I finished watching Sweet Honey last night before going to bed.
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——“Finally we all failed”
——“Yes, we all failed”
Maggie Cheung and Dawn lied on the old bed, hugging each other as closely as they were separated and reunited, saying these two sentences During the dialogue, I twitched a little, and I knew, yes, the climax of the movie. Before watching it, 133 suggested that this is the best love teaching film, but I still don't understand whether her so-called teaching is film teaching or love teaching. But at least, in these two lines, love is not perseverance, it is an instinct that cannot be persevered. Life can be calmer than stagnant water, and love is the undercurrent of thousands of meters under the sea. The danger of tsunami is never far away.
The preciousness of love lies in its rarity, and the rarity of love is that it is often forbidden. The favorite theme of literary and artistic works is that people crawl forward on the road full of thorns to the forbidden love. What we think about most, whether it is Snow White's apple or the beast's rose, is that we can't get it. . Love is crazy, love ignores all taboos, love despises morality, ethics, favors, accidents, money, fame. Love is a draw from the bottom of the pot. If you are lucky enough to be brushed by its light, you will definitely leave the wealth, status, and connections that you have accumulated for half a lifetime and run away. And when you run away naked and hug your love, you stop and take a break, but love has changed beyond recognition, and you are more thirsty than before. Love is drinking poison to quench thirst.
②When
Yang Gongru asked Li Ming why he didn't love her but still wanted to marry her, the answer he gave - because this is my ideal.
Is love ideal? Love is definitely not ideal. Ideals are by no means rare, crazy, slashing wages, drinking poison to quench thirst.
So, is love a dream?
It seems a little bit like baa, but you can't be sure. The word "dream" is of the same nature as "socialism", you can't deny it, but it's hard to admit it, if you're realistic.
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The third, unavoidable question is: Can we fall in love with two people at the same time?
First of all, the reason we live in does not allow one person to have such a wonderful and ambiguous feeling of love for two people at the same time; secondly, can our hearts be divided into two, "I haven't changed my mind, I still feel in my heart. With you, only part of it has a her" Isn't it nonsense?
The first question doesn't matter. Time can change the answer at will. Many problems are like this. As long as we are not defensive, the problem will disappear automatically. And the second question, I think, no problem, yes. However, everyone's answer is different, I don't have the heart to convince others at all. I hope that the person who has a soft spot will never be empathetic. For such a person, the maintenance of love depends on belief, belief, and belief in one person, not one's own feelings.
Why can't one heart be occupied by several people at the same time, and small flags of different colors are planted in different areas like the Warring States map? A person can be loved by two people at the same time, and correspondingly, is it weird that one person loves two people at the same time? Love is the most free and wild feeling, or you can try it, do not restrain and control it in any way, and see how far this runaway horse can run.
Li Liming finally lost the bitter inner struggle and got on Maggie Cheung's bed. Did Li Liming not love Yang Gongru? It didn't take long for him to come to Hong Kong. Didn't he love Yang Gongru at that time? If you don't love her, why write a letter and marry her? Is it really just an ideal? Oh come on, the ideal is an empty shell, a versatile excuse. I think he just couldn't explain to Yang how his heart was really occupied by two peerless beauties. He knew that Yang wouldn't believe it when he said it, and explaining the process was labor-intensive and costly. Think about it.
In fact, this is the same as a person who wants to eat and eat snacks. If Yang Gong is a meal, Maggie Cheung is a snack, and Liming loves it. Some people are also addicted to smoking. Not much of the same. However, at the same time, snacking and smoking are both bad for your health and don’t last long. But some people just pursue a short and happy life.
Life is too short.
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