No matter how many times the weather forecast is confirmed, there will
always be an unexpected heavy rain that turns a dog into a dog.
Life is just like the weather.
You cannot predict what will happen in the future
. Thinking the film was wrong, I almost fell asleep. After watching it twice, I realized.
It's really a beautiful love story, not only depends on your ability to seduce girls, but also the indescribable fate and luck
. I was born in science, with rigid thinking, weird ideas, not romantic, not thief, not fun, and super emotional Low and lack of affection, so my courtship/court/girlfriend history is a tragic history. It has always been full of all kinds of failed conversations, confessions/love rejections, rejections before you move, and failures when you haven’t even thought about it. Being rejected, being rejected as soon as we met, being criticized, disliked, missed, misunderstood in getting along with, inexplicably unresolved, inexplicably blocked, disconnected, opening the wrong channel and not getting along well, all kinds of failure cases have almost become part of the past few years. The whole of the emotional life here is simply heartbreaking.
I have always liked watching movies, especially romance movies. I feel that all the beautiful emotions, optimistic emotions, and good visions in the world are reflected in one movie, so watching romance movies is easy to be happy, and it is easy to suddenly feel girlish. (Okay, even a rough guy)!
Just because I have weird ideas, there are always some ideas that break through the common sense of thinking, so some behaviors are always so self-righteous and the effect is inexplicable. When I was in college, basically when I wanted to strike up a conversation, I could know my sister paper. I just rushed up to say hello. The university environment was simple, and everyone was a student in the same school. There was almost no trust cost problem, so the girl who knew me at that time, Still better, whether familiar or not. One of the jokes in the dormitory back then was that the handsome guy in the dormitory went out to talk to the girl, saying that she was a major, but the girl said that she had never heard of your major; when she said my name, the girl suddenly realized, oh, you belong to the dormitory! But during college, I was stunned that I had never been in love, because I lacked love and had low EQ. I wouldn't change 0 to 1. I don't know how to turn an ordinary friend into girlfriends, and I don't know how to do it right. Expressing diligence and confession, not to mention romantic, sentimental, and flirtatious girls, a typical college LOW who has no emotional intelligence is a diaosi.
In the movie, when I saw the director approaching the girl, I felt so bored. This man, he just said a few words over and over again, and he tried to get along with him. The girl is too talkative and boring, and he actually accompanies him. In China, he will basically be regarded as a monster. Call the police or take the initiative to run away!
One of the profound meanings of successful blending: others do not exclude you from talking to or knowing you. Anyone who strikes up a conversation has encountered someone who is arrogant, arrogant, cold, and super alert. It is inconvenient to reply if you need contact information! It was doomed to fail.
Under the repeated invitations of the director Ruan Mo Ruan Pao, the female painter went from refusing to give up to being ambiguous, and finally agreeing to the final agreement, which fully verified the second profound meaning of successful blending: strong girls are afraid of entanglement!
After drinking coffee, I went to the studio and went to the studio to see the paintings. The director's appreciation and analysis made the female painter's heart itch. Therefore, the third meaning of successful blending: I don't want the three views to be completely the same, but why do I occasionally want to Give the other person a real sense of "knowing you" or "appreciating you." In this way, the director succeeded in arousing the female painter's goodwill, and he no longer refused to reject him when they went to dinner or drink together, and even attended a friend's party together. The female painter was completely dazzled and softened little by little.
Just chatting, the sisters chatted about the director's gossip and mentioned the director's marriage history. The female painter was instantly disillusioned and lost her interest. She rejected the director's suggestion to go out for a walk, and returned home bored, causing the director to lose interest. On the second day, I was in a bad mood, and the interview session broke out suddenly and left unhappy. Before leaving, he also promised his assistant sister Zhi, which is probably another chapter in his heart-wrenching peach blossom story! Therefore, the fourth mystery of successful blending: interesting and extra points of topics and discussion materials are very important.
Think about how often you are very ignorant and boring to open up some boring and boring topics, and then you will know how annoying and why so many failures are.
In the second story, in the studio, the two quarreled, but it turned out to be fine. I want to say that the female painter is really a good girl with a good personality. The director was still able to successfully hold the situation. In addition to meeting the right person, there is another point, the fifth meaning of successful blending: Holding people is really a technical job that requires talent. Pure luck. The director is really mature and successful in teasing the painter's itch.
Every time I drink too much, or when I am in a trance, I always feel that there are monsters in my body that are about to burst out. People always have abnormal thoughts of anti-social and anti-personality and want to put them into practice. Or rational restraint to avoid losing control. But the director really took it off in the name of an artist! But the female painter's reaction later really softened my heart. She seemed to relax as if she had drunk too much. The ambiguous and inexplicable feelings between the two slightly drunk people were flowing. She giggled and listened to the director's explanation. After finishing, he said to the director: Drink less next time! She may be able to understand the director's mania and depression, as well as the gaffe-like free release after losing control! When a person/woman has a special affection/like for another person/man, his shortcomings or mistakes may be automatically blocked, ignored and rationalized by her! "I want to watch all the films of your director" is sincere and enthusiastic. The girl's eyes are focused and sincere. If you follow the routine of other movies, it is estimated that they will immediately kiss and even roll into a ball. But the director just turned around and left! There are only beautiful stories and memories left. The girl in the snow is walking on the snow. Although life will continue, the sweetness is already in my heart.
I have weird thinking, unique ideas, but I have no good looks and no emotional intelligence. I have failed countless times in the past. When faced with perfunctory reasons such as the sister paper explaining that there was no fate, I was disdainful in my heart. I said to others: Isn't the fate at this time just between your thoughts? Of course, the results are all haha.
The more you hear and read the love story, you will know that the routine is very serious, and it is really not a trick to eat all over the world. I wrote love poems and told jokes to my first love, and she fell in love quickly. However, after a few years, I was once again living in the single mate-seeking market, but I failed again and again. When you see other people's successful love stories, they are eating, drinking, having fun, and sending gifts to travel activities here and there. You know the routine of a successful love story. Everyone knows it, but not everyone can do it. The conditions are different. Some routines still cannot be replicated.
Look at those love stories that don't tell routines and are successfully managed. They are really wonderful and ingenious results. It is not ruled out that there are routines, scheming, designs, etc., but under the management of the heart, there are still A perfect harmony and success.
A word, a thought, an inadvertent action may have changed the later development of the story. Make the impossible possible, make the possible impossible. You are close to me, you are far away from me, you are rubbing shoulders with me, and you are missing me again. What if I turn back then? You ask George Clooney in "Strategist"!
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