Can't bear to look directly, can't look back, can't speak, the wound placed there...

Chaz 2022-04-24 07:01:23

I couldn't bear to look directly, couldn't look back, didn't dare to say anything, the wound there

: Last night, I watched a Korean movie with my pad in my hands, and I cried so hard that my eyes were swollen.

B: Oh. Korean movies are sensational and tear-jerking.

Hearing such a dialogue, will you habitually think that it must be the tragic and innocent drama of Korean aphrodisiac idols that moved women to tears!
Oh! you are wrong! ...
He, a long-lost old lover, has become tall, low-key, and meaningful after you abandoned him for a few years.
She, a long-lost old best friend, is no longer just her delicate and beautiful face and her coquettish feelings, but more plump, full, real and unpretentious depth.

Last night, I watched such a Korean movie "Sowon", also called "Wish".
The beginning of the story, ordinary, to some vulgar family life scenes. A family of three lives in a small town. My mother is busy with life, her hair is loose, and she runs a small shop. She is so meticulous about her life that she complains a little. The father is in the factory and works honestly. For the daughter of the second grade, this father does not tie his hair, and the thick lines are so thick that the daughter dislikes it.
"Xiao Ming has 9 pencils and Xiaohong has 3 pencils. How can we make two people have the same number of pencils?" This is still a problem that Suyuan, the second-grade daughter, can't solve, because in her eyes, Xiaoming is a neighbor Xiaopang, and Xiaohong is him, Xiaopang has such a big head and such a strong figure, how could he give her 3 pencils?
Meatless dinners, dads who can't tie their braids, oh, and moms who have a little intrigue with neighbors and sisters and get pregnant every three years. This life is mediocre and ordinary, and if it weren't for the following "tragedy is to tear up the good for you", you would not suddenly realize how happy the first few minutes are!

One rainy morning, because her father didn't tie her braids, she missed her little friend's daughter, Suyuan, a cute little yellow umbrella, carrying a pink schoolbag. She listened to her mother's words, walked on the main road, and went to a place not far away. School.
However, a "bad uncle" with a disgusting face and a smell of alcohol stopped in front of him and asked the little girl to hold an umbrella for him.
When the camera flashed back, the broken and dirty little yellow umbrella was thrown aside, and the little girl who was beaten and ravaged was dying of blood.

The next story is that after you have seen the most despicable and dirty human nature, you can see from despair the warmth and light that human nature strives to shine... I almost cried and laughed, laughed and cried, watching in a loop Tears filled his face and his neck was wet.

Suyuan is too sensible, she blamed her parents for delaying work because of her; when the reporters and the media rushed to the hospital like crazy to shoot them, she saw Suyuan with a wounded face, with her father on her shoulders and holding an infusion in the other. Bottle, running desperately to avoid the reporters, I suddenly had a biting reflection on the various actions of the media reporters...

Seeing this, I am so worried that this film is so reckless and decisive that it is all human indifference. and dirty.

Fortunately, there is a social worker aunt who is in a wheelchair and feels the same way. Kim Hae-sook, who is known as "National Mom" ​​in South Korea, is not afraid of setbacks, and she takes the initiative to help the little girl, the girl's parents and even the neighbors

; A neighbor who is so loyal all the time;

fortunately, there are such simple, kind, brave, and lovely children, the pain of the neighbor's chubby self-blame, and the encouragement and blessings of the children who cover the door;

just like this, I am alone, volume Shrinking in the cold winter day in Jinan, the tears not only flowed down my face, but swept across my neck and pajamas.

Perhaps the thing that touched me the most was the father who was so careful, clumsy, but sincerely loved his daughter. The father could only get close to his daughter by hiding in a puppet.

It's a very realistic film, not only because it's based on real events in South Korea, but because it shows, like reality, how powerless the law can be at times. After being sentenced to 12 years, public opinion was boiling. The judge said, "It's 12 years." The girl's mother asked in pain, knowing that when he was released, our daughter was not yet 20 years old?

The director of this film is Li Junyi, who once earned a lot of reputation and money with "The King's Man". The film won the 34th Korean Film Blue Dragon Award for Best Picture.

This movie will move people so much and win the attention of many fans, not only because he dispatched the softest part of people's heart, but more importantly, we will ask a lot of why? -----

Why, with the same or even more serious real problems in our land, Korean directors can produce excellent works that are both critical and artistic? ,

Why, the child will be hurt? After the injury, who should show up to help them? What should parents, children, people around them, society and the media do? (Obviously, the reporter who cruelly pursued news interviews in the plot reminded me of myself.)

Why do children suffer from such perverted adults?

Why, such crimes that the whole society hates to the point of gnashing their teeth, often escape the law in the end. Severe punishment?

Why are there so many children and family members around us who have suffered in this way, and they chose to remain silent? What about their lives?

Also, when our so-called first-line great directors are holding on to the illusory ancient costume martial arts, the creativity of frying cold rice is poor, and the box office can easily exceed 100 million yuan, it is just an aphrodisiac for Chinese films and even the cultural industry.

On this majestic land, being beaten and torn apart by the whip of the times, will every corner, every small room, every ordinary family like you and me be all realistic themes, waiting to be Refine, enlarge, wake up, and spread! Isn't such a realistic theme worthy of enlargement and presentation?

......

Last night, I don't know if it was because I drank a cup of Pu'er, or because I was tortured too deeply by this movie. I tossed and turned, I saw a news article, I saw a post by a girl on Tianya Forum. She recounted how, when she was a child, she was taken away by a neighbor's uncle and suffered the most painful memory in a muddy corner, under the neglect of her mother who was careless and addicted to playing mahjong.

The post started like this, she said that she and her classmates in the same dormitory read a news article saying that one out of five to six people had been sexually assaulted. The roommate said, how can it be so high? ! Girl, didn't say anything, the confession in her heart was, yes, you won't know, in this dormitory, I am the one. With that, there was her next post and her courageous confession.

Surprisingly, on every few floors or a dozen floors below the post, there are girls who are reluctant to say anything but painfully recall the abuses they have suffered, to a greater or lesser degree. Some of them have established an unbreakable barrier with their parents, because in her heart, their parents are the first responsible person who caused all this; some of them hate men, do not believe in love, and give up society indifferently. In our brightly

lit cities, in our villages where we are familiar with each other, in an era when our rapid development continues to fail to keep pace, our children, everyone's childhood, every future child's childhood, in the end, what should How to face such unbearable wounds and those who caused them, how should we deal with them?

In my city, in 2013, an 8-year-old girl disappeared from the door of her home. After searching for many days, her body was finally found. Raped and murdered by a young man from a neighboring village. How is the family of that little girl, Xiao Aiyu, living now? Are there social workers or psychologists to help them? Hey... Everyone has forgotten, and they are still counting the wounds that will never heal... Will
Xiao Aiyu's family get the help of social workers, the support of neighbors, and the tolerance and warmth of society, just like in the movie?

View more about Hope reviews