Everyone lives in a "sick" family

Kaya 2022-04-21 09:03:22

As a life science researcher, the author has been trying to understand the mysteries of biology itself. While marveling at the perfect evolution of life, I can't help but think of the imperfections in human nature. The movie begins with Sima Guang's "Xun Jian Shi Kang", the "perfect" of ancient people and the "imperfection" of modern people, also reflects the reality of human nature being imperfect. And where evolution is imperfect is often where we spend the most energy. Compared with the nose, ears, and eyes, teeth are the places where evolution is imperfect, but it is on this imperfection that we spend the most energy. Few hospitals are diseases of the five senses, but dentists have grabbed the most. Benefit. A physical examination once a year detects many organs, but the teeth need to be cleaned once every six months. This is the best evidence.

Let me explain here that the author considers himself to be a patient in a "sick" family, so he may see things from a different angle than some people, or show more morbidity. It's like when the media asked why Li Jian didn't have children, Li Jian's answer was that he felt that he was not good enough to inherit. Many times, the author also has similar thoughts. Although I went to university, studied for a doctorate, and went abroad, I always felt that I had too many problems. More such "sick" people would increase the imperfection of society. It's good to be empty. But the parents didn't seem to see it through.

Said so much nonsense. The purpose is to apologize if the comments are contrary to your opinion.

Seeing such a movie, it is true that the sun is shining and the five flavors are mixed. How come, this is not a "sick" family? For the understanding of this movie, the most important thing may be his text message. Although from a geographical point of view, it is not very correct (the sun in foggy London may not come as much as the beaches in the south of France, so the sun is not fair.), but this does not affect the whole sentence of this sentence. Interpretation of the film. The elder brother played by Xu Guanghan talked about the weather on the day he went to the zoo, and said that everyone had shadows, but he didn't. In the previous article, Sima Guang, who was also in the shadows, saw the shining Sima Guang, Sima Guang, who was smashing the tank. It also has its own shadows, although I don't know what he means by Sima Guang in the shadows, maybe I think Sima Guang is a hypocritical person, saying that he likes simplicity and hates luxury.

He also said that his younger brother had a shadow. From the beginning, the crying child had milk to eat. He liked to ride on his mother's bicycle, and sometimes a ride would last two or three hours. It may be that everyone's eyes are attracted to the more excellent brother, but their attention will be reduced. Only when I beg my mother to ride me will I have the opportunity to be alone and love my mother. And going to primary school is not happy, it is more likely to find that his efforts are not as good as his brother's, which has caused his own predicament. And this kind of predicament is something I can't complain to my parents. I have a younger sister in my family, and I understand the situation where my parents will compare the results after the results are released. This comparison not only caused the troubles of the younger brother to be unable to extricate himself, but also caused the elder brother to want to be flawless. In this comparison, the older brother can only work hard to live up to his parents' "eagerness", while for the younger brother, no matter how hard he tries, he is not as good as the older brother, so he gradually stops working hard and even breaks the jar. Show your darkness completely.

He also mentions the dark side of his little girlfriend, I don't think he's referring to anything earth-shattering, but maybe just being timid while watching a gorilla. This kind of cowardice may not be shown in the eyes of my brother. Even when the gorilla slapped the glass, he had a jolt, but it didn't show it.

He said he had no shade to hide from, and the sun was shining everywhere. This is not very understandable what does it mean? Is it the sunshine that he expresses himself, or the sunshine that others give him? It is speculated from conventional logic that the second is that other people give themselves too much sunlight, so they have no time to hide. But I think it's the second type, it's the sunshine that he expresses, making the other shadowy self unable to escape. Just like we often say that it is dark under the lights, the existence of sunlight makes us often ignore the existence of shadows. There is a thin cloud floating in the clear sky. This thin cloud cannot cover the brilliance of the sun, but ignoring its existence may ignore the upcoming downpour. For the family, it was the death of the eldest son.

His death, some people say is depression, do not know. I don't know what is a symptom of depression, or if it's hard to see. But is he really depressed? Or an overwhelming choice? The latter feels more persuasive. And the last straw that broke the camel's back might be his "quasi-girlfriend" who said "I'm sorry". His performance is sunny, and his superficial self has won the love of the people he likes. But will this kind of love disappear because of the exposure of his dark side? He could see very clearly how his father behaved after his younger brother showed his dark side, and was not even willing to admit that he was his son. Therefore, the older brother may know in his heart that he cannot show his dark side no matter what, whether in front of his parents or others. And now the appearance of "quasi-girlfriend" has also increased this pressure sharply, and he wants to show the sunshine.

His multi-faceted performance, the father's good son - study hard; the mother's good son - share the troubles; the younger brother's good brother - bring his girlfriend to see him; the prospective girlfriend's good boyfriend - have the strength of a boyfriend. All the perfect performances made him feel like they were just a projection of what they should be. If you are not like this, maybe this feeling will no longer exist. The father will treat himself like the younger brother, the mother will ignore him more, the brother's feelings will be more indifferent, and the girlfriend will not like him. Under this kind of pressure, wouldn't it be a relief for him to leave a perfect self? His tragedy is not a personal tragedy, nor is it a family tragedy. In the interpersonal relationship, too many imperfect families are producing "new patients". He is only the extreme embodiment of many "patients".

The author likes to say a sentence, although not necessarily correct, is "If you know me as I do, then you will love me as I love myself". Only rarely do we show our true selves, and more and more we are wrapped in layers of cocoons, gradually suffocating ourselves. Although the title has "sickness", it does not mean the real sickness, but the complexity and impenetrability of human nature and human heart. Compared with other societies, our society has experienced so many things in the past forty years, and each generation has almost completely different ideas, from how grandparents want to be born, to parents, how they want to be born secretly, In our generation, no matter how you want to be born, you will not be born. The rapid changes in society in a very short period of time, pulling and pulling the family forward, eventually became fragmented.

When watching Marquez's "One Hundred Years of Solitude", the author thought of a society where the small peasant economy is bankrupt, "everyone is Buendia, every city is Macondo".

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