For people who have an elderly person at home who cannot take care of themselves, some feelings may be more intuitive. Caring for the elderly seems to be similar to taking care of children, abiding by the law, and being civilized and polite. Speaking of spending more time with the elderly, it seems easy to understand and understand, but in reality, most situations are just like the children of the elderly in the film. I don’t want my normal life to be affected. It’s not that they are not filial, but that this is the only way for everyone. Children have children in the world, adults have challenges from adults, and the elderly have also experienced those. At this stage, they have reached the physical and mental functions. Decline to the moment of death, this is not very beautiful, but it is the law, so there is nothing to regret, the cycle of life is endless, and the earth will turn according to no matter what.
Going back to the topic of caring for the elderly, many people say that we should get married, have children and raise children to prevent aging. In fact, this very Chinese concept is not only caring for the elderly, but more importantly, we should worship at four seasons and not forget our ancestors, but human beings. They are all forgetful creatures. There are not many people who can remember the ancestors of the three generations, let alone further away. It is just the traditional concept that when people die, the descendants will burn paper at the grave, but the practice of geese is becoming less and less. , I used to pay attention to burials, but now land, as a scarce resource, can hardly bear these numbers, and with the propaganda of cremation, it is a luxury to keep a whole corpse, so now everything is changing, and family pensions are also changing to social public pensions Now, the problem we see is that these elderly care institutions are probably not really for the good of the elderly, but just to make a name for themselves or to make a living. What about traditional family care? Children may still have to work, or need to help their children take care of their grandchildren. They don’t have much energy on the elderly. Even if there are children who specialize in caring for the elderly, there may not be elderly people who are so cooperative. When people get old, their hearts will change. It's not that easy to be small, to act like a spoiled child, and to fight for favor. Taking care of the elderly is really not as simple as giving food or serving feces and urine. As shown in the film, they have things they want in their hearts. Some of these are easy to do, some are not easy, some are easy for a day or two, a year or two. It's not easy, that's why people say that there is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time. In fact, it's not that the child is unfilial. It's really difficult. My child grows up day by day and learns more and more things until he leaves himself to go out. The condition of the old man will only get worse and worse. You do your best to take care of it, but the result is the same as today. After a long time, people will be tired or even collapsed. So just do what you can do while you can eat, move, and love. Life is too short, so why embarrass yourself so much?
Having said that, adults don’t understand the elderly like they don’t understand children. Adults always stubbornly use their own ideas to speculate about others. What they think is good for the elderly or looks beautiful may not be acceptable to the elderly. , People are independent individuals, no matter how old or young, sometimes living under the control of others is not as easy as coming and going. Do not force.
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