What is the relationship between parents and children as adults? I have avoided this question for two years.
Some background:
Economically, after graduating from university, I was considered independent, and I didn't need any help from my family or my parents. University tuition is a lot of money, and I can pay back a lot of it, but my parents probably won't pay it. I plan to buy a house myself in the future.
Emotionally, I rarely communicate with my parents, mainly with my girlfriend and with friends.
Geographically and with parents on opposite ends of the globe. I usually have little time to go back.
I used to talk to my parents once a week, but now I feel tired when I think about it? I admit that I have almost drawn a line between my parents and my parents. It seems that I am impersonal, unfilial and grateful. Am I being lazy by not communicating with them selfishly? Now that I think about it, I think it's easier for me to not have their concern.
Or is this a natural division between parents and children in adulthood due to changing circumstances? Just like changing schools and changing jobs, it is difficult to keep old friends because there is no daily handover.
The environment has changed, and the remaining maintenance should be family affection? Now I am not filial, too selfish. But still do not want to change. I hope that the opportunity for change in the future is not a pain.
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