Then I have to talk about two old actors, Liu Peiqi and Wang Zhiwen. The former played the role of a hard-working and honest father from the countryside vividly, and what was particularly impressive was the intoxicated and rustic expression of his wrinkled nose when he listened to Li Chuanyun's performance. The latter completely brought to life the image of a decadent artist with a quirky temperament and brilliant talent in my heart, which made people angry and funny. The episodes where he quarreled with the neighbor aunt and carefully prepared cat food were too cute! In addition, I really like Wang Zhiwen as an actor. It doesn't matter if he is not handsome, his voice is amazing, and his acting is so natural! And he looks like a genius classmate of mine, which is another digression.
Of course, the most important part of this film is the father-son relationship between Liu Cheng and Liu Xiaochun. The main moving point, as far as I am concerned, is the change in my feelings for Liu Cheng. At first, I felt that although Liu Cheng wanted his son Jackie Chan to be pitiful, the fact that he resigned from Teacher Jiang and replaced him with Professor Yu still made me hate his quick success and fame. But in the end, he knew that he wanted Xiaochun to succeed so much, because only in this way, Xiaochun could live without inferiority after knowing his life experience, and moved by his well-intentioned, deep and introverted feelings.
Furthermore, Liu Cheng knew that if Xiaochun was placed with Professor Yu, he would eventually lose him, but he still insisted on letting Xiaochun be happier than me, so that I can quit in vain. After learning from him, he decided to go back to the countryside silently to fade out of Xiaochun's sight, and at the same time earn money for him to rest assured to pursue his music dream. At one point, Xiaochun had been staying at Professor Yu's house for a while, and Liu Cheng came to see him. At this time, Xiaochun looked more organized and acted more simply. His indifference to his father was in stark contrast to his father's concern for him, and it was heart-wrenching. (There should be "Fly Away" by Corrinne May here TT)
There are many differences between father and son. There must be a contradiction between the obsession of the father and the mind of the teenager. Liu Cheng's impatience and Xiaochun's silent response are also patterns for many parents to get along with their children. Smart children know that the best way to do this is to remain silent. But do children really understand that parents are so angry out of their deepest love for themselves?
After watching this film, I also sank into reflection on my relationship with my parents. I also came to Beijing from a small city, and after coming to Beijing, the frequency and firepower of my quarrels with my mother increased. Maybe it’s because I met classmates from better families and saw the world in the capital. I think my mother is very dirty, doesn’t like to read books, is vain, has poor psychological quality, and easily loses control of her emotions. Moreover, her failure today is entirely because of her personality. She didn't know about her flaws, so when she came to see me in Beijing, I was often sarcastic. She's so strong, but she won't say anything when she hears it. What surprised me the most was that when relatives saw me criticizing some of her practices, they agreed with me, but they all stood by her in the end.
Although I said she didn't speak much, her strong personality tried to manipulate me, which caused us to fire repeatedly. Why should I use advanced ideas to accommodate backward ideas, can't she be a little more motivated? Several times after we quarreled at night, she fell asleep and cried, and said some harsh words, saying that she would never come to Beijing to see me again. I'm a bit at a loss, how could her emotions be so fragile? I didn't say anything.
Later, I learned from relatives and my father that my mother really suffered a lot for me. At that time, she and my father were poor and poor, and there were many brothers and sisters in the family. As a grandchild, I was born late, and the parents on both sides could not spare the time to take good care of me. My mother gave birth to me relatively late, so she valued me more, and she was not satisfied when others took me. In order to take care of me, she gave up career opportunities and sacrificed a lot of time off. I still remember that when I was a child, the teachers said my mother was a model parent. She would stare at me for endorsement, help me with my homework, and teach me to develop a good habit of answering questions.
Her grades were also top-notch when she was a child, but she always failed in the fateful college entrance examination, so the starting point of her struggle was far lower than expected. But her classmates say she is versatile and a capable strong woman. She is a person who does not like risk. After graduation, she was assigned to a good unit, a veteran state-owned enterprise. Anyone who is familiar with the economic history after the reform and opening up knows that state-owned enterprises were going through a painful transformation in the 1980s and 1990s, and the efficiency of her unit was also getting worse. However, there was little concept of job-hopping in their region at that time, so she was there. Stay for more than 20 years until retirement. Her family is actually pretty good. If she has a "flexible mind" and her ability, she should not get along badly. However, she is relatively simple and does not use resources. Although she has high self-esteem, she is not as good as many of her classmates.
Her innocence is not her fault either, since she was a child, she was taught to be upright and her influence was too profound. Part of her dislike of risk is related to her major, part of it is related to the "slow-cooking frog" in her unit, and part of it is because of me. It's not until I have lived until now that I have to admit that sometimes things are better than people. It is really unfair that I put aside all external conditions and think that she is not motivated. And the reason why she is so easily hurt by me, isn't it precisely because she loves me too much?
The generation gap is also an unavoidable topic. Since she gave birth to me relatively late, and we are separated by the fastest growing 30 years in China, how could the concept be the same. When I'm mature and she's old, her eyes will get dizzy after staring at the screen for a long time, and she will soon forget what she's watching. How can I ask her to move forward in sync with me? Imagine that I have a child in the future. He will absorb information from the outside world like a super memory sponge. He will have the energy to try different fields and have a broad vision. At that time, it is very likely that my receiving ability has become dull, or it has been solidified. In a certain field, will I be sad when my child accuses me of being narrow-minded and not enterprising? When I worked hard to provide TA with enough conditions so that his development would not be restricted by his family background, TA only wanted to overthrow me after he was full of wings. How do I feel?
Getting along with parents is not an eternal topic in life, because parents all have a day and a passing day, and the time they spend together is now in years, and in the future, they have to be monthly and seconds. They participate in our most brilliant time, and we accompany them in their weakest time. How to adjust our mentality, how to develop empathy, how to try our best to repay the kindness that can never be repaid in a lifetime, maybe we can take a little more time to think about it while we are busy making achievements.
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