game theory of love

Fredy 2022-04-22 07:01:53

I feel that Indian movies are a bit flaky lately.

Compared with the previous "Three Silly Raids in Bollywood", "Slumdog Millionaire", "My God" and "Wrestle!" "Dad", this year's "Mysterious Superstar", "Starting Line", "Mr. Hiccup", and the just-released "Dad 102 Years Old" have a rhythm of going downhill.

Although "Dad's 102 Years Old" has been well received by Yishui'er on the Internet, it feels that the routine is too obvious. In order to present the so-called shocking reversal, the film does not hesitate to deliberately create some contrasts, which is really unacceptable. However, it's not enough, and it's more than enough. Compared with domestic films, there are some 3D films with dazzling special effects, which are quite good.

The biggest gimmick of "Dad 102" is that the 102-year-old father (Datley) sends his 75-year-old son (Babu) to a nursing home. The joke reveals warmth, and the theme and performance are very fresh. This is undeniable. The discussion on how to live in old age and how parents should love their children is also of practical significance and can indeed lead to some thinking.

We all envy our 102-year-old father, who can play football at an age, travel the world, and has a childlike innocence who loves toss and refuses to accept the old. However, most of us will live as careful babes, nostalgic, like regular life, regular checkups, afraid of getting sick, and give all of our hearts to our children without expecting anything in return.

Perhaps, in the eyes of people who have to live a new life every day, Babu's life is simply boring and useless. However, I think this is also an attitude towards life, and everyone has the right to choose their own way of life. Master Confucius said, "Do not do to others what you want to do to others." I oppose any form of imposition of interference. Of course, in the face of parents' finger-pointing, all words seem pale and powerless. Either in China or India.

The movie is powerful, and the line that appears twice is "I won't let your son beat my son", and Dutley wants to make Babu face how unfilial his son is in his own way. When I watched it, I felt sympathy for Babu, he was the kindest and most loving person in the movie, not Dartley, who lived a free and unrestrained life, because whether it was in his relationship with his father or his relationship with his son , Babudo loves more, so he will agree to his father's extraordinary requests again and again, so he will satisfy his son's ruthless demands again and again.

I don't quite understand why Babu lived to be 75 years old before Dutley remembered to correct and change his attitude towards life. I didn't know what to do before? Datley wants Babu to live a more active life, and sunshine is nothing to blame, but many of the tasks he put forward are puzzling. At the beginning, he asked his son to write a love letter to his deceased wife, which was very healing, really good. But then, regardless of the son's body blowing the conch, have you considered the lung capacity of the 75-year-old? Do you have any problems with your son's regular check-ups? Why can't I go to the hospital? The most unacceptable thing is that at the end, dancing with my son in the rain, the 102-year-old and 75-year-old are exposed to the rain for a long time, does it really matter? Common sense cannot be ignored in creating an atmosphere.

Are Indians physically different?

And Babu has lived to 75 years old, can he not understand the virtues of his son? It's just not willing to accept it, escaping from reality. I didn't quite understand why there are people like Babu's son? Why can he take Sony Ericsson's success for granted and let Babu pay willingly? Why does he have the upper hand in the parent-child relationship? Only recently did I realize that he used Sony Ericsson's method, treating Babu's love as a resource, using Babu's love as a slave and domesticating each other with emotion, and using the other's love to gain dominance and advantage in the relationship.

He wasn't going to love Babu, he just wanted to be loved.

Parents are the most likely people in the world to love the most primitive you, whether it is your friend or your lover, they love the packaged you, the considerate, gentle, polite and educated you , Many times, we are willful, critical, open-mouthed, and unpleasant to our parents, just because they love us a little more than others.

It is said that love is selfless and priceless, but I think love is a game. We are not saints. We will compare, measure, and demand. Whether it is in parental relationship, friend relationship, lover relationship, or the one who loves more, it is always the one who is being manipulated.

No one loves the original you for granted. If you happen to have it, you should really appreciate and cherish it, instead of taking it as a threat and treating them worse. If you misunderstand the meaning of love, no one will love you again in the future. Just like Babu's son, he lost more than what he didn't inherit.

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