn't exist in this person's world, but in fact she doesn't exist either - this is unfair to her, and it's cruel...
Although Tong broke up with her later, his final choice meant What are you doing? Find another girl to pretend to be his wife, then make her the next victim and ruin her life?


Many reviews have praised this film as a classic of "selfless love, responsible love" sacrificed for the family - and in my opinion, this kind of selflessness and responsibility that only survives on self-centeredness is really a wife Pediatrics
Did Tong really choose family responsibility and be selfless? Then because of his personal sexual orientation, he can also know the tragic experience of his future fake wife, and the future family prospects of the same bed, different dreams, and strangers - can you say that Tong's choice is selfless?
Is it enough to have not only himself but his family in his mindset?
So what is the family he will build in the future? It's impossible for him to fall in love with his LP and drag her to play part of the huge mask of his life - how extremely selfish is this? !
If you are not "straight", please kindly admit it and stop harming others!

Conversely, talking about the relationship between tong and mew, who can give me a bridge or a detail that proves that tong's sexual orientation has created an irreconcilable conflict with the family?
Since the contradiction is not irreconcilable, why should I finally give up this relationship? From this point of view, what is the point of Tong's giving up? Is Tong's choice because he doesn't dare to face himself or can't face his family?
If you repeatedly question this loophole in the film, you will find that this seemingly dedicated and selfless love immediately falls into a moral dilemma - it is impossible to face up and face itself bravely; the possible future will be even greater The lies and greater harm...

Even if it's such a love, those who are moved by this film can ask themselves, what resonates with you is the seemingly pure and selfless love between tong and mew, or they don't Have the courage to face your heart?
If it's the latter, it doesn't matter - we live in peacetime, and many things are easy to get, and we can't understand why some things worth cherishing should be fought for with determination
, or, in other words, things that have not been fought with all our strength, Losing it won't hurt so much... Then ask yourself, why did Mew cry so sadly at the end of the film?
I am a complete materialist. The above words are not intended to provoke any fans who are loyal to this film. I just want to give a loyal warning after watching this film: We only live this life!

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