In the world, there is no love that exists without suffering.
Looking back on the 1995 Swedish film "Farewell to the Classroom", many, many people have annotated its meaning and bits with their thoughts and words. It's a film about growing up, it's also about youth, about love and lust, about marriage and responsibility...
and I just want to see this film from a love perspective. Love is subtle and intense, and love is painful and broken. This is the unquestionable destination of this deformed love, which, like all such indecent, unblessed, unacceptable loves, will eventually lead to the same end - sighing oblivion.
Sting, a 15-year-old boy, is handsome, mature, kind and sensitive. He has the necessary potential for a forbidden love. Viola, a female teacher, is mature, beautiful, sexy and gentle. Her husband cheats and travels all year round. The flames of vengeance and burning lust in her body are enough to push her to the brink of unscrupulous love.
A large part of Viola's attraction to Sting is physical, she has everything a young boy yearns for, a plump and beautiful body, a sexy and charming face, a gentle and peaceful character, her bare white neck, and tight legs , became the cause of Sting's admiration.
A young adolescent boy, pure, kind, and pure, he has all the good qualities that an adult man has lost, and he is also a recipe for the love that an adult woman misses, needs and desires.
They are like germs growing quietly, silently bursting out sparks of love, such sparks are gorgeous and intoxicating, like a shy and excited kiss at the corner of the stairs, with uncontrollable trembling and gasping, falling into the abyss of love.
Forbidden love is like Satan's evil gift to mankind. It is like a poppy, coquettish, innocent, dangerous and illusory. Forbidden love is perhaps the purest, perfect love that is not stained with a single smudge. Without the restraint of age, the gap of status, the fetters of money and the barriers of reality, it just blooms the most beautiful and beautiful flowers, but it also fades away without a trace overnight.
As a member of the society, on the one hand, we experience the superiority and convenience brought to us by the social system; the way. In fact, our love is not pure. There are many practical reasons that make our love and choices more in line with the needs of survival and life, rather than driven by feelings and instincts. We all have a rebellious and detached side in our hearts. We yearn for the call of the most primitive instinct and miss the pure and flawless first love from the bottom of our hearts, which is a portrayal of our desire for pure love.
In the world, there is no love that exists without suffering. The seemingly pure and splendid love on the outside can only wither in the soil of reality and turn into decay. Because no one can exist apart from others and society, on the one hand, we try our best to break free from the shackles that imprison us, but on the other hand, we create a binding cage for ourselves. This is man—the fate we cannot escape.
The love between Sting and Viola has gradually deteriorated. The root cause is Sting's growth. The innocent and beautiful boy will eventually become an accidental and indifferent man, just like Viola's husband's present is a portrayal of Sting's future. No matter how lingering the relationship between Sting and Viola is, their trajectory in real life continues. And their love is just an accidental intersection of two lines that deviate from the track, and will eventually go further and further away.
Sting's guilt drives him to pursue the love that belongs to his age, and the deeper and deeper Viola also begins to have a possessive desire for Sting. For a 15-year-old boy, it is difficult to ask him to be responsible or loyal to love. It is the conflict between boys and men. The distance between them, after all, went farther and farther, leading to the final break, a beautiful and dazzling love, which finally turned into an endless sigh and disappeared with the wind.
In reality, love and marriage must bear pain and responsibility, and must face derailment or betrayal, temptation and change. We love each other but it is more like walking hand in hand, we embrace each other but keep the distance between each other, our love is no longer so pure, in order to let our love go further. We sometimes endure loneliness and pain away from love in order to better understand the meaning of love.
Therefore, the dazzling love like fireworks, the forbidden love, the indecent love, the pure love can only exist sadly in the illusory mirage, and it cannot be rooted in the cruel and cold soil of reality. Although it makes people feel sad and lamentable, it is the knowledge and clear truth that we must learn to live in this world.
We all grew up in the youth of gasping and sighing, and slowly learned about love.
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