loneliness and love

Mark 2022-04-24 07:01:24

2008-05-11 13:45:00
Last night, I watched "Love of Siam", which both Wu Tianyue and Pan Jingjing said were good.


There is such a scene in a Thai movie.

Mew's grandma passed away, and when the funeral was over, the family Taking a group photo in front of the portrait and the mourning hall, the crowd of people who finished

wearing Ma and filial piety with a click began to slowly disperse... They walked silently, leaving little MEW alone.

Siamese Love - Li Yazheng - Li Yazheng

Then, this direct dialogue from the heart:

I sometimes think like this, if we really love someone,

can we accept this kind of thing?

If one day, he died.

Parting is a part of life, we all know it.

Can we really let go?

Do we really love someone and not be afraid of him leaving me?

Also, we have to accept it.

Wherever we are, our loved ones are no longer with us.

Well, it's loneliness.

I've been like this for five years, why is our world like this?

I wonder what the rest of our days are like?



Music, plot, props background, a series of Thai style is

fresh, humid and warm. Like Thailand is my big love.



At the right age, I saw the right movie



PS haha, the supporting actor TONG is so handsome! ! ! Many people say that Micheal in "Prison Break" is too high. . . And it is also a Sagittarius ~ 88 years old, younger than me. . . uh



I really like this quote from mew, he stares at the ceiling, helpless and quiet. The background music is very gentle, but I feel his loneliness more and more. I thought about what he said over and over again, and suddenly I felt that the world stood still, and the earth was turning alone, that is, Tong naturally surrounds Mew's arms, that is, Mew is still blinking in fear and leaning against Tong, maybe the two are equally lonely and longing A warm heart is approaching. I suddenly remembered the sentence, "We were born in the prison of flesh and blood, grew up in the battle of sorrow, and lost each other in the flow of time." Lost each other in the flow of time. I think, if one day, the person we deeply love leaves us, we will close ourselves, because we can't accept the sudden loss of feelings, maybe it is remorse, regret, affection, and our hearts will be empty. The unaccepted feelings left behind because we cannot let go, our self-closure, fear and fear acceptance become stronger and stronger, and our hearts will become more and more lonely. The soul has no outlet, and it dares not to love again. After being afraid to accept, once again, the loss and despair after being unable to let go because the loved one left. We are always unconsciously looking for another person, another lonely and fearful heart, in resonance to regain the desire to be loved and the courage to love again. What is loneliness? Maybe it's the self-torture of the torment of the soul after losing the person you love.
After the concert, "We can't be together anymore." Tong said to Mew, "But that doesn't mean I don't love you." Tong loves Mew, I know we all believe it. Perhaps it was Tong who suddenly understood the meaning of love. In the process of finding true love, he turned around and found the family that had been neglected. Reminds me of what Mew once said, "One day the person we love leaves, can we let it go? This is loneliness." A lonely heart that also desires to be loved and comforted by each other. Mew, who is clearly afraid of loneliness but clings to loneliness, is a person who is lonely because of love. After living alone for five years, not only the door is closed, but also the exit of the soul. My friend said, "Why do you always refuse other people's care?" I am afraid that the person I love will leave, I can't let go of the fear, but I know that he will not be lonely anymore, because looking at the puppet sent by Tong, he keeps smiling but keeps tears in his eyes. Say "Thank you." He took him out of the lonely intersection and met the warmth of love again. It was the touching "Thank you." That made us finally believe in the saying "Where there is love, there is hope."

I think the reason other people in the film are lonely is not loneliness, but fear. Those too heavy memories, after experiencing "loss", no longer accept "belief" easily. Too many hidden feelings and repressed pain make them collapse in loneliness and become more and more alienated in the estrangement of their souls. But as june said when he finally left, "I am very convinced that even if I am not here, you will have a good time, because there is true love here. Maybe sometimes because you care too much about your family, there are occasional small frictions, but I believe, you I will understand later that the love between family members is right and well-intentioned. We have all made mistakes because of love, but fortunately, it is all for the people we love. Life always gives us a lot Opportunity, let us start all over again and correct the mistakes we have made. I hope you can always maintain this true love, thank you for letting me know what love is." Because of the fear of losing, the loneliness that they cling to tightly turns out to be what they have always been. True love buried in the heart. Although they understand and persist, they cling to their paranoia and alienation and gradually drift away, and they finally get understood and moved in the mutual embrace.

In the film, all those who were lonely and closed themselves because of heavy memories regained the courage and confidence to love after meeting other people who were also lonely because of love. Found "true love". That's the director's theme. "Because of love, there is hope."

"If one day the person we love leaves, can we let go?"

Be sure to let go. "



If one day, separated from the loved one, no matter what, I hope the loved one can let go :)

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