Today, I saw the ideal public account and posted an article called "We are all suffering from a terminal illness called "aging". The title is so scary, and it makes everyone's anxiety index go up a notch. How to do? How to do?
After getting old, do we need to limit the bathing time to 14 minutes a day, just because we took a 15-minute bath last time and caught a cold.
When we are old, do we need to make an appointment with a doctor for a physical examination every day, even if there is nothing wrong with our body?
When we get old, do we need to eat only cucumber lettuce and salad every day, and there is no gourmet sweets in the whole refrigerator.
That's right, that 75-year-old son, Babu, did just that.
However, how did his 102-year-old dad do it?
Wave outside day and night. That's right, he's tough and has traveled all over India. Live like you are in your 20s.
Then, when Dad was about to leave for the world's highest post office to write a postcard, and followed the doctor's advice for a full body check, a tumor was found in his brain.
Anyone can have mixed feelings at times like this. Dad passed by a nursing home on the way home from the hospital and picked up the brochure. Yes, he got it for his 75 year old son. The son who lived like a 90-year-old.
Of course, the son is reluctant to go to the nursing home. Even the nursing home will hang up after receiving a consultation call from his father, thinking it is a harassing call.
Dad wants to remodel his son at the last minute.
So the father gave his son many tasks. For example, write a love letter to a dead wife, cut off contact with the doctor in charge, cut off the blanket that has been used for 65 years and can't sleep every night when you don't use it, walk the streets of Mumbai for a day, and go to the places with memories that you used to go to when you were young .
Although this task list is very different from the list in the Bucket List, the functions should be similar. Although you are old, don't let your mind grow old. Isn't that what's the difference between waiting to die?
I clearly remember a scene in "If We Live Together". Son sends photographer dad with heart disease who lives alone to nursing home because he doesn't have time to take care of him. However, after several of his old friends of the same age visited him at the nursing home, they found that the entire nursing home was lifeless and only had an atmosphere of waiting to die. So the four wives directly planned to steal the photographer from the nursing home. Ha ha. Because they don't want their friends to die.
The father gave his son the last task, no one could have imagined that it was to cut off the relationship between his son and his son. That's right, his son Amo, who went to the United States for 21 years, was the unfilial son of Babu who worked hard to raise him and then went to the United States. Every time someone asks for help, I write a letter to my family and end with I hope you understand. Ask your family for money, I hope you understand. If you don’t tell your family when you get married, I hope you understand. When my mother passed away, she said she was busy with work and didn’t have time to come back. I hope you understand.
Dad said something very reasonable. To treat those unfilial sons, you just need to remember their childhood days. At first, Babu couldn't get through emotionally. After all, that was his son, and he was his son no matter how unfilial he was. I am willing to do anything for my son.
Of course, the American grandson flew back to India when he heard his grandfather called him saying that he was going to split up the family property. Babu eventually broke up with his son at the airport and drove him back to the United States.
In the end, the father's age stayed at 102 years old, and he did not fulfill his wish to surpass the 118-year-old world record, but he did not record a paragraph for his son. This wish was fulfilled only by his son, and it was only 43 years away. year.
Aging is a terminal illness, so we need a healthy body, a group of like-minded friends and a to do list that we always want. Always be young at heart. child? Isn't it a product of carelessness after being cool when you were young?
I hope you understand.
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