Watching a movie also needs to pick a time or a mood.
For example, stop listening to sad songs on cloudy days, and stop sprinkling salt on them if you have wounds.
This film is called "The Runaway Bride". I watched the film on Sunday night. At that time, the light had already appeared. I knew that I was waiting for dawn.
Not to mention the liking for Richard Gere. It's like not using words to describe the beauty of that big-mouthed woman. There is a woman's beauty that needs to be seen calmly. A woman appreciates another woman because she can see her beauty more precisely.
His role in it is a columnist. The ex-wife is his boss, and the embarrassment that comes from this can be imagined. So go to the bar to relieve boredom from time to time. She is a young woman who runs a hardware store alone in the countryside. She has walked on the red carpet with the groom-to-be three times and finally escaped marriage. Was it because of fear or something else? unknown.
He wrote about her by chance. Of course, he, who has always been quite critical of women, would not let go of any chance to ridicule.
She ran away from marriage because she was really afraid, or as he said: She was just happy to knock down men and look at them in embarrassment.
All the conditions for the two to get together are prepared. The story unfolds from this.
If you are curious about a person, does it mean that at least they have begun to pay attention to the other person?
He went to Maryland, which is a rural place to find answers.
She independently supports a hardware store, but because of the professional needs she studied at the beginning, or to better increase the family's financial income?
She told her friends that I wouldn't care about it at all. As a result, behaved indifferently. She doesn't care about other people's comments, teasing, or caring inquiries about her. However, when he came to look for it, she was clearly in a panic, and she kept her head down and did not dare to look up until there was no way to hide.
He helped himself find the answer step by step, through various channels. However, the answer is more important. While he sees others very clearly, others see him as well.
His job was lost because of the strange woman named Maggie, but because of his manuscript. It hurts self-esteem. The most important factor that hurts self-esteem is simply because of his boss-his ex-wife.
Why don't you believe me. He said. I lost my marriage, but I felt familiar with each other. I thought that when anything happened, I would get a little score based on mutual affection and familiarity and trust.
However, for the ex-wife, that is two different things.
So Maggie asked him, why did you divorce her.
He froze, and then smiled helplessly, yes, why, he himself didn't know, there was no answer.
The same is true for Maggie.
She thought that people all over the world could understand her, and she opened her heart frankly for people to see and touch. She said to the first bridegroom who escaped marriage, did I hurt you? There must be none, right?
At that time Ike was fully investigating her situation. She was panicked and had nowhere to go, so she ran to the church to find the first bridegroom to escape marriage. At that time, he had become a pastor, and the past had begun to be far away.
She talked endlessly about her troubles and pain. She said, the past is over, I may have hurt you, but I forgot all of it, right?
He was silent, said, and forgot. Such a woman can't hate even if she hates it. This is the true feeling in his heart. But in the end he also said, please come and pray next time, is it okay to find another priest.
Only then did I realize that it hurt a lot, even if I didn't hate it, but there would be trauma in my heart. Maggie was startled, and it took a long time before she said softly: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I know.
Maggie has some of her best close friends.
When he was young, his first love was an excellent softball player, and later married his best close friend.
Every time when the relationship is close to good, there is a feeling of fear of gains and losses, even if I don’t know the reason for the fear, I always break up in the end. When I grew up, I simply escaped the marriage. With a long red carpet, I was only a few steps away from completing a ceremony, but I just couldn't really close my eyes and walk over.
She didn't know the reason, and there was no answer, and she couldn't even explain it herself. So she continued to be friends with them freely, using her way, to watch band games, watch softball games, and cheer for him with excitement... She always used her own way.
Ike said, you are so excited to express your feelings, what about her.
Finally gave people a stick to wake up. She said, I'm just excited by myself, nothing more, it doesn't mean anything.
She asked her best friend, would we hurt you every time we were on the field.
The best friend remained silent.
Best friends, there is actually a limit to mutual familiarity. Regardless of whether she really cares, but her nature can really make people nervous.
Just like Ike said. Do you know the relationship. Feelings sometimes come suddenly because of your attractiveness, and attractiveness often makes people misjudge.
She is cheerful by nature, and her expression is straightforward.
She looks sweet and tall. A lot of men are fascinated when they smile. And it's easy for people to approach.
But you don’t even know what you want. Ike said.
Do you know what you want. When you are with the priest, you like to eat salt and pepper eggs. Together with the entomologist, you like poached eggs. You are with the band player, and you like scrambled eggs. Now it's more straightforward, you like to eat egg whites.
By then, Maggie had rehearsed her fourth wedding. And a team member who likes climbing.
Do you really like climbing the Himalayas? Ike asked her. You keep getting lost, you know.
In fact, Maggie is not the only one who is lost.
For so many years, he didn't know why he broke up with his ex-wife, and his relationship was very good. The answer has been unsuccessful for many years.
But, like Maggie, did he care about his wife? Has he studied and explored the thoughts of his ex-wife as carefully as he did with Maggie?
Twelve years later, the two have been divorced for many years, and once again sit peacefully and play the piano together.
He said, I'm sorry...we...I didn't care about you before.
Tears filled the eyes of his ex-wife. There were no complaints and blames at that time, long ago.
Even if they are separated, they just hope to give each other more space.
However, because I finally found the answer, I felt more relieved, as if I could finally breathe freely and happily in the sun, and the two could finally get along again-it is impossible to be together again, tolerance, forgiveness, understanding does not necessarily mean looking back , But at least there is no regret in my heart, because I want each other to live so well.
Maggie is always looking for a sense of inner security.
My father is a drunkard who often hangs around in bars and gets drunk and needs her to stuff him into the car and take him home.
My mother left very early, and the family has needed her to support her for many years.
The fear of marriage started very early. Just like his father couldn't bear to have such a wayward woman, but in other words, she didn't like having such a father. The family that lost her mother allowed her to start independence earlier, what else did it bring to her? Safety? A sense of belonging?
She was afraid of facing many people, even though she laughed loudly in front of her friends in the crowd.
She usually says a lot, is it to hide something? Inner loneliness, fear? Or is it fear of the future. Remove all the masks, the tired mask, she is just a lonely child who gets lost in the lonely world from time to time.
Many people propose to her, romantic, touching, nice and special...
But the fear of marriage is not the process of the wedding, but the days after the marriage.
Then what? Then it’s always so good. This is hope, but at the same time it is not realistic.
Ike said, when I used to propose marriage, I said this: I know that our days are not going to be smooth sailing, we may have nothing and even poverty... But I also know that if I don’t take care of you, it will It is the most regrettable thing in my life.
This is Ike's confession to his wife when they were married before.
What is the answer.
The answer is the true inner voice.
When two people have the same answer, they will naturally get closer.
There is no need for a grand wedding, no blessing from others, no courtesy from relatives...
No, none of these are needed.
The way that marriage can continue in the end is actually very simple: communication, understanding, tolerance.
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