the way to say goodbye

Ezequiel 2022-10-13 08:55:02

This is a movie about first love. At the beginning of the film, the 15-year-old Camille
is as beautiful as a goddess in the oil painting.
A box of condoms and a rose.
He loves her without makeup, he loves her, but he also loves traveling far away in South America and finding the utopia of his dreams.
While he loved her, he dropped out of college and sold paintings to raise money to prepare for the trip. He asked her to wait for half a year.
She only loves him, she doesn't understand, if love is not the only thing in life, then what is love. Her life is nothing but him.
One of his busy perfunctory lines could make her cry, until later he said that he was tired of her tears.
Later, when he went to South America, she marked his location with a pushpin on the map of South America according to each of his letters.
Until less than half a year, she never heard from him again.
Four years later, when she became an architectural designer, she fell in love with her mentor and they planned to start a family.
Then, Sullivan appeared. He was still the big boy in plain clothes who rode his bicycle around the streets of Paris,
but Camille was already a mature and well-known designer. She could command the construction workers calmly, but she could not calm down. Facing the old man with ease.
Camille lied to her mentor that she was going to Marseille with Sullivan to start over, but that day, the workers went on strike and the plane was out of service. Another day, he texted.
Then, there is no then.
After a long time, she received a letter from Sullivan at home, he wanted to leave her, the reason was terrible: because, this is not the right time.
But enough to make Camille burst into tears again, just as when he went to South America, she burst into tears and attempted suicide.

At the end of the title, Camille and her mentor go on vacation, a place similar to Sullivan’s vacation in the summer of 15 years old.
Camille wore the straw hat Sullivan bought her that year, and she put the straw hat on the river to go swimming.
The last scene: the wind blows the straw hat and follows the river; Camille swims under the silvery sunset without noticing it. This
song

plays
The movie is not well rated, the plot is too procrastination, the style is too literary, the female director is too emotional and unrealistic, and
even, girl, why don't you wear bra from beginning to end?
Then I think, the movie sometimes still has a deep meaning. Someone who shares the story.
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There is a film review, very cruel:
[This is the reality, there are eternal boys, but there are no eternal girls, even if the latter is much better]
If I have ever had the biggest misunderstanding of love, it is that
we used to think that love is the only one, and the boyfriend is a superman. Savior, he should be there any time I need him
However, girl, not
love for him, like traveling in South America.
We dissect his every word like deciphering, we don't accept joking follow-up explanations
We guess what he's trying to say behind every expression, even if he doesn't say anything
We do his makeup clumsily, even if you say I look good without makeup , I also want to look better for you
We can burst into tears in one second for his casual indifference
We can also burst into tears and laugh for his sweet words in the next second
We can only express ourselves with tears Anxiety of not wanting to lose
until you once said it hurts me to cry, to oh I'm tired of your tears, I really want to leave you
All our first panic twisted into nameless vexatiousness until I forgot original self
We all thought that as long as we could hear your voice and read the words about me, we would be able to reach the end.
This is the purest and deadliest un amour de jeunesses of some girls
. With a sincere heart, with the wrong Ways, to explore and hope for the first love
. Later, we found out that because of me, you pursued the freedom of loneliness.
When I least wanted to lose, I lost myself, and then lost you
. Later, friends will say that at that time What did you do wrong? You also think that if you were not good at that time, would the result be bad?
Just, who can understand that the first heart-piercing person did not want to lose, but you wake up every day and find that you really lost The feeling of coldness in summer is
about the blindness and helplessness of love. It is the mood of night animals that can only lick by themselves
. Later, you corrected the blindness of the mistakes at that time and correct the positioning and value of love.
You said , love is more or less like playing the violin, the violinist regards the violin as life, and some people never need the violin in their life and live
well , in addition to the violin, you have to eat, study, sleep, and have a career.
Just like the last, the straw hat you gave me has gone with the wind
and I am still in the beautiful sunset river, the broken silver light swaying gently, swimming like a fish The
straw hat that has passed away, the past that has passed, rises with the wind, walks with the river, but life still goes on

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Sullivan also has his difficulties. He pursues an unseen future. He risked blocking his college career to find
his dream. There is another beacon in his life that fascinates him. He wants to find answers.
He also has his helplessness. Before deciding to go to Marseille, he watched TV.
A horse ran out of the streets of Paris in winter, stumbled and stumbled on the out-of-place prosperous streets.
That was his portrayal, his miniature, an anxious horse that could not find a place in Paris.
He watched for a long time, Going back to the room, looking at the unsorted clothes after returning from South America, he hugged his head and meditated in pain
. He still couldn't reach a consensus with her about French films, he still couldn't appreciate her paintings,
he still couldn't respond, her expectations, this Not yet, the right time

is just, where is the right time? At that time, the right person was still in

his youth, there was always a stubborn silly girl, and there was always a good boy who could n't do anything.
At that time, the right person, at the wrong time, loved each other, hurt each other, and finally, Separation without farewell
this is our way to say goodbye In the end, it's futile
not to see each other, or
whoever tries to be on whom, just to find a sequel to get back to youth...

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Recently a friend told me about forever, she In my Weibo, there are
always some silly stories that are hypocritical in my opinion, but it does not mean that they will not leave, and it does not mean that the
lover of that person will always come and go, but love will last
forever. It's not that person's love anymore, it's that one, me who won't come again, his
straw hat who won't come again The straw hat drifts away in the wind, life is still in the corner of my relieved smile, go on, go on


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Goodbye First Love quotes

  • Camille: Let's go pick our room.

    Sullivan: Not bad. Perfect.

    Camille: It's the kids' room. Why not take one that's more spacious?

    Sullivan: To avoid searching for you in the bed.

  • Camille: Hurry up. I want you.

    Sullivan: Sex. Always sex - the only thing you care about. Wouldn't you rather read for a change?

    Camille: We have all of our life to be serious. Let's make the most of our youth.

    Sullivan: Whatever you say.