"It's been a long time since I finished watching the movie at once." Jiajia next to me looked at me in surprise, "Don't you have private time?"
"Haha, there is time, but I won't use this time to watch movies."...
I used to be a person with a lot of time. I went to the store every day and looked for various things unrelated to work to kill time. But in the past two years, especially this year, time is my worst enemy and my best friend. In addition to work and family, I spend more time to enrich myself: exercise, reading, journaling and summarizing.
So I'm still very grateful to Sister Xia and Jiajia for keeping me and watching the movie "Dad 102" together. There are not many movies that can give me this kind of impact in recent years, and I can't calm down for a long time after the end!
"Old man vs old heart?"
When I first saw this strange name and poster, I thought it would educate me with absurd plots, and when a 102-year-old super grandpa came home with a model of Wang Chongbei who broke the Guinness record at the age of 118, And I used this to educate my 75-year-old child. I was slapped heavily - in my thirties, I "teach" others from time to time, and I don't like other people's suggestions. This is worthy of what I call openness. Thinking and humility!
People need examples, the old man needs Wang Chongbei to stimulate himself, and he understands that his son needs to be pushed; we on the screen also need his example.
His mentality and concepts are better than ours. If you want to live a long life, you must have a good environment and mood, and stay away from dead and expressionless people. Even if this person is a son, you should kick him away, or even send him to a nursing home. This is the beginning of the chapter. The big laugh is also the beginning of the various spoofs below.
"102 years old or 16 years?"
Looking at the happiness of the old man, what I keep thinking of is "The Power of Now". The book says that three types of people are most likely to live in the present: children, the elderly and the drunk. The old man doesn't have so many desires and distractions. When he really wants to do one thing, he can be purer than people of any age. The old man wants to set the Guinness World Record. For him, it is not that he has lived to be 102 years old, but ONLY 16, he can set a new record!
At first, I really thought he was disgusting his son, but among the various goals he gave his son, knowing his son Mo Ruofu was so thoughtful and full of fatherly love! Including telling my son at the end, you only need 43 years.
I, there are more than ninety years?
"I have such a dad vs can I be such a dad?"
In the past, when I watched a movie, my hands were always pointed at others. Now that I am a parent, I start to reflect, can I be such a father? I once copied my father's old-fashioned style, and my wife still mentions it from time to time. As a parent, one of the things you don't want to hear the most is your child's denial of "I don't like/hate the same as you!" How ignorant I was when I was young!
Jumping out of a store that has been in business for 11 years, many people do not understand, but I am really afraid of dying in my twenties and being buried in my 80s; even more afraid of having a generation gap with my own children, Can't even give them an example.
Fortunately, in the past few years, I have changed the environment, acquired the habit of reading books, met different people, and lived a more interesting life. I want to be their role model.
"Love VS Hate"
When the grandfather rejected his grandson, the color of the whole picture darkened. I don't understand, this kind of thing should only be done by stubborn old people. Time is advancing slowly, and the heated conversation on the second night of my son's birthday is like a quarrel among many families.
Many disputes start because of their own right, which is more likely to happen at home. Amo began to ask for it when he was studying. After working, not only did he not give it to any family, but he also took his father's pension. Even when his mother was dying, he was unwilling to come back, and he became an out-and-out white-eyed wolf; The son is the only focus, and there is no other expectation; the old man believes that the child should be as happy and long-lived as himself...
Boss Du often said: There is no right or wrong, only if you like it or not. Amo's room has been well preserved for 21 years. As soon as he heard that he was coming, Babu asked someone to clean it meticulously; even if his father objected, he would not hesitate to file a lawsuit to see his children and grandchildren; he bought all kinds of medicines and daily necessities, for fear of omitting them. Half the mood is the common denominator of being a parent!
"Hate or wake up?"
When Babu knew that the old man was actually terminally ill, and that the old man was not because of selfishness, but for himself, he seemed to understand! So I opened the photo album at the airport, scolded Babu in front of everyone, and threw the piggy bank in anger! I was worried that the style of this movie would change, just like a lot of times I don't know what a happy and harmonious family is, whether it is to compromise, or to be wonderful! ?
When the old man got home, he found that the lights were off, and when he kept calling for his son, he saw that Babu cut the blanket that had been with him for 65 years. He laughed so happily! In two ceremonies, Babu was reborn: smashed his own imagination and cut off the memory of the past.
When we look at other people's actions, we are always indifferent, and it takes great courage to break through by ourselves. Dag Hammarskjöld in "Reverse Business" said: "Don't estimate how high the mountain is before reaching the top. Then you will know how small this mountain is." When I smiled at Babu's various attachments, I couldn't help thinking of my blind spots and fears, yes, it was never someone else who limited me, but my own terrible old thinking .
The small achievements in the past should not be just bragging at the wine table, nor should they be used as an excuse for age, they should be the confidence to continue climbing, I should even forget them, and always focus on what I want and become what I want to be. people!
"I need a whistle!"
Father and son each blow a whistle throughout the film, Dad applauds Babu's awakening, and Babu applauds Dad for ending his wonderful life. At that moment, my tears almost fell.
Life never prepares you too much, and adversity often catches you off guard.
When I was a child, I liked to watch martial arts movies, and I used to envy the peerless masters in it the most. Don't talk about martial arts now, it's good to be able to keep the weight, but the pursuit of the strong has never stopped in my heart.
The year before last, I read the Unity of Knowledge and Action when I was the most anxious. Since then, I have fallen in love with reading, focused on my inner self, and stayed awake. Deal with everything in life calmly, be happy when things are going well, and find ways to use it as a stepping stone in the face of stumbling blocks; see and accept the facts, not what I thought, believing that everything will get better and better; don’t ask for shortcuts I believe that all positive efforts will have positive returns; I believe that there is a magical force in the universe guiding me until I complete my mission.
Thanks again to Sister Xia and Jiajia who left me, especially Sister Shu Yun, the founder of Yunkaxiu. I look forward to more guidance and collision of ideas in the future. May we live more than a hundred years, and the days to come will not only be wonderful, but also Be an example and illuminate others.
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