2022.1.22
I like this feeling so much, I read the comments and knew it was shot on film.
Whether this is the status quo in India is not clear, but it can be seen that the director is trying his best to be realistic, and the toothbrush, spiders, flies and moths in the house at the end are all proclaiming the originality of this home.
The pain and inability of women in the film is also a major pain point. What is the reason for the heroine's family to let her daughter marry? for money? for the name? It can't be the four walls and criminal reputation of Tu male's family. After thinking about it later, the parents knew that their daughter had an affair with the owner of the construction company. Under the conservative Indian atmosphere, the heroine was no longer complete, so they concealed this and let the daughter marry in a safe and unknown place. Women, in India, it's hard.
Tidari is a seemingly cowardly man, but his heart has been burning with a fire, the drive to escape is so great that he can even witness his wife's infidelity in order to achieve his goals. While some of those obedient character factors make him compromise, like wedding night attempts like grabbing a car. Brother likes to retching and cough loudly while brushing his teeth, so does Tidari, these vulgar things are the subtle influence of the original.
But in general, he is different. He once wanted to go to the police station when his brother committed a crime, but because his brother's prevention failed, Tidali's transformation was not a whim, but an idea. Coupled with the influence of his wife, he wanted to run away even more.
Tidari wanted to escape from the violent and nightmarish family of origin. He wanted to fly out and fly into a normal environment, at least calm and level. Before, the underground parking lot was his goal, the "Moscow" in his heart. , is the peach blossom garden in his heart, the place where he pinned all his hopes on, but the fact is always like this, after he got the parking lot, he vomited and his life did not change, he was still the person in the family circle, everything Nothing has changed.
In fact, this is also the status quo of many low-income or middle-class people. They want to leave, but the transformation is painful. The influence of the family is too great. If you want to break free, you must make special and huge efforts.
Tidari's eldest brother is the leader of the family. His tyranny and tyranny make the family precarious. He is wrong, but there is no way. When there is nothing in a family, he can only do some illegal things. His wife leaves. , the younger brother's request, the eldest brother is trying his best to support the family, he is not like the younger brother who can go, he has to shoulder the responsibility of the family, there is no way, his choice seems to be the only choice. Just like the three brothers in "Home", like the three brothers in "Four Generations Together", it seems that the roles and characters of the three brothers are always like this. Perhaps it is precisely because of Tidari's ordering that he has the choice, opportunity, and idea to escape.
Then back to the topic, look again, has Tidari changed? In fact, too much has changed. Some things in his heart have succeeded. He has achieved his goal. The growth and transformation in this process are invisible. He left his dark home and got rid of his brother's control.
In the process of realizing one's own wish, the will to try hard enough, what you see, the change of mentality, and the change of will are all transformations. It is the ups and downs that we have experienced that make up our life. We only reach for it stage by stage, and the result will only appear on a certain day. What passes by is life.
After the pain is over, a new life is ushered in.
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