It's really a movie that makes you feel uncomfortable after watching it. As Ahan ranted to the priest: Tell me, what is the difference between these two kinds of love (male and female and male and female)? In this movie, all I see seems to be "true feelings", and gender has been ignored and forgotten. Maybe this is true love, regardless of gender.
Some people say that Birdy's personality is inconsistent. At the beginning, he dared to be a junior. When he was beaten, he jumped off the balcony and confronted the instructor and the police. Later, he did not dare to face his feelings, escape, and hide. In such a contrast, I can see the depth of his love, because he loves too much, and he knows that under the social background at that time, the ending of the two of them together is only tragic. The prisoner found out, so as to prevent the bus and the others from escaping at night, which shows that he is not afraid of being injured), but because he loves A-Han too much, he does not want to let him get hurt, and does not want A-Han to be an enemy of the world for himself. Han, well, living a "normal" life, just like he told Ah Han's mother, asking Ah Han to go to college to make a girlfriend.
If the relationship must distinguish between genders, then, in this relationship, Birdy is obviously a "male". At the beginning, he was active and bold, using the excuse of borrowing soap just to meet him, stealing walnuts to share with him, stealing balloons to make public Confession, to forbearance and withdrawal later, even marriage and divorce, 30 years later still did not dare to summon the courage to keep (suddenly found that it is really like some boys in real life, in the emotional world, always so timid, He thought that he was the great hero who sacrificed himself)... And in my opinion, the gentle Ah-Han is a "female" with a sensitive and delicate mind, even though he was aware that he was still confused about Birdy's emotions, so much so that he wanted to Ask your apprentice. There is a scene in the poster, Birdy looks up to the sky, Ahan slightly looks up at Birdy and smiles sweetly (it's a girl at all)!
Ah Han asked if there was any love between his mother and father, accompanied Birdy to the cinema to steal posters, bought a new car and waited happily for a phone call, and also asked if he liked his car, jealous of Banban and Birdy, and insidiously informed about the balloon-releasing incident (Of course, because of jealousy, he didn't know that the balloon was confessing to himself in the bureau. He only thought that Birdy borrowed flowers to offer Buddha, and stole a good night from his confession.) He couldn't accept Uncle Park's loveless bodily indulgence, even 30 years later The first reaction to the reunion was to cover his mouth in surprise. Although some people criticized this move as being funny and exaggerated, it also confirmed that the character Ahan has always been as cute as a shy girl. Not only that, this "girl" is more brave and stubborn than the other party, pursues pure love, and once love is forever!
In these episodes, gender emotions often occur, and I believe that many people can also find the feeling of "first love" in this warm picture. Finally, on the beach, Ah Han bravely kissed Birdy, and Birdy also raised his head to respond to him. The two knew each other, and their love solidified at this moment. Presumably Ah-Han really understood Birdy's efforts and stopped embarrassing him. He just wanted to say: Well, I will fulfill you, no matter how hard I suffer, I can silently put away this feeling, as long as you are okay.
As for the 30-year reunion, some people say it's a failure, some people say it's a little gratifying. I think it is more gratifying. Although I missed the best 30 years of my life, Ah Han said that I can accompany Birdy for another journey. This journey should be spent together for the rest of my life. If the movie had ended abruptly when they cried each other on the phone 30 years ago, it would be beautiful from a literary point of view, but it would be quite cruel in reality. After a period of unforgettable love that ended without a hitch, it would be the best ending. ? No matter how the world changes, it's their feelings that don't change, don't they? Look, Ah Han finally spoke bravely, isn't it the best ending?
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