deep world dream
At every stage of growth, a person must obtain a sense of achievement at this stage, that is, a sense of self-worth. Songzi has never obtained it. This is the root of Songzi's problem. Her father always faces her with a sideways face. She only gets a little face with a face So her self-identity value at each stage is a grimace, so her whole life is a funny grimace. She is a student Aaron's god friend Xiaohui said that she can say anything with her, but she can't see her own value because she doesn't have herself. Longing for the love of the outside world to face the outside world to find herself with the eyes of the outside world She is looking for herself in the process of looking for love, but she sees the filth of the world
People who don't have themselves will not get along with the world and spend their whole life perfecting themselves. To improve themselves, you must first find yourself, grow for yourself, and establish a sense of boundaries.
The finale sums up her life with the outside world. She cares about the children who don't come home. What she gets is a sap
Those who know how to love themselves know that love in this world is nothing but pure. In fact, Matsuko has a very pure side, so she rationalizes what she sees in the world. She even makes excuses for it, but it is her who hurts. She is always with broken and lowly men. It's because people with low self-esteem and no self-worth have no bottom line of choice, and people in the sewer can better recognize the warmth of the sun, and normal people in the world will use her as a tool.
The issue of the family of origin has also received wider attention now. This is also China's progress. Correct and healthy love is seeing (the other person's feelings) and responding to the father's feeling that he has never seen Songko. The father loves her but ignores the child's feelings in a right way. Matsuko grew up according to her father's wishes for the first half of her life. The father expressed his desire to express himself with his desire to control. He raised Matsuko, but he raised this little girl who could sing. The pain of Matsuko is that she does not have her own one-child family in China. This kind of thing is also a lot of habitually denying the child's strong desire for control. If you are cold, the child will be cold. In fact, it is the summer jacket. Behind the desire to control is the desire to express. You love your child rather than love yourself. Love is to see the other party's feelings and respond, but how much People who are selfish can only see their own feelings, even if they understand the truth, parents can't do it. How difficult it is to endure their own thoughts and feelings. Many people do not have the ability to love
Yes, many people do not have the ability to love. Because of human selfishness, pine nuts are humble, so they fall in love with "no-self", but they are not really self-less. They are depressed in their hearts, isolated from the outside world, or numb themselves with worldly fantasies. Kind and pure, but worldly dreams Deep down, still didn't wake up
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