This movie is kind of weird to me. While watching it, I cried in many places.
For example, at the beginning, refugees' desire for life and fear of war
For example, the Deoksoo family found their long-lost sister through the TV station.
But when the film ended, I was able to get out of that atmosphere quickly.
Because of what?
Because I am an ordinary person, the life of an ordinary person is also told in the film. However, several heavy periods are highlighted.
The movie chooses an ordinary man, Yoon Deok-soo, and makes him go through every period of special significance starting from the Korean War in 1950.
——In 1963, he went to the Hamborn mine in Germany to mine. In 1966, he returned to China as the first team of Paide miners.
Participated in the Vietnam War in 1974 and returned to China after the war ended in 1975.
In 1983, I went to Yeouido Plaza in Seoul to find my lost father and sister.
Except for the family search in 1983, Dexiu's other periods seem to be fighting with life and suffering.
Can he escape these sufferings?
Objectively speaking, yes, there are other paths for him to choose at every moment. However, the reality clearly tells that it is not possible. As the eldest son, when his father was not around, he would rather study hard than study hard.
He thinks about how to support his family and give his well-studied younger brother a good university; instead of going back to university and fulfilling his dream of becoming a captain, he needs to let his sister marry beautifully first, and make him the only one who can be with his father. Contact the aunt's "Pollen House" shop down.
So, according to his wife, even though it was his life, he was not in it.
From the moment he was separated from his father, his role in the family was not the son of his mother, the elder brother of his younger siblings. He was consciously sincere as an "adult" who was infinitely close to his "father". The price was that he chose to give up himself most of the time. .
But fortunately, he experienced love,
Finally someone can only treat him as Yin Dexiu, and finally someone can do something for him. He is loved for love.
"It sounds like a lie, but it makes me happy"
Fortunately, he found his sister, the guilt in his heart was reduced, and the mother was finally able to see her daughter while she was alive.
Fortunately, he survived all these hardships, with his wife, children and grandchildren by his side.
Fortunately, these are actually particularly eye-catching. Except for sympathy for this person, it seems that we will not inspire other emotions.
But don't most of us, like Deok-soo, spend our lives with less happiness and more obvious misery?
Even in his old age, he is considered the worst-tempered old man on a certain street?
Writing this, I laughed, because it is really difficult for people to understand each other. But if I really had one principle to live by, I'd think I'm really handsome. I will not care about the tears and pain before, and look back on my life and feel very good. Best of all, I was still able to hold her hand and say, "It's time for us to rest."
Looking at it this way, Dexiu is really happy. His heavy life in the past seems to have flown away with Hu Die, or like a butterfly.
The heaviness of memories depends on our frankness.
I saw a sentence in the morning and thought it was very fitting. " Sometimes you find you're on a road you never thought of, but that doesn't mean you can't go to beautiful places ."
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