The loneliest and
the saddest smile the brightest
because they don't want others to suffer the same way.
——The long-cherished wish
Suyuan, the homonym of the long-cherished wish, is also the long-cherished wish, which means the wish that has always been cherished, the ordinary wish, ~reward, in return~
I think, as a parent, the biggest wish is that children can grow up healthy Adults, but even so, it is the wish of parents to keep their children safe from harm.
I remember the description of family affection in "Filial piety is priceless": it is "fleeting nostalgia", "inability to pay attention to happiness", "the past that once slipped into eternal hatred", and "the chain at the intersection of life and life" , once broken, never connected".
Well, here are some feelings about parental affection after watching the movie, let’s go back to the movie itself, I deliberately chose to watch this movie in a quiet time in the early morning, because I saw a cute little loli on the movie poster, and The movie is classified as a feature film. I can probably guess that it should be similar to "The Furnace", but the melting pot depicts teachers and students, and this film must depict the relationship between parents and children.
After watching the movie, I forgot how many times I cried, but it suddenly made me ponder, why Korean movies always care about the disadvantaged groups in real life, while the Chinese movies only care about the superior local tyrants? Why can only South Korean movies be used to map the tip of the iceberg of child sexual abuse in China?
1. About the movie
"A
- Did I Do Something Wrong? Don't take off, don't take off.......
The father was thinking about cleaning up his daughter's incontinent stool and nervously wanted to take off her pants, but Suyuan resisted with all her might, and finally burst into tears, her father felt at a loss Inadvertently hurting her now-worn daughter heavily, at that moment, Su Yuan burst into tears, and her father fell to the side numbly.
In fact, in my opinion, the best way to understand a father's love for his daughter is this scene, that is, the complex expression on the father's face when he falls to the side, guilt, sadness, helplessness, all the flavors of life are suddenly mixed together, but it is precisely because It is so complicated that people can see that the silent father's love is no longer silent, but erupts in silence.
I personally think this plot is very ingenious, because the story develops normally according to the plot, and it must be the parents who feel guilty and want to make amends because of their negligence. If they only love to make up for it, it is a very dangerous thing. , because it would be very extreme.
And it is precisely because of the father's unintentional harm to his daughter that the father can truly appreciate the harm his daughter has suffered, and can develop empathy.
Of course, it's okay not to have this plot, it's just a bit blunt and directly transferred to the sincere emotional line between father and daughter.
"B ——Ouch, I
'm going to die, ouch, I'm going to die.......
Grandma → Pain in joints = Ouch, I'm going to die............
Su Yuan → Born into this world = Ouch, I am going to die.......
Su Yuan told Psycho Obasan that she finally understood what grandma said before, Ouch, I am going to die, Ouch, The meaning of dying.
The psychiatrist and Su Yuan's mother also talked about her surprise, so I'm reasonable, but, I think, what can surprise you will lead you to see the essence of things.
Suyuan was not only sexually assaulted, but also had an artificial liver door for her entire life. She suffered permanent damage both physically and psychologically. I was wondering if this happened to you and me, would we be able to escape the shadows, even if Only one small step?
However, although the movie is fictional, the story is indeed derived from life. I can only say that it is only a matter of time before Suyuan understands the meaning of this sentence, and the movie just wants to tell us more bluntly that people must live Suffering, fate, it's fair to say no.
Just like the difference between the movie "1942" and the novel "Alive". The former just wants to survive, even after being humiliated. The latter is not only alive, but also smiling and surviving—even if it is a wry smile, not only living, but also making a rude joke with fate from time to time.
Of course, Suyuan didn't want to play rude jokes with fate, she just wanted to live with a smile, she just wanted to go back to school, she just wanted to be with her parents, and she just wanted to play with her soon-to-be-born younger brother.
Ouch, I'm going to die, ouch, I'm going to die, grandma keeps nagging, but isn't it still alive and well? So Suyuan understood the meaning of these simple words. She wants to coexist with the scars of this time, she wants to live, even if she will face this injury again in the future, she still has the "Ouch, I'm going to die" nagging from her grandmother. Heart.
This determination to live a good life can also be reflected in the trial at the end of the film. If Xiao Suyuan hadn't dragged her father to prevent her from turning violence into violence, I think her father would have been imprisoned for it. Only true warriors dare to face the bleak life.
So I think that even after that scumbag is released from prison ten years later, Xiao Suyuan's brave heart will allow her to get through all the difficulties well.
"C
Even though the film ends with an ordinary but really happy life, it still shows sympathy for the injustice of the disadvantaged and condemnation of the injustice of justice in South Korea.
Of course, compared with "The Furnace", it is simply too warm and loving. You see, when Xiao Suyuan had an accident, the neighbors and friends of Suyuan's parents were eager to help, and Suyuan's chubby friends also acted as The fat angel came to protect her, such a loving scene is really too warm compared to the dark and ugly scene of the melting pot.
However, the injustice of justice is still staggering. Of course, if it is compared with the celestial dynasty, it is too fair. But, I still don't understand, isn't drunk rape count as rape? This is more powerful than the Chinese theory that rape with a condom is not considered rape!
The sturdy theory does not need explanation, so the trial at the end of the film is also explained carelessly. I don't know about that funny and foolish weirdo in one round. After I pretended to be stupid and defended, the judge actually followed suit and drank. Getting drunk and committing a crime can be understood as committing a crime in a delirious mind, but being insane is not the same as being insane!
(⊙o⊙)…, so, the judge’s decision really made me feel more energetic.
****************Sowon's Angel***********Gorgeous Dividing Line**************** **
2. It has nothing to do with the movie
A" Let's talk about the issue of Chinese and Korean movies:
Chinese movies only care about the disadvantaged groups and return to the essence of movies - people, and the rest of the movies are just making money. Tricks, gods make others, disgusting oneself, these films are not about sincerity, but about whether they have no conscience, but about shame.
Of course, it's a bit heavy to say shameless, because it's not worth our anger.
Let me put it this way, Korean movies are simply a window for vulnerable groups to breathe. You can watch "Mother, Memories of Murder, Miryang, Wedding Dress, Harmony, Happy Ghost Upper Body..." You know these films, single mothers, disabled people, fugitives, deserters and these groups at the bottom of society, who should pay attention?
There are only Korean movies. You have watched Chinese movies in 2013. It was not a chick movie that made a silly girl wear crystal shoes, or a dwarf and poor diaosi who proposed 101 times to a girl like Sister Zhiling.
However, who has seen a few elementary school students taking the principal of such and such to open a house, who has seen a few single mothers who have been physically and mentally injured in domestic violence, and who and a few fugitives have been wrongfully imprisoned Yes, does anyone know how many disabled people are unable to shout in a red and white cross?
Movies are not for us to update the idea of how much fun and funny, but just to convey ideas to people, to trigger our thinking, and to inject more positive energy into us.
2014-01-07 6:09.am
Xiao Suyuan's Angel
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