"Goodbye First Love": A tragic love song of high emotional intelligence encountering low emotional intelligence

Justina 2022-11-30 23:48:41

The 15-year-old girl Camille and the boy Sullivan fell in love, fell in love madly, went out and went on a romantic vacation together, and fantasized about all kinds of bright futures. Sullivan, who loves photography, likes to travel around freely, and soon gets tired of the feeling of being with Camille, and goes to another city with his family to experience life. At first, I sent a few letters to Camille, talking about the feelings and experiences of the new environment, and then gradually alienated until there was no news. Camille endured all the pain, suicide and despair after her lovelorn, until 4 years later, she slowly walked out of the shadows with an indifferent attitude, and concentrated on studying architecture, and fell in love with the teacher. It just so happened that they met Sullivan again at this time. The two ignited love again in the years of parting, and cheated on their teachers behind their backs. Just when Camille thought the lost first love was back, Sullivan repeated his old trick and left Camille again.

The film is one of the trilogy by French female director Mia Hansen-Love. Like the first two films "Forgiveness" and "My Child's Father", the film expresses the delicate emotions in humanistic feelings vividly. Seemingly plain but exuding elegance, the quiet hut in the woods reveals unpretentious romance, understating the love, hatred, and hatred of the world, without any pretentious feeling. When Camille swims towards the drifting "first love straw hat" at the end of the film, this emotion is extended indefinitely. If there is no life experience, or the audience with low emotional intelligence, they may not see the reason at all in the subtle fluctuations of the bridge, and they think they are bored and rushed after drinking a glass of boiled water. I don't know, boiled water is the most beneficial drink for the body and mind. Compared with those drinks with many colorful flavors, which are widely advertised, they are much more oxygenated.

This will produce a very interesting phenomenon. The audience with high emotional intelligence is like the girl Camille in the film. She is extremely sensitive to delicate emotions and will be easily moved by the film. And the audience with low emotional intelligence is like the boy Sullivan. If you are a female audience, you can invite your lover and ask to watch the film with him. It is the best way to test his emotional intelligence based on his evaluation of the film.

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Goodbye First Love quotes

  • Camille: Let's go pick our room.

    Sullivan: Not bad. Perfect.

    Camille: It's the kids' room. Why not take one that's more spacious?

    Sullivan: To avoid searching for you in the bed.

  • Camille: Hurry up. I want you.

    Sullivan: Sex. Always sex - the only thing you care about. Wouldn't you rather read for a change?

    Camille: We have all of our life to be serious. Let's make the most of our youth.

    Sullivan: Whatever you say.