Life shouldn't have rehearsals, right?

Anabel 2022-10-26 11:04:44



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The widow originally rushed to a German movie for the simple purpose of practicing rusty listening, and clicked on the cool title of "The Door of Rebirth". (Can I talk nonsense when there are no German subtitles on the Internet? German pronunciation, Chinese and English two words, it's too cool) I didn't expect too much, but when I looked at it, I found it was a little trivial. (This film won the 10-year German Film Critics Association Best Film Award)

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The plot is too simple: Father David, fooling around with neighbors, neglected his duties and caused his daughter Leoni to accidentally drown in the swimming pool, and his wife Maya refused to forgive his mistakes , break with him. David repented, but accidentally discovered a tunnel leading to the door of rebirth. He went back to the day he crashed five years ago, saved his daughter in time, but happened to bump into himself five years ago. Just after he sent himself five years ago to a "far away place", he thought he could live with peace of mind, but some clues began to be revealed, a daughter who was hiding something, a wife who was suspicious, and a woman who behaved strangely. Neighbor, he will never go back to that once...

After watching it, my first reaction was that there is no dress rehearsal in life, so the director chose to make up the perspective of the gate of rebirth, making the cruel reality a little gentler. People often want to go back in time to correct some mistakes that they shouldn’t have made. Maybe the mistakes themselves have been corrected, but other details that you ignore will lead you to the same destination, or even lead you to a darker situation. Your heart is good, but God will not allow you to do this, otherwise everyone will live in a perfect world of their own, which may not be so beautiful in a dream. So you shouldn't be given a chance to re-choose at all, because how do you know that after you re-choose, the future will be better? Life is live, and in a way, it's brutal, it's real, but it also saves you a lot of worry. You don't have to worry about this step in my life that I'm writing now, will I have to go back and re-wipe it after a while, to correct it, what will happen after the correction, should I go back and correct it? The final word, every step of the way. So there will always be the joy of success and the pain of regret, but these are all your choices, and there is no conclusion that you made a wrong decision at that time (the wrong decision here does not violate the bottom line of morality and ethics, it belongs to The normal category) is the crux of the failure in your life. If you lose your horse, how can you know it's not a blessing, when you know how to experience the joy of "unintentionally inserting willows and willows", you will...

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David, played by Mikkelsen, is a competent and incompetent father who travels back to the past and In order to save his daughter. Although he may not have thought that he would kill himself five years ago and replace him. But he was extremely determined that he would be a better father.

- "What did you do to Dad?...I saw blood." (The daughter lowered the book she was reading, staring at her father from the future. She saw the reality she shouldn't, and she exhausted How torturous it is to adjust to a man who is not a father but looks exactly like his father. She hopes this unknown man can give her a reasonable explanation.)

- "Oh, that. ... We were playing, and he had a nosebleed." (In front of her daughter's sharp eyes, it is inevitable to be speechless, and it is even more difficult to make up another white lie. Difficult.)

- "So Dad is still alive?" (Although there are still doubts, the daughter has come to believe the story, because as long as the father is alive, there is hope.)

- "Yeah, of course." (Even five years ago I am your father when I am dead. He is dead in your heart, and I am by your side.)

- "Where?" (Daughter desperately wants to get in touch with her father.)

- "Far away. "(Thinking for a moment, can't bear to puncture but don't want to deceive, such an explanation, I hope to satisfy my daughter.)

- "Can I call him? ... Can I write to him?" (Daughter's face With a hint of fear on her face, she timidly asked her father from the future, she couldn't trust this unknown man yet, what she believed was the setting of "Dad is still alive".)

- "Do you know what a guardian angel is?"( Perhaps only by changing the subject can I express my deep love for my daughter and rebuild her trust in herself. This step is essential.)
- "Are you?" (After thinking about it carefully, the daughter boldly asked, But in fact, she already has the answer in her heart.)

- "All fathers are. ... They protect their daughters, that's their job. ... But your father didn't do his job, he wasn't there when it mattered. ... That's why I and I He switched places. . . . I'm very similar to him, just..." (With a slight nod, David begins to construct his own theoretical system for his daughter. He comes from the future, and it is because of his love for her that he Determined to go back to the past. It was also a momentary miss that killed himself five years ago. In fact, he just wanted to be a passer-by, to save his daughter and leave, that's all. But things backfired, he had to take responsibility and be more devoted To take care of the lost and found daughter, this is what he should do, and what he is willing to do, because he has become a better version of himself in the future after reflection. It was God who gave him such a rare opportunity , let everything start all over again. This scene focuses on the changes in David's facial expressions, the deep affection in his eyes, mixed with guilt, and swallowing words from time to time because of self-blame, such a kind father makes people feel Moved.)

- "Better?" (Although there is only one word, although the words are very light, but this is the affirmation of everything, it is the silent love.)

- "I will try my best." (There is no tomorrow that cannot be reached, I will Always by your side.)

- "Why didn't he say goodbye to me?" (with a little regret)

- "I think he was too ashamed." (This is my incompetence, my past own incompetence! )

Don't think that the oil painting that David painted on the wall, in which his wife and daughter were tugging their faces with hooks, and looked like a monster, means that he doesn't love the family; , irresponsible; don't think that by killing himself and hiding the truth from his wife and children, it means that he wants to weave a bigger lie. His heart is weak and kind: his paintings are made by his past self and his past views. It is precisely because he did not love this family in the past that he would have this work, and he would fool around. It made a big mistake, and now he is completely new; he tried to meet his daughter in heaven in the future, that is because he found that after being cast aside by everyone, he really had no way out in reality and lost the meaning of life. After being rescued, he didn't muster up the courage to find a new door to rebirth; he couldn't bear to tell his wife and children, because he planned not to let them be hurt again, he wanted his family to accept him subtly, but the paper package. He didn't panic. He had already figured out a way out for his family, allowing them to pass the gate of rebirth again and return to the future to live a comfortable life. "Why are there tears in my eyes, because I love this land so much." What he did was to make this home more warm and harmonious. While passing through the door of rebirth, has been reborn. Until the end of the film, David was willing to sacrifice his own life, to die with the nasty fat neighbor manager, and to block the tunnel leading to the door of rebirth, so that his wife and children would no longer have to worry about it and live a real comfortable life. Life. The image of a great father, flesh and blood, has been shaped.

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"Trust often creates a beautiful state." Mr. Feng Jicai's remarks are really aspirational. But when it comes to building trust, how hard is it? Maya has been sceptical about David for a long time, causing David to try to regain his wife's trust, but finds that no matter what he does, it will be of no avail. Daughter Leoni can no longer believe that David from the future is her father because she stole a glimpse of the blood. She blurted out several times in the film, "He is not my father." Tong Yan Wuji, but it hurts people's hearts. In order to make her daughter accept her, the daughter gave her a hug in exchange for negotiating with her wife, so that her daughter would no longer have to take the annoying flute lessons; playing with her daughter, you need to stimulate her with the "exciting method" to make her feel panic. look at him, come close to him; in order to explain his identity, a white lie has to be humbled, and the unfathomable guilty conscience is always written on his face. So, the best way to get someone to trust you is not to lose his trust in you.

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Life shouldn't have rehearsals, right?

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The Door quotes

  • [first lines]

    Leonie Andernach: We were going to catch butterflies! Mom will be home soon. Please!

  • [last lines]

    Nachbar: Shit!