Each of us girls need to be good to themselves

Kamryn 2022-04-19 09:02:50

Every time I watch a French movie, I feel disturbed, and
the interpretation of the story is always not directly thrown in front of the viewers.
Even with the slightly broken-sounding French.
So always pay attention when watching, otherwise it will be difficult to see what they are talking about.


"Them" is the work of a female director,
and then the whole work is narrated from an absolutely female perspective.
I think that's something a male director can't do.

The film starts with the story of a middle-aged female reporter, Anna, interviewing two girls who assisted in dating at a university.
Another main line is Anna's life as a wife, mother, and even as a woman.

Two assisted dating girls, with different personalities and traits,
are walking on the same path for the same reasons.

Charlotte, the girl next door who uses Lola as the pseudonym, has the sweetest smile, and
her smile infected me, and
the girl with such a smile said "everyone is alone." This kind of thing.
So in the depths of such a sweet smile, I seem to see sadness, escape, helplessness, acceptance, enjoyment...
This sweet smile seems to be a carrier oil, reconciling various feelings.

With smoky makeup, the sexy and charming Alicja
always has a vague smile on Anna's questions.
I saw her disdain for life,
she wanted vodka, music, and food.
She danced enchantingly with the rhythm and pulled Anna up. It was
difficult to associate such a fairy with the shawl-haired, innocent girl in distress before.

The narrative begins when Alicja arrives in Paris with lost luggage and her father's irresponsibility.
Without any support, an Arab male student handed her a student card.
Later, the story developed as people thought,
Alicja slept in the Arab dormitory, of course, they slept.

Alicja stood on the balcony of the dormitory and shouted, and
Arab told Alicja with the most simple and sincere narrative
: All men want to sleep with women, and they want to sleep with you.
I don't know if this has any effect on Alicja's journey to aid friendship,
but the Arabs did narrate a truth.

Also impressed me. . .
Anna asks Lola: What do you think is the hardest thing about doing this?
Laura replied: Lie.
Then the pretty French girl who always smiled sweetly cried.
Yes, lie all the time,
lie to others, lie to my parents, my boyfriend,
and then, lie to myself.

Most of the people they serve are men with families and decent jobs.
Am I right to say that these men have transferred to these girls what they
cannot show in front of their wives . Or maybe these men know better than women: falling in love and getting married are not the same thing. You want your wife to be virtuous, gentle and well-mannered, and then there's a coquettish little slut in bed. It's paradoxical, but that's what man desires. More paradoxically, when Anna tried to please her husband in the same style as a prostitute, she failed. The man finally pushed her away. Yes, pushed away that charming and active her. He said he couldn't do it. Yes, as a man, he can't accept his woman like this, although he likes it. As for why it can't be accepted, I think it's from this point of view,














Not like some other dating girls.
The girls in the film are students from various colleges and universities.
They have bright minds and receive higher education.
Engaged in such work is only for their own tuition, living expenses.
But whether it's to buy a Hermès bag,
or to get enough food and clothing, it's all done.
The former is despised, the latter may be sympathetic.
But in my opinion, the reason is not an excuse for a person to do something.
It's the same for girls who are assisted dating, just do it.

So Anna's husband in the film said: A prostitute is a prostitute.
Ana understands these girls deeply. She is angry and tries to refute her husband, which
obviously doesn't work.

Just as Du Shiniang thought that she had met the innocent Li Jia, and
she took every step of the way, so that she
could finally be happy.
In the end, it wasn't that the money was gone to the bottom of the lake, and he himself committed suicide.

So, I want to say something to the thousands of girls who can get rich overnight by being nurtured.
A prostitute is a prostitute.

It doesn't mean anything ironic,
just tell those girls from the perspective of men,
this cruel truth.
So, the rest of the way is up to you to choose and pay for it yourself.
To myself and to every girl we have to take care of.


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