I'm not afraid of getting old, I'm just afraid that no one will love me

Fatima 2022-04-19 09:03:10

The heroine should have been a decent middle-class female intellectual. Later, using the identity of a young niece to deceive love, is it revenge or punishment? The young niece robbed her husband. In the heroine's own words, the age gap of 27 years is not comparable to that of a 20-year marriage. During the interaction between the heroine and Alex, the heroine rediscovered the passion of love, chatting online, and calling zuoai, all of which she had never experienced before. And what the heroine really fears is being abandoned and not cared for. From the interaction between her and her friend Lu Dong, she will find that she is extremely insecure. The female characters mentioned by the heroine in the class are very intriguing. If I remember correctly, there are the countess who plays with feelings in the French famous book "Dangerous Relationships", and Duras who writes about her lover. And Nora, and you pay attention to what the heroine said about these characters at the time. The most wonderful thing about this movie is that it shows the complexity of human nature, and you think it is the end that turns out. The heroine thought she killed Alex, so she wrote herself to death in her book. If the movie stayed at the last dialogue between Lu Dong and the heroine, you would think it was a pure love movie. But if Alex was really so infatuated, how could he run with the ball when he married someone else? When the heroine was in pain, they had already given birth to a child. Everyone lives well. In the end, the psychiatrist said well, I was leaving. The doctor put herself into this treatment, but she quickly pulled herself out. The heroine, who got rid of her guilt and remorse, was relieved, but in the end she called Alex again, quietly listening to the blind tone on the other end of the phone, and fell into her own nostalgia. What is she missing?

I found that compared with men, women seem to have a paranoid pursuit of love. I can follow you in poverty, but I must feel loved. The end of the film also seems to leave the audience with a question, has the heroine gone out? Women may not be afraid of getting old, but they are afraid of being loved. Why are women so obsessed with love? If love can't be found in a relationship, how can women find the love they crave? PS: The good episode in the movie is the DOGS of HVOB. It's the background music that dances along with the hostess' party.

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Who You Think I Am quotes

  • Claire Millaud: There's no greater rival then the one who doesn't exist.

  • Claire Millaud: We all want to distance our self from the prospect of our death.