When you fall into the dark abyss, don't be afraid, because there will always be light coming in, and it will shine even brighter
I saw a clip of Suyuan on Douyin. It was the part of her father wearing a doll coat and talking to the girl. The girl took off her father's hood and wiped his sweat. Then I searched Suyuan on Baidu and read the film review. I felt very dark and negative. After hesitating for a while, I downloaded it and watched it, because I felt that there are always some sufferings that need to be faced, and the ugliness of human nature will not Because if you can’t see it, it doesn’t exist, and it’s good to say a sentence. You can see how oppressive darkness you can see, and how dazzling light you can see. So, I watched this movie and it really made me feel like a big man. Movies to cry.
There are three episodes that moved me the most in the film. One is the chat with the doctor after Su Yuan slowly recovered. Sometimes, the inexplicable maturity of the child will make us very distressed, because the child who should be innocent and carefree has become When the smile stopped appearing, and the speech began to become less childish, then the child must have experienced enough hardships, like Suyuan in the film, when the psychiatrist asked her about her feelings at that time, she said, I used to hear my grandma say, oh, I'm going to die, I'm going to die, now I can understand this feeling, and then the psychiatrist asked what it means, she said, the reason why people live in this world, suddenly mixed feelings, Inexplicably distressed, it is not that there are so many tragedies in this world, but that this sentence came out of the mouth of a little girl, a little girl can calmly say a centenarian sigh, what she has experienced is different. How can ordinary people understand it?
The second episode is the chat between the psychiatrist and the mother, calmly talking about the same experience. In fact, when a person can calmly tell you about those painful experiences that you seem to have, it means that he He has already digested the pain alone. Some people experience suffering and will become blackened, and then let more people experience the same pain as him, while some people have experienced suffering and will digest it and turn it into warmth. Let others avoid suffering like him; and the latter is actually the hero that Romain Rolland said. Romain Rolland said that the real hero is to choose to love life after recognizing the truth of life. In fact, in my opinion, in the movie, the girl and her family are great. When suffering comes, they did not choose to give up on themselves, but chose to walk out hard and still be gentle to the world.
The third plot is the conversation between the girl and the father in the doll costume. It is normal for the child to have psychological shadows, but the darkness needs to be driven out by the light. In the film, the girl's friend posted a note on the door, and the child's mother and best friends played together Dolls, these are the lights that help the girl walk out step by step, and for the girl in the dark abyss, how dazzling and precious these lights are to her.
As a 20-year-old man with a daughter's dream, he often brings himself into the role of a father when watching movies, and gradually understands some truths. At the beginning, my parents were busy with work and felt that it was right to work hard to make money. The child is good. In fact, this is also the disadvantage of most families. They pay too much attention to the material and completely ignore the spiritual level. In fact, many times, your giving may not be what the child wants. Instead, your easy care will make the child feel happy. I won't be so negative that you give up your job completely, but people are definitely not alive for the numbers in their accounts. Everything we do is just an experience in life, so cherish the people around you and experience every good thing more. Bar.
And the father in the back of the film is great enough and does all kinds of things to eliminate the shadow of his daughter. What we see is a doll who can play the role of a doll and realize that the daughter made a candy paper for her because of the embarrassing sound of the toilet bag. The voice avoids the embarrassed man. For a big man to be so careful, only his father's identity can explain it.
There are too many sufferings in the world. If you haven't experienced it, you should be glad. If you encounter it, don't be afraid, because darkness can make you realize the preciousness and dazzling light of light, and cherish every light even more. I have always felt that the value of human beings lies in their tenacity. There are always people who can overcome the barriers that everyone thinks they can't overcome, and there are always people who can live a wonderful life when everyone thinks that they have encountered such a thing and their future life is ruined. So, when you are really unfortunate to fall into the dark abyss, don't be afraid, don't panic, because as much darkness, there will be more light.
I didn’t plan to write a movie review, but I think it would be better if more people could see this movie and more people would pay attention to topics like sexual assault. In fact, the public should pay attention to sexual assault and criminals. Instead of paying attention to the victim, the best protection for the victim is to let her return to a normal life, so that she will not feel that this is an insurmountable hurdle.
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