We are all incapable of love. I didn't watch the movie, just watched the trailer and the mv of the theme song, so I don't have the right to comment on how the movie was shot. But in fact, we all know exactly what kind of story is told in such a movie. Before we watch the movie, we also hope that this movie can move us. I don't know if the real Lin Zhen in the story exists in real life, but I hope there is such a person. I grew up in a single-parent family. When my parents divorced, I was terribly calm, because I felt that it was none of my business. It was their business. Later, my father married another woman, and my mother was still single. Every time during the New Year, I was most troubled, because I didn't know who to go with. At that time, I felt that it was not a good thing for them to divorce. Why? Because of their divorce, I was overwhelmed during the holidays. When all the things that happen around me bother me, I feel like it's about me. My parents divorced, and I didn't think about it for my mother. The more I got to know myself and the closer I got to myself, the more terrible I felt that I was selfish. But what's even scarier is that I don't hate myself like this. Because, I think all people are selfish. Why am I the way I am? I don't know, I only know that I have lost the ability to love, even for my parents, my love is limited and conditional. Maybe you think I'm talking nonsense, don't forget, some people just don't want to face their ugly self. This is true for the parents who gave birth to me and raised me, not to mention being a passer-by in life? We may never be like the heroines in idol dramas, who fall in love with a person and give up their lives. Our love is conditional. Conditional love often makes us very distressed, but we are willing to keep pursuing such love. We set limits on ourselves, thinking that we can find ourselves for a lifetime, but we end up searching for it all our lives. I envy Lin Zhenzhen. I wish I was always young, always with tears in my eyes.
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