It's normal to dislike a good friend's boyfriend, but I also believe that most girls respect their best friend's choice.
If there is a good friend and boyfriend who hates you and speaks ill of you, you don't need to make trouble unreasonably. If you are real friends, you will not be separated because of a man. You and your best friend have a really good relationship. It's "mother's family". Of course, if you think that the man is not a good person and your good friend is a lover, you only need to be solemn and reminded appropriately. If she still refuses to listen to her advice, respect her blessings, and she will naturally turn back when she hits the southern wall. . But if the man doesn't like you and she is so in love that she listens to the man's words and resents you, maybe you are not so-called good friends.
Whether it’s love or friendship, I firmly believe in going both ways. If there is a problem, as long as one party is passive and unwilling to solve it, the relationship will be over. In the movie, both heroines encountered situations where they were single and played with their best friend boyfriends. The first blonde girl who falls in love has obviously found that her boyfriend and girlfriend are in conflict, so she should avoid them and try to balance the relationship. From her point of view, her boyfriend seems to have no problem, but from a friend's point of view, she may not accept it, or it may appear In the second big episode, there was a similar situation in which the boyfriend made unkind words to his friends, but it was not filmed. Although the blond heroine did not handle these two relationships well, the most difficult thing to accept is the way the black-haired heroine did. She chose to take revenge. She said okay, we might as well exchange positions. When I see how I feel, I will Her heart skipped a beat, it was true that she cared about each other, but she chose not to communicate or stay away, and if it didn't work, she would end the friendship. She chose revenge, which was too despicable.
The relationship between the two heroines in the movie is very morbid. I think it is the most unacceptable thing to hurt each other by revenge in friendship. If you hurt me endlessly, I will retaliate against you and you will retaliate against me. This kind of friendship is internal friction and will Falling into the bad emotions that you generate can even affect your study and work. I have also encountered revenge on my own friendship because of possessiveness. I am glad that I did not choose to imitate her behavior to take the same revenge because of the discomfort, but this kind of relationship is really exhausting myself. Separation is the best. Choice, we gradually did not continue to be friends, but simply maintained the relationship with classmates.
I am writing this because I think back to those days when this bad friendship tormented me for a long time. It was very, very uncomfortable but there was nothing I could do. If I did something to make her feel uncomfortable, you can communicate with me directly, because I have The acceptance of emotions at that time was really like a "Muggle", and in the end I tried to solve the situation, but the other party was cold and violent. Later, I slowly figured out that continuing on would only hurt myself, if she really It is important that I will take the initiative to communicate with me, rather than revenge and later make me make unilateral efforts. I also admit that good friends also have good friends other than me, and they will feel unhappy. I think this is a reasonable emotion between friends, because you value each other, so it will be like this, if good friends will not be because of other It's actually very good to have a good friend and ignore you~
In the end, it's awesome that the blonde can come out and continue to take revenge on the black hair. I don't know how long they will maintain this deformed friendship...
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