A warm and loving family environment is so important. Ahao has been good in all aspects since he was a child, and his father had high hopes to become the only son in his mouth. These pressures forced him to keep getting better. But he is not a perfect person. There are no perfect children in this society. He also hopes that someone can hear his talk and become a big tank for him, so that he can hide in it and be himself. In the end, he cleaned up the room and jumped off the building to commit suicide. He didn't want to cause trouble to his family when he died. Ah He was ignorant since he was a child. He was rejected by his father, and he was imprisoned. His father wanted him to be imprisoned until his death. In such a love-deficient environment, he would choose to use his fists to solve problems, boxing, in school, out of school, or fights. After he was imprisoned, he would also fight at the beginning, and he would always rely on force to solve problems. What my brother needs is shadow, but what he lacks is sunshine! And it's all because of a dad who can't communicate.
There is indeed a big problem with Dad's education method. Should we blame him? The two children are treated in two extreme ways, and they never take the initiative to talk to the children. But he is also pitiful. His final confession said that he was just a driving school instructor, and he didn't know how to educate children and how to communicate with them. Maybe he was taught this by his father since he was a child. Obedient and sensible children love him even more, and ignorant children treat him coldly and violently. Generation after generation, they never use equal communication to solve problems.
From Dad's confession, we know that when Ah Hao died, he recognized Ah He as his own son. So he put together 200,000 for Caitou who was looking for Ah He trouble, but Caitou rejected him. At this time, Dad didn't talk to Ah He to discuss how to get Caitou's forgiveness. Instead, he chose to follow them silently, find an opportunity to directly kill Caitou, and take care of everything alone. As a father, he thinks he's doing the right thing, helping his children out of trouble for a while. But I think this is the greatest sadness. Generation after generation, silence is used to treat silence. I never saw any interaction between Ah He and his children in the film, I was afraid that he would be the next Ah He.
Caitou is also a poor child. He lived with his grandmother since he was a child. It is conceivable how his childhood came to be. At the beginning of the film, in order to avenge his good brother Ah He, he cut the black wheel, but in court Ah He put all the blame on him, resulting in him being sentenced, the house paid to the victim, and the grandmother homeless. Ah He was released from prison three years earlier than him, but he didn't go to see him. When he went to find Ah He, Ah He just wanted to quickly draw a line with him. In the end, he died at the hands of Ah He's father. What would we do if we were Caitou.
Xiaoyu is also a poor child. Her parents both died in a car accident when she was five years old. Since then, she has lived with her aunt. Because of her, her aunt has no time to find someone. One can imagine what kind of family atmosphere she grew up in. So she became pregnant with Ah He's child at the age of 15, and chose to give birth without hesitation.
This movie is telling us how important the communication between parents and children is, and how important it is for children to grow up in a loving and loving family. The company of parents cannot be less, and communication cannot be less.
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