This isn't a movie review, it's just a memorial to my grandmother

Lukas 2022-11-21 04:59:56

Emphasis: This is just to commemorate my grandmother, and has nothing to do with the movie.

From watching this movie to writing these words, the tears have not stopped, and I cried like this not long after the beginning of the new year.
Sister Tao's image is so similar to her grandmother, even with the same hairstyle and the same disease.
My grandmother was also a Christian and very devout. Always teach us to be kind to people and to be humble.
Although he believed in religion very early, he was baptized very late for some unknown reason.
The final ceremony was also her will to end in a Christian way.


It's been almost four years since my grandmother passed away, but I can still remember what happened at that time.
I went back to the dormitory after class at noon, and was about to get off the bed to get a bowl to make a meal when I received a call from my mother.
She told me with a cry that my grandmother passed away. In an instant, it felt like the sky was falling, and my mind was blank.
Then, when he came back to his senses, he burst into tears, and Zhang and Xiong looked at me with a hint of surprise.
Before that, although I knew that she had become sick again and was hospitalized, I never thought that one day she would really leave me.
He stumbled and climbed out of bed, thinking of going back quickly and writing a fake note to Xu Ma.
Although there were other emotional things that were bothering me at the time, I had no idea and didn't want to worry about it in those two days.
The day after I got home, I went to the funeral home for the last time.
My grandmother never wore makeup before her death, but she did very well after her death.
Lying in a transparent coffin, he couldn't tell that he had passed away, he just felt that he was asleep.
Seriously, the worst time I cried in the past two years was those two days.
Later, I watched the cremation, and then took out the ashes.
While kneeling there, I thought that if my grandmother could survive, I would rather exchange my own life.

I have been closer to my grandmother since I was a child.
After the car accident was hospitalized, the one who took care of me the most was not my father, but my grandmother.
When you are weak and helpless, when you are confused and confused, you are the grandmother.
When I was a child, my favorite place to go was my grandmother's house, where the villains and comics were accompanied for many years.
I never liked going back to my hometown, but as long as I went to my grandmother's house, I readily agreed.
At that time, in order to make us believe in religion, the Bible was concise and easy to understand and full of stories. When I read the book after I was a little older, I couldn’t find anything interesting.
My grandmother also acted coquettishly. The most vivid time I remember was when she took a nap. When it was time to wake her up, she told me to be coquettish for a while.
Later, every time I stayed in bed, I would come up with excuses like "grandmother is also in bed" to make excuses.
When I get older, I spend less and less time with each other, and only meet each other during Chinese New Year and holidays.

The first time I found out that I was in poor health, I was just in college when I decided to have an operation, and I also suddenly told my dad that I was going to Shanghai with my grandmother.
After I came back, I decided to have an operation. I just finished it during the winter vacation, and I got off the bus and went straight to the hospital.
At that time, I saw my grandmother had a tube inserted after the operation, but when I saw me coming, she smiled and cried, "Wow".
My mother laughed at me at the time, saying that the operation was a success, why are you crying?
Not long after I was discharged from the hospital, I received my uncle's home to prepare for the Chinese New Year. After the operation, I recovered well. The original yellowish complexion has also changed, and there is no problem with walking.
Everyone had a New Year's Eve dinner together during the Chinese New Year. Speaking of this, I had lingering fears, but my grandmother was still optimistic and said it was all right.

After being hospitalized for the second lesion, my body function declined sharply, and the treatment became more painful. My temper gradually changed, and I also got angry with the nurse who was doing the treatment because of some trivial things, but then I realized that I was wrong and apologized to her. There should be no tantrums.
Both physically and mentally, they have been tortured. The children have to go to work and can only take turns to take care of them. However, my uncle’s daughter was born, and I can’t take care of myself and come here often. I love this little granddaughter and my grandmother very much. , the most worrying is also this granddaughter.
This is what my mother told me later.


After my grandmother passed away, there was a photo in the house of her and my two younger sisters. She was smiling happily.
Cherish the person who loves you and be with her for a lifetime.

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