That is my ideal. what about love

Maynard 2022-12-18 06:13:28

"Then why did you marry me?" "That's my ideal..."

Actually, I don't dare to make any comments on a movie that is too good. For fear of smashing them, for fear of defilement of sacred things. That's why, after watching "Pride and Prejudice" so many times, I really never thought of writing something, whether to commemorate or sigh.

The impression of "Sweet Honey" stays in the version of Deng Chao and Sun Li, as if remembering that Deng Chao is called Lei Lei in it, and then there is no impression.

Then I suddenly contacted Liming and suddenly contacted Maggie Cheung.

The dawn of 1996 is still very delicate, and Maggie Cheung in 1996 is still very beautiful. In 1996, Yang Gongru was still very simple.

Li Xiaojun and Li Qiao are two feetless birds who came to Hong Kong on the same bus and started to live hard. They never knew that they had already met at the beginning, and then they were just going around, and then they met, separated and met again. The beginning and the end were already predestined, and the middle just added to the vividness of the story.

Li Qiao said, we are only because of loneliness. When something blinds our eyes, when we openly find a suitable excuse for ourselves, then all feelings become pale. So I started to lie to myself constantly, saying to myself, this is not love, just loneliness, just looking for a substitute for feelings. Xiaojun still writes letters to Xiaoting, but every time he picks up the pen, he writes dear Xiaoting, and then he can't write anymore. After writing and rubbing, I found that there was nothing left to tell. This is his unmarried wife, this is his ideal, and he is a good friend in Hong Kong, and then he will marry Xiaoting. For this ideal, even if you are laughed at, even if you live without dignity, even if you live a hard life, you can endure it silently. But suddenly there is McDonald's, Li Qiao, Cantonese, and two lonely hearts. So Xiaojun's life trajectory began to change. For Xiaoting, love is fading, responsibility remains, and guilt is increasing.

Marrying you is my ideal, so what is love to me?

Xiaojun didn't understand, and Li Qiao didn't understand. They thought that was it, just a little episode in their life. Teresa Teng is really a very powerful force that can quickly draw two hearts closer and make people have faith. People in that era loved her a lot, no, they were mainlanders. Knowing that there are still a lot of her tapes and CDs in my family, my mother once ruthlessly told my dad to divorce her and marry Teresa Teng, even if that person is long gone and gone with the wind. The obsession with a dead person and the envy of a dead person can show how popular Teresa Teng was in that era. Idol power is really amazing. Hong Kong people are not very fanatical about Teresa Teng, so Li Qiao tried her best to hide her preferences. But if you like it, you like it, how can you hide it. So the most exciting scene appeared in the film. First, Li Qiao sat on Xiaojun's bicycle. The two of them were so happy and so simple and sang sweetly. Next is a close-up of Li Qiao's legs, those swaying feet, swaying, at this moment, only a little happiness is left.

However, fate began to change, and Li Qiao and Xiaojun could only go on two different life trajectories. Stocks make people happy and sad. When Li Qiao's household only had so little money left, their happiness was coming to an end. In fact, it's not about money, it's about the path of life. Like dominoes, even if there is a problem in the middle, then the rest will be wrong. I really like how Chen Kexin designed the ATM. On the transparent screen, you can see the subtle expressions on her face from the bottom up. It seemed that at that moment, he understood the human heart.

So Li Qiao met Brother Leopard in the massage room. I recognized Zeng Zhiwei when I saw the back. Zeng Zhiwei's previous plays were well done, but in recent years, he has been addicted to some bad movies and can't extricate himself. In fact, the character in the October Siege is also okay, at least let me see the tension of the characters. That leopard brother, that underworld boss, actually engraved a Mickey Mouse between the dense tattoos on his back in order to make a masseuse happy. At this moment, the whole audience laughed. A man who is willing to do such lovely things for women is overwhelming, so Li Qiao later saw Brother Leopard lying in the morgue and said, turn him over. That eye-catching Mickey Mouse was still very happy. At that moment, Li Qiao laughed and cried. Who can understand her feeling. I think I, at most, understood part of it.

They are separated. Li Qiao and Li Xiaojun separated. At that time, Li Qiao was massaging Brother Leopard, and the BB machine around his waist kept ringing. Li Qiao may know, otherwise why is she so guilty and so bleak. That was Xiaojun's last message, and then he left decisively. For his responsibility for his ideal.

So the story developed like that, I marry you, that is my ideal, I do not love you, that is my freedom. Li Qiao has a very good future, and Xiaojun is also very busy, so busy that he doesn't want to talk to Xiaoting, so he falls asleep when he gets home. In fact, Xiaoting should have seen that the person beside her no longer loves her. Because no matter how tired you are, it is also a very happy thing to have a loved one waiting for you at home. Physical fatigue will not affect your spirit. Only when you lose some spiritual support and emotional sustenance will you be really tired. I don't know if Xiaoting is really stupid. Or he and Xiaojun were lying to themselves.

They also meet, and they even become friends. They thought they could face each other as plainly as before, knowing that the wrong horn sounded suddenly woke them both up. So everything became clear in an instant, and they realized that they had missed so much. So the two groups of burning flames are still burning hot. Xiaojun ran home and told Xiaoting. This scene is very interesting, Xiaojun seems to give up his ideal suddenly, so how can Xiaoting believe it. hysterical. We go back, we go back to Tianjin. Then everything was like starting from scratch. But we can't go back. Ideals are very important, so what about love, must we give way to ideals? The ideal has already been realized, but how should love be placed. Tell me how to lie to myself again. Dear Xiaoting, I thought I loved you very much, but now, I have only responsibility left. I'm sorry, but I can't lie to myself anymore. At first I thought Xiaojun was cowardly, but when he saw his true heart and worked hard to pursue happiness, he was really brave. Ordinary people do not have the courage to tear their faces. How much love, in the end, only responsibility is left. But it continued. So divorce after many years of marriage will be very incomprehensible to the world. Since they have been together for so many years, why are they separated? But when only family is left, why must it be tied together? In one's life, there will never be a lack of energy to pursue love.

But in the end they were not together. Responsibility is something I don't quite understand right now. It was because of that Mickey Mouse, so Li Qiao willingly followed Brother Leopard to the end of the world. How can we give up when others are the most difficult? This is not allowed and criticized by the world. This is the moral concept formed by the Chinese nation for thousands of years. We are only obedient to morality and ethics. Li Qiao got her conscience right, but Li Qiao reluctantly gave up her love. Xiaojun has been waiting by the river with an umbrella, but he can't wait for that person to come back. It's raining heavily.

Xiaojun still chose to leave Xiaoting. To be a human being, you must be worthy of your conscience.

Years later, Li Qiao saw a small army on a bicycle in the United States. So he jumped out of the car and chased after him like crazy. But in the end, she still lost him. In the end, she could only leave in gloom.

I wonder what the story would be like if it stayed here. Real stories often end here. Our lives do not always have a happy ending. Some misses, one mistake, one lifetime, one mistake, one lifetime repayment. We can't wait, and we don't have the courage to wait. So, too many stories are that a certain woman sees a certain man's flowery wife, and a certain man sees a certain woman's lovely child. This is life, it is cruel, it is very realistic, it is very helpless. It has no ending.

In the end, they still met. That year, their common idol died. They stopped in front of the same TV. Then he turned his head, looked at each other, and smiled: So you are here too.

Looking back suddenly, love is in the deepest part of my heart.

PS: I have read most of the book on how to write a film review, but I still can't use a technical perspective to analyze the problem. My sanity is really low. One of the main points of the book is not to see things through my eyes. Can not integrate too much personal feelings, to be fair and objective. Sorry, I can not do it. I can only honestly express my feelings.

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Comrades, Almost a Love Story quotes

  • XiaoJun Li: Everyday was a new experience. If you were next to me, it would have been so much better.

  • XiaoJun Li: All I want is for you to live happily. I'm leaving tomorrow. I'm scared. It's the 1st time I fly. I've never been too gutsy. I dare not ask you to forgive me. We have been together all these years... we have walked all these paths... Xiao-ting, it broke my heart too.