Ada lovelace
February 2, 2019
this is a true story.
A little girl from a relative's family, aged 6-7, is in the second grade of elementary school.
One evening, after school as usual, she changed her lively and lovely personality, wore the rabbit fur collar coat she often wore, and returned home silently. At this time, her parents were still cooking and chatting with her older brothers and sisters about their experience of going to school today.
After being silent for a while, she still had the courage to say to her parents, "Mom, the old man who is the gatekeeper of our school's reception room... and then cried out with a "wow". Parents seemed to realize what happened, and their tone was full of anxiety and asked, what happened to him? What did he do? Say it now! She sobbed and said, he took off my pants... Her parents were very anxious and asked, what else did they do? The child said, I played with XXX in the classroom, and then he came, XXX left, he took off my pants, and I ran away. Her parents immediately rode a motorcycle to her school. At this time, the old man who was watching the door in the delivery room was still there. Her parents scolded the old man sharply and slapped the old man several times in the face. The old man did not fight back. This old man has been a janitor in the reception room for many years. He usually seems to be reticent and an old bachelor. No one would have expected such a thing to happen. Her parents are still educated people, and they did not cover up the incident for fear of shame. After they called the police, the police dispatched and took the old man away.
It was later learned that the child was stripped, but she escaped the sexual assault.
But even so, it affected her life.
Such explosive news happened in a peaceful village and town, which has become the talk of countless people after dinner. The experience of the child also made this mother, who was educated but not high enough, extremely painful. This case should have been a public prosecution. The parents did not hire a lawyer to save money. The first trial even lost the case. Because the villains who have done bad deeds hire lawyers at all costs, the parents may have little money, or they may not be enlightened enough. They want to rely on themselves, of course, it is impossible to succeed. This child has appeared in court several times like this, and I don't know how much pressure and pain she has endured.
When the parents finally realized that they couldn't win without a lawyer, and they couldn't bring the bad guys to justice, they made some connections and found a lawyer who was well-known in the local area. After the lawyer's defense, they won the case. , the old man was sentenced to 2 years in prison.
The mother of the child is very distressed. Many times she loves her children, but her heart is not strong enough, she will cry, she will be uncomfortable, and almost everyone in the town knows about this, which makes her even more uncomfortable. When the child makes her angry and disobedient, she will scold her. If you didn't go home after school and play at school, how could you have let this happen.
When her sister grows up to find a partner, Liberty falls in love with a boy from the same county. The boy's aunt happened to live in the same town as them. The aunt reminded him side-by-side that you were looking for a girl who was sexually assaulted as a child. Because the child's sister was mistakenly confused with her.
Her brother said that even if I marry a girl who has been sexually assaulted, I will not despise her, it is not her fault, it is the bad guy's fault.
She has grown up and is not very obedient. Her parents found her a good job, and she was reluctant to do it. She fell in love with a rhetorical man who was eight or nine years older than her. She left her parents and eloped with this man. Her parents were angry, sad, and sad. However, no one knows the pain of the person involved. It is not known how much this even attempted sexual assault case affected her.
Obviously it is the evil of adults, but it is for children of a few years old to bear. Whether it's gossip, whether it's the parents who are not strong enough in their hearts, although they won the lawsuit, no one thinks about dredging their children's hurt hearts. It made her feel that it was me who did something wrong. I didn't go home early after school, so this bad thing was found on me and on my family. caused her tragic fate. Maybe relatives and friends will mourn her misfortune and be angry with her. However, who can know how the 6-year-old's psychology was tortured again and again, whether she also classified herself as the type of person who did not deserve to have a good boy to love her, but just thought that as long as someone can fully Just accept everything from me? These, I have no way of knowing.
I hope that parents can protect their children now, and when children really encounter misfortune, they must have a strong heart, because parents are the children's biggest support. If parents can't accept the reality, immersed in pain, or even angry with their children, it is undoubtedly Inflict secondary damage. In this way, the life of the child is ruined.
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