This movie earned me a lot of tears. After watching it, I went back and gave people two stars. It seems a bit unkind, but I really don't like it. If it weren't for the fact that everything other than the plot - the soundtrack, editing, image processing, etc. - was impeccable, I'd probably give it one star.
For a long time, the Japanese have a very strange tendency, everything can be doubted and everything can be subverted, only love cannot be doubted or subverted. In the eyes of the Japanese, love is perfect. But everyone knows that, let alone perfect love in the world, even good love is pitifully rare. How to do?
So they strip love layer by layer from reality and isolate it. Just an ethereal "love" is good. True love can forgive everything. You do a lot of evil, domestic violence, useless waste, emotional intelligence is 0, what should I do? The Japanese tell you, it's okay! As long as there is love! as long as you love! Well, everything before that can be forgiven. Long live true love!
The father is a person who is under the heavy pressure of life and is unsmiling. Out of excessive distress and preference for the weaker daughter, the eldest daughter's envy of her sister eventually outweighs her affection, and she throws her fist at the innocent sister in anger. Running away from home eventually made the family one after another in depression. But it doesn't matter! Father has love! You see, after the eldest daughter ran away from home, even though the father was even! What! thing! All! No! Do! But I still write the name of my eldest daughter in my diary every day until she ends up in depression! He has love, you know! He must be forgiven!
曾经才华出众，如今却江郎才尽的八女（性别男）虽然会揍自己女票，揍得鼻青脸肿，但没关系，他有爱啊！You see, he wrote the last words "I'm sorry for being human" with love and guilt, and then fell on the track (well, it's on the track, please don't pay attention to these details) and committed suicide. He loves pine nuts, you know! He must be forgiven!
As for the dragon, oh, look how deeply he loves Matsuko. First, when he was a teenager, he didn't understand why he had that kind of emotion, and in anger he destroyed the beautiful things in his eyes and ruined Matsuko's normal life. Since then, Songzi has been displaced, and if he refuses to repent no matter what, he will go to the underworld and return to domestic violence when he returns home. Then, he beat up Matsuko, who was waiting so hard for him to be released from prison because he fell and lame, which made him completely despair of life for a long time. but! It's all because he loves so much, you know? You people who have never really loved, you know? Of course, choose to forgive him! !
Let's look at pine nuts again. Talent! From the people's teacher to the gangster Taimei, everything can be played. After all, what are her views? After the whole movie, Matsuko's three views are blank, nothing more than: I want to be loved, as long as I am not alone, I will do anything.
desperate for love. What kind of love she wants. Whether you love her or not. As long as there is a man who can stay by her side, even if he sleeps with other women (the man that Matsuko killed, before he drove Matsuko out of the house, Matsuko could endure anything, watching the man's new love It's okay to get out of bed after rolling with a man), he's a complete scum (dragon), beating himself up, it's fine as long as you're willing to be my long-term buddy, ah no. Just say you love me! Flower rub. Sister, in fact, what you need to find is not a male ticket, but a male host, which will definitely make you happy for a lifetime.
Does she love male teachers? Love, nice teeth. Does she love eight girls? Love, great talent. Does she love a married man? Does she love speculators? Does she love hairdressers? Does she love dragons? Does she love singers? do not love. She just wanted to get love from them, that's all.
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I want to seriously point out that although I've been in a perfect relationship twice in my life, and went into a happy marriage the second time (I'm not really pulling hate, please look at me Sincere eyes), however, in this world, good love is definitely a scarce commodity, and it is by no means a share for everyone, seeking benevolence. And when you can't get good love, it's better to lack than to waste. Bad feelings will only gradually turn into hatred, depression and despair, don't have any illusions, and don't be foolishly moved by the movie, thinking "I can bear him/her for a lifetime". When the word "forbearance" appears in your mind, "a lifetime" has disappeared.
then what should we do? The title line, "I was not born to love". So why?
For me, the answer is, A better myself. To create a better self.
My thinking has changed in an amazing way. Since the total number of masturbation times in my life averaged to at least two times per day in my life, for a long time I thought I would masturbate to death before I was 30 years old, so I felt that my life So short, I have to try my best to make my parents happy, or I will be too sorry for them. When I was in my early twenties, I suddenly realized that masturbation can't kill anyone, and I suddenly got out of the idea of "I live to make my parents happy" - the track of living alone, at most, I ran to the middle and late stages. My parents shouldn't be with me anymore. What do I do after they pass away? Continue to hang the meaning of your life on your wife and children?
I don't allow myself to do this. When I was a child, my parents were not on good terms, and my mother often burst into tears when I was naughty and said, "What hope do you give me in life?" - Her "hope" in life is completely hung up on me. A wild horse was turned into an old ox on the farmland, and it has nothing to do with the heavy yoke on its shoulders. I am more or less determined not to put the meaning of my life on my wife and children.
So what am I living for? Where am I going? How can I not be overwhelmed when I am faced with the greatest doom? After stripping away all that society has given me, what is left of me, as a human being?
Socrates said, Know yourself. This is exactly what the pine nuts in the movie have never done from the beginning to the end. She just lived with the flow, trying to catch a leaf of duckweed that passed by her in the waves, but she never thought of growing her own roots, or, even if she had her own roots, she could carelessly Pull the roots out (hair salon job), "It's all about love".
How can a person who has no self-core at all teach others to love himself? In any case, the person Matsuko does not exist, and there is no entity called "Matsuko" that people can fall in love with. She is just a body, a "love debt collector". why do i love you Because you love me so much. And why do you love me? Because you need my love. That's right, in Japanese literary and artistic works, "love" is often simply stripped into such two unfounded ouroboros, as if love didn't pop out of the void, even if it came out of a stone. , would impair its purity.
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The last thing I want to talk about is the disgusting media effectiveness of this movie as a Japanese movie. Japan is a seriously sexist society, even though Japan has tried its best to compensate women with legislation in terms of actual interests, but as women, they are first deprived of "possibility" to be independent as a person, not "" The possibility of "So-and-So's wife" in society. A lot of experiences of women in the movie, being ignored by their fathers, being sexually harassed by their bosses, being domestically abused, being cheated on (the one who was cheated was not Matsuko), being persuaded by their husbands to play AV (Matsuko's good sister), and becoming the target of violence against minors , These are the real situations that will occur in Japan, and even more common social problems, and what kind of answer does this film give to women who have these troubles?
- It doesn't matter, at least you still have a home! Look at how pitiful the lonely Matsuko is, she still envies her good sister, she can't rob a man but a low-value wife - who deserves it, who makes her not good at cooking, looks beautiful and feels comfortable Useful for fart, what kind of wife can't cook! It's better to go to hell with a dragon than to be alone! Remember, in a lifetime, what matters is not how much you get, but how much you give! Be a great woman like pine nuts!
WHAT
THE
FUCK! !
Talking about it, I really have the heart to hit one star.
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